Anal Advice

[NoviceNymph]

I have decided to jump in feet first here at the general board and ask something I have really been wondering about. I am dating a man who enjoys anal play, including manual stimulation and he hopes to eventually have me penetrate him with a strap on. I have two questions.

1) Do you think he would be offended if I wanted to wear a finger condom? Would you be? I think it would be more sanitary.

2) How hard is it to learn to use a strap on? I know that sounds right silly but to me it seems as though it may be difficult.

 

[LovetoGiveRoses]

Can't help you with this one, but I bet you get lots of comments within the next few minutes.

 

[Kitte]

I dont think he should be offended if you want to use a finger condom. I mean its your finger right! lol

About the strap on that I have no clue...so good luck!

 

[Rubyfruit]

I think finger cots are a good idea. It would feel better too. Nice and smooth.

 

[Allexus_TN]

Well, I have to agree with Kitte. I mean, its your finger. You have to wonder about bacteria in that area, esp if you might have a cut or something on your finger. Anal play needs to be clean play in my opinion. If he loves you, he should understand.

As for the strap on, can't help you there.

 

[SweetNSassy]

Finger condoms are a really good idea because of sanitary reasons. I would propose it like that. It is safer for him and you.

About the strap on, I have had plenty of experience with strap ons both male and female. At first it is difficult to use because we do not have penis' my suggestion is to get comfortable with wearing it. Wear it around the house play with it. Just to get used to it before you try any penetration because if you are comfortable it will go better and be more enjoyable for both of you.

Any questions PM me.

 

[perks]

I'd use a whole glove.

 

[Kitte]

Wear it around the house play with it. Just to get used to it before you try any penetration because if you are comfortable it will go better and be more enjoyable for both of you.

Any questions PM me.

ok I have to say this image made me giggle..I could see it now my neighbor walking in on me hanging out in my spankin new strap on! LOL sassy! gotta love ya chica!

 

[lovechild27]

I have this weird feelling that guys dont keep their butts as clean as girls...hahahaha. I would wear a finger condom definately. If he doesnt like it...well then you tell him to go find another woman willing to stick her fingers up his booty. That comment about wearing the strap on around the house made me laugh, but it does seem like a good idea....

 

[nakedangelina]

Well, I will say this. The first night I wore a strap on I walked into the kitchen for a drink and slammed the thing against the wall when I turned to leave!! *lol* It does take some getting used to, and as funny as walking around the house with it sounds, I have to say it is a good idea!

 

[Allexus_TN]

Well, I will say this. The first night I wore a strap on I walked into the kitchen for a drink and slammed the thing against the wall when I turned to leave!! *lol* It does take some getting used to, and as funny as walking around the house with it sounds, I have to say it is a good idea!

Now THIS is the image that made me hoot!

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Excuse me ....* raising my hand *

I have a question ... where does one buy " finger condoms".

Do you buy them or do you just use a regular condom and cut it around your finger ?!?!



Lol @ myself .....



But , seriously .... * serious happy face *

 

[nakedangelina]

Now THIS is the image that made me hoot!

It happened, and we both just about rolled on the floor laughing when it did!

 

[Cibo]

Excuse me ....* raising my hand *

I have a question ... where does one buy " finger condoms".

Do you buy them or do you just use a regular condom and cut it around your finger ?!?!



Lol @ myself .....




But , seriously .... * serious happy face *

LOL silly girl

 

[mistressastra]

Anal play: in all cases, wash wash wash. For peace of mind for both of you.

Strapons: don't forget the LUBE!

 

[NoviceNymph]

Thank you all for your advice. I am not sure how to go about approaching my BF about the finger condoms. Do I simply say to him that I want to use them? Or do I just start using them?

 

[Bindii]

Thank you all for your advice. I am not sure how to go about approaching my BF about the finger condoms. Do I simply say to him that I want to use them? Or do I just start using them?

I'd just buy them or gloves - the medical kind and tell him that you read somewhere that its more hygienic and it also protects his ass (read: sensitive membrane) from any sharp edges on your nails.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

LOL silly girl

Cibo,


You are making fun of me ?!?


No, seriously I honestly had never heard of " finger condoms".

Damn ! This little sheltered life I lead.....

 

[alvin462]

finger condoms

I have bought them at an adult store . As a man it doesn't bother me if the lady uses them . As long as we have fun .

 

[Mona Lisa]

I'd go with the gloves rather than the finger cots (which can be purchased at drugstores, btw). On the off chance that he really gets into it, you get into him getting into it, and you end up in up to your wrist, you'll really appreciate the full hand coverage. If he decides to take offense about it, remind him that fingernails are a lot more comfortable covered.

And yes, strapons are harder to operate than you might think. Listen to the ladies about this practice thing.

 

[Cibo]

Cibo,


You are making fun of me ?!?


No, seriously I honestly had never heard of " finger condoms".

Damn ! This little sheltered life I lead.....

No I wasn't making fun you hun.

Just kinda funny how you phrased your earlier post...hehe
And I have heard of them...never seen or used one before tho.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

No I wasn't making fun you hun.

Just kinda funny how you phrased your earlier post...hehe
And I have heard of them...never seen or used one before tho.

Whew!


Okay, I was just making sure ....

 

[Cibo]

Hey...8 more posts to 2,000...you gonna celebrate it at all?