Am I the only one disturbed by this?

[Dixon Carter Lee]

Yes, Endlessly, but it doesn't say how many people in each category are happy. If people should get divorced they should get divorced, not stick it out because they share a common faith and "We're going to make this work for God." which is exactly what I've seen a lot of deeply religious couples do. Staying married doesn't mean you "win". Often it just means you've "settled".

I suppose the secret is marrying the right person in the first place. I do like that the Catholics and some other faiths require the couple to go through "training" before the wedding. For older, more experienced couples it may not be neccessary and, in fact, can often be overly intrusive, but it's important for very young people to udnerstand the gravity of what they're about to undertake. Outside of a church community two kids who think they're going to live on air and kisses rarely get sober guidance like that.

I have too much to say about marriage in general that I'd rather keep to myself, but I will say this -- you'll know it's right when you care more about "Us" than about "You" or "Her".

As for Dee's vomitous rant about what a "ho" is, and other posts -- what you don't know about women could fill the Library of Congress twice over.

 

[dee_cole]

Angelique my dear, your defensive attitude only serves to shine the light of guilt on you. Why don't you share your experience with your fellow readers. If you are married I'd bet my last dollar that you have fucked around on your husband. I didn't doubt your intelligence until you questioned my own simply because I offended thee. Any one who doesn't agree with you is stupid? How juvenile is that?

Furthermore I will agree that I can be a bit of an asshole sometimes, as a matter of fact I embrace my "assholibility", I am simply playing Devil's Advocate and you are who I am playing with.

Now tell me about the time you got real drunk and those guys ran a train on you. Better yet, why do you cheat on your man? Is it because the other guy listens or because he has a bigger dick?

Who gives a fuck about brownie points? ....Bub...GETDAFUCKOUTTAHERE!


[Edited by dee_cole on 07-25-2000 at 02:07 PM]

 

[dee_cole]

DICKSON Carter Lee

Dixon, you need to stop ripping off quotes from Hallmark Greeting cards. You sound like a god damned Dr. Joy wannabee.
Tell us what you know about women. When was the last time you got laid? Probably been a while because you're so fucking sensitive. A woman wants a man to be a man. They don't want to hear that soft shit you're spitting.
They can talk to their girlfriends and their therapist for that shit. I may not know everything about women but I do know the most important thing...how to get their panties off.
I have some women who are just my platonic friends and we talk, I love them like sisters... but don't think for one moment I won't sleep with them if they give me a chance.
Women are a gift to the earth, the most beautiful creation, after babies, they can be great freinds, but keep things in perspective - don't talk like one. Unless....

I don't want to be nasty but this is a tough crowd. GeeFuckinWhiz!

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

I knew so many guys in high school who embraced their "Assholeability". They pushed and ranted through crowds like life was an eternal panty raid, and anyone who actually took time to form an argument or look up a fact or design a bridge or do anything that wasn't about "Gettin' fucked up" or "Partyin'" or summing up a conversation they don't have a large enough vocabulary for with the phrase "You know what I mean?" was either a "fag" or a "dweeb", or their father. All chicks are cunts and all guys are dudes and all movies have explosions. And they all, ALL, think they're the nicest, simplest regular guys who just "say it like it is" and can't understand why anyone would think they were in any way a bigot or a misogynist or just a dope. God save us from guys who "embrace their assholeability."

 

[Lasher]

Ummm...Does this sound Gay to anyone else (Not that there's anything wrong with that)

as a matter of fact I embrace my "assholeability"

I think you meant "assholibility" there, dee_cole-i. If you make it "-ability" you're saying that your asshole is able to do tricks or something.... Which may be what ya meant. It's really hard to fucking tell.

Now, as far as "embracing" your "tricky asshole" goes, I'm not gonna touch that one.... Heheheheee.....

Keep this up and you'll be speaking English in no time.

You can thank me later.

 

[Expertise]

Dee

What color is the sky in your world man.

I cannot fucking imagine any female with an IQ above room temperature falling for your shit.

Based on that I can only assume that your soul criteria for a potential mate, or for that matter a fuck is that she has the same number of chromosomes that you do...or are you that picky?

You are an ignorant, uncouth, uncultured, ill mannered and i'm guessing uneducated twat.

At the risk of being redundant I make the following suggestion.

Get some Heavy Metal records, play them backwards, listen to the messages, follow them to the letter and raise your country's IQ and lower its unenmployment rate all in one fell swoop.

My appologies for the use of multi-syllabic words I didn't mean to confuse you ...you know what I mean?

Finally since your obviously to fucking obtuse to realize it. I and most people here like DCL. Principly because he has something intelligent or humorous to say on a consistent basis, I don't like you because you do neither.

Now step away from the computer, go back down to your parents basement put on a nice porno movie open up a big bag of cheetos go at it till your dick is the same color as a traffic cone and make up some more multi-racial conquests in your head.

[Edited by Expertise on 07-25-2000 at 01:43 PM]

 

[Expertise]

Now i'm raising my assholeability

Hee hee hee!

 

[dee_cole]

Ok Dixon - truce

Dixon you're right, I don't want to be one of those guys. I could be a mysogonist and you could be a fag, but it does't matter really does it? Like the grownups used to say,"You boys play nice or don't play at all."
I hereby promise to refrain from making any offensive comments or posting any over the top threads.
I know that Angelique owes me one but it's cool. I am going to chill out dude. I will be respectful to women... even those who act like cunts.
Thank you Dixon Carter Lee for showing me the way to cyber-righteosness...ya know what I'm sayin'.

But remember Dixon "... the dark side of the force is strong. Never underestimate the power of the dark side"

 

[Endlessly]

Go, Expertise! I'm proud of you, m'man..

*LMFAO at Lasher* Okay.. I get the feeling I'm going to go through the rest of the day picturing little assholes doing tricks.. DAMN YOU..

(*giggling* Now they're wearing party hats.. see why I've never in my life been told to use my imagination?)

 

[Siren]

HEY ASSHOLE...YEA YOU DEE, I AM TALKIN TO YOU

 

[Angelique]

Angelique my dear, your defensive attitude only serves to shine the light of guilt on you. Why don't you share your experience with your fellow readers. If you are married I'd bet my last dollar that you have fucked around on your husband. I didn't doubt your intelligence until you questioned my own simply because I offended thee. Any one who doesn't agree with you is stupid? How juvenile is that?

Furthermore I will agree that I can be a bit of an asshole sometimes, as a matter of fact I embrace my "assholeability", I am simply playing Devil's Advocate and you are who I am playing with.

Now tell me about the time you got real drunk and those guys ran a train on you. Better yet, why do you cheat on your man? Is it because the other guy listens or because he has a bigger dick?

Who gives a fuck about brownie points? ....Bub...GETDAFUCKOUTTAHERE!

Ignorance running rampant again. My delusional fellow Literotican (embarrassed to even say that), perhaps you should re-read what I said...I did not STATE that you were stupid based on your posts, even though that may be obvious.

And now, you're also a poor man because you've wasted your last dollar on trying to make me fit the mold of the women you prefer. *sigh* Xander, baby, you know the truth here, which is all that really matters. *wink*

As for me "getting the fuck outa here"...ain't gonna happen. You see, the only person who has the authority to enforce that would be Laurel...and to the best of my knowledge, I'm in pretty good graces with her.

Now here's what I see from my own perspective, and I have a hunch that there are others who might just agree with me on this one. Hold tight there Dee...this may go right over that tiny lil head of yours, but trust me, it's on the mark.


Dee Cole is a cruel braggart who hates women. His insecurity screams from every sentence of his painfully-revealing posts. Abusive and rude to the point of driving away those who are exposed to his rantings, he entertains himself with the sound of his own voice. And here he inflicts his psychoses on us.

His worst problem is that he claims to know how "to get their panties off," but Cole's purpose in that is not so much to amuse himself, or the women, but to debase them. He suffers from a terrible emotional conflict, a crippling syndrome often called the "Madonna-whore complex."

Cole wants his women on pedestals, where they are protected from their base essential natures. He would make the authors of religious rules oppressing women seem like gentle saints by comparison.

But Cole can't be happy mastrubating, he wants to show these vicious, insidious beings who don't have penises, just how foul they truly are. So he hauls some unfortante wretch off the womanly pedestal, whips her into a dark corner, and rapes her. Sex in all things for Cole is rape even if the unfortunate victim told him "yes."

Now, of course, the pedestal is empty again. Cole couldn't return a sullied, foul female of lecherous soul to such a pristine place - he blames the victim for the rape.

So here he comes, to spread his diseased outlook. Rather, Cole exposes himself for a disgusting, perverted caricature of a human being who needs intensive phsychiatric care. This is the kind of tortured mentality that ends in serial murders of women. Don't let this man know anything personal if you vaue your safety.

End of Rant...you're not worth any more of my time.

Btw, does anyone else see a striking resemblance between Dee and kiss-met?


Oh, and thank you for your post, Siren...my guess is that this poor excuse for a man noticed that Laurel posted my pic in the profile section today and he felt an uncontrollable urge to try and win me over with his charm.

 

[Carl East]

A little miffed.

Dee, you trouble me, I sincerely hope and pray that you are the exception rather than the rule. If all guys thought the way you do, women would just be walking fuck machines. You attack women you don't know or have any understanding about, and your personality must SUCK. Now normally I would try to ignore people like you, but from how you treat women as mere sex objects for your pleasure, I just had to tell you, you are clueless.


Carl.

PS: Siren and Angelique happen to be the nicest most considerate people, I have ever known.

 

[Siren]

Carl...now that is a MAN

 

[dee_cole]

You're so deep Angelique it's scary

That sounds like some serious shit. You really think I have all of those problems. How much do I owe you, I know good psychosexual therapist would probably run upwards of $200 per hour. You just shrank me for free.
You people crack me the hell up. This site is for people who enjoy pornographic literature, albeit anonomously, yet and still...I come out and openly call a spade a spade and the floodgates open up like I insulted your mothers or your religion.
Now here this. Never mind go to my new thread.

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

Calling a spade a spade was your problem, dee.

You took the high road with me and I'll do the same, though I reserve the right to post when I think someone's being offensive.

 

[Angelique]

No payment is necessary Dee...just knowing that you acknowledge how my keen mind works is thanks enough.

I enjoy offering psych services to the poor and needy. But alas, your time is up...now run along...shoo!

 

[Lasher]

I'm glad someone thought it was funny...

*giggling* Now they're wearing party hats..

I gotta know, Endlessly - are they real assholes, or are they like cartoon assholes? I kinda pictured little cartoon assholes wearing the party hats and dancing in a kick-line (like the Rockettes would)....

Of course, they all have big shit-eating grins on their faces, too....

 

[gatherer]

marriage and trust

My rational:
Jealousy, it is part of the evolutionary makeup just as fear and exitement are part of our makeup. Denying your jealousy is just that,
"Denial". Jealousy is a part of you, something to be recognized and reasoned with or to be burned by.

Marriage or partnerships or whatever you want to call it is a ceremony recognized by most if not all religions, cultures and goverments. Like jealousy it has been placed in our evolutionary path and serves a developmental purpose. I cannot think of any culture which does not endorse a vow of commitment. That is what marriage is, a vow. Whether you do it under goverment doctrine, or religious shindigs its something which should be honored or otherwise ended.
As far as the signs of cheating go, if you don't have absolute proof and don't have the means to get absolute proof. Then rely on trust, one of the reasons you married
in the first place, and let it pass and it will fall apart soon enough. If you can get proof then get it because you can use it as evidence to plead temporary insanity after you kill the bastard.

 

[Wizard]

Dee if a spade is a spade then your still a fucking asshole...I agree with others your post will not get a respones for me either in future threads...You aren't worth the time...

 

[Xander]

dee_cole. I have up till now, avoided to comment on any of your lame ass remarks on here. But attacking my friends and fiancee is just a little more than I will let pass.
You are nothing but a piece of shit that seriously needs to get flushed the hell out of here.
You say you call a spade a spade. And I say I know a fucking shiteater when I see one. And dee....You're it!!
To even imagine any woman showing the slightest interest in you, other than scraping you, like dog shit, off her boot. Is beyond me.

What did you do to get them to "service" you asshole?? Kill them??

But I'll give you this. You most be some sight. Personally I've never seen a man walk around, bend over, with his head up his ass before. But hey, there's a first time for everything.

Btw. Do you hear voices in your head??

Now, why don't you go find a nice big furnace. Switch it on and jump right in. Then you can sit in there and think happy happy thoughts about yourself.
You pathetic piece of wasted matter. You mamma most be very proud of you right about now.

Get the fuck out of here.

 

[Siren]

Xander WOWIE WOW WOW ......

 

[Wizard]

GO XMAN GO XMAN GO XMAN.........

 

[Angelique]

That's my man!

Well put, my darling. *smooch*

 

[Lasher]

OH, So that's it.....

Personally I've never seen a man walk around, bend over, with his head up his ass before.

So dee_cole-i really was talking about his "assholeability"!!

It all makes so much more sense now.

 

[Angelique]

Lasher, bud...check your mail hon. If I knew how to post that pic on the board, I would...but I think it sums up what Xander meant. LMFAO