Anal from the front

Crazy BBW has the right idea! I have found a pillow tucked under your ass helps on many occasions... but I have a pillow fetish... nice soft ones .... HE HE I sleep with a minimum of 3 ..
 
pogogirl said:
I have had nothing but bad experinces with anal. My boyfriends who have tried it with me were to eager to take their time and ended up hurting me. I swore for a long time I would never try anal again. I am slowly trying to get used to it by fucking myself with my vibrator. I would really like to try anal with a man again but I am still afraid of the pain. I read that if preping for anal penatration is done right there is no pain. Is this true?


Ah yes, the inconsiderate male lovers who have this tendency to think that a female anus is simply an extension of a vagina. However, suggest shoving something as thick and long as their dicks up their ass and they'll tell you it's "exit only."

I've been exactly where you are, and if it were up to me I'd have every single man who has ever attempted to shove his dick up a woman's ass without proper preparation and lube to be strung up by his balls. For hours. And then have a string of women go by with a 10" dildo to shove up his ass. Then ask him why he doesn't enjoy it. Can you guess this is a topic I'm a bit touchy about?

With proper preparation and a sensitive, caring lover anal sex can be enjoyable to both parties. Just the mandatory disclaimer here: not all women like anal, and some will never like it. If a woman gives it an honest try and decides it isn't something she likes, her lover needs to respect her feelings.

Anal sex should be attempted when a female is fully and completely aroused. I found, in the beginning, it helped if I had already had an orgasm or two first. Lots and lots and lots and lots and lots of lube! Did I mention lube? :) The anus is not a self lubricating orafice! It needs a lot of help in that department! Best lubes? Whatever works - buy stay away from petroleum based products and hand lotions. Use something like Astroglide or KY or Wet. It helps if a man inserts (slowly!) a finger and then perhaps two. The best position used is normally one in which the female is in control: either on top lowering herself or on her hands and knees. As a man pushes into her, the female should push out, as if having a bowel movement. This will relax the sphincter muscles and make entry almost painfree. What most women think of as "pain" is a discomfort of stretching. If there is pain, this should be communicated with her partner who should either apply more lube or withdraw. Try to discern if the "pain" is a feeling of stretching or of needing to use the restroom. A man should STOP once the head of his dick is inserted. He should allow the female to get used to the feeling of being stretched, as this is normally a feeling that is not normally felt. Then, the male must allow the female to direct the action, either telling him to continue to enter or by her moving against him. This should be done slowly, an inch or so at a time, to allow her to get used to this. It really helps if the one of the couple plays with the female's clit - takes her mind off of what is going on. Once full penetration is achieved (and this might not occur except after several attempts), the female must be allowed to direct the movement, until or unless she is willing to let the man begin to move. And once he does, it should be with slow, even strokes listening to her cues.

If a woman indicates she is in pain at any time, anal activity should be stopped! No whining or complaining! She's in pain, period. Afterwards, it is not uncommon to experience a slight discomfort in the rectal area that should only lasts for a few hours. (With experience, this goes away much quicker) Also, some women might experience constipation or diarehhea for a day afterwards. If there wasn't enough lube used, sometimes there might be some slight bleeding. This should clear up in a couple of hours and should only be a very small amount. If pain persists, if bowel movements do not return to normal, or if bleeding continues beyond 24 hours it is best to consult with a doctor.

The real tricks here are good communication between partners and a man who is willing to go slow, very slow in some cases. I've found that, with younger men, it helps if they have already experienced an orgasm. That way the urgency to orgasm isn't quite as strong and they are more willing to take the time necessary to make a woman comfortable with anal sex.

Good luck!
 
Anal from the front is nice, but it's always nicer if it's not 'full frontal'...meaning, I suppose, a scissors position instead. Woman on her back, one leg over his shoulder and the other down on the bed? It allows him to rotate his angle so that it doesn't hurt her.

Man, I sound like an instruction manual, lol.

I need to get laid. *sigh*

S.
 
Getting anal from the front was ok, but then I thought it would be interesting to get it from the back, but I liked that even less. So we tried out something else: me on top. Now, THAT was an entirely different story. There is absolutely nothing better than that!!!
 
pogogirl said:
I read that if preping for anal penatration is done right there is no pain. Is this true?

Read the book "Anal Pleasure for Women" (or something like that). It's AMAZING, I've given it to all my lovers. It's informative, humorous, and will really help.

Two additions to the phenomenal advice already provided. Not only do you have to relax back there, but there's another set of muscles that are autonomic. IE, not under conscious control. That's why initially inserting a finger can help. It can also mean going through the insertion process twice! After someone's used to anal, we usually skip that step.

Lastly, don't have the man slowly enter you. Only the woman can direct the action and it's far more useful to do that physically than verbally. Have the guy maintain his position, and move onto him at your pace. Lotsa' lube, gradually let yourself get comfortable millimeter by millimeter. Don't bother backing off, if you feel uncomfortable simply stop and wait for your body to relax/adjust.

Oh yeah, bexhale[/i] during insertion (or inward strokes).

Have fun,

randy
 
Anal sex is extremely wonderful as is vaginal. Just a different feeling altogther. I have never tried from the front but have from the back and that is quite intense and also have tried with me on top and that is wonderful also. Will have something new to try now. There are a lot of fears with anal but it is something that you should try it is very enjoyable if you take your time and communicate with your partner. Using lots of lube is essential and relax. I think anal is something that more people are curious about but are not exactly sure of what to expect so try new trying new things can be wonderful for all .
 
One SO of mine really loved anal sex. When she was in the right frame of mind she could cum from a standing start in under two minuets, not that she didn't also enjoy switching to anal after a few warm-up orgasms...

When we had our first date, which was also our first night of wild sex, near the end she stood up on the bed and then leaned over to put her head on the pillow and assume a 3 point tripod position, feet spread, legs straight, bent deep at the waist, ass high in the air. Then she told me I could put my cock anywhere I wanted any time I wanted to just as long as I told her first before I started pushing in.

Damn it, she was still incredibly hot and going strong but I'd already cum three times, the last one shortly before she presented herself. I wasn't prepared with either lube at hand or a stiff enough prick to drill into her. She was disappointed when I didn't take her that way, but didn't let it show and moved on to trying to revive me.

From that time on, I kept condoms and lube handy. It wasn't long before we were again in the sack, missionary position, and a slow fuck just underway. While I gently pumped away, she asked what I thought about anal sex.

Reaching into the bag for lube and a condom, I ask how she wanted to try it. Her response was, just like we were -- her on her back and I entering from on top.

I started playing with her anal ring with a finger and found it already relaxed. One finger easily slipped in and rotated and stroked a couple of times and then it seemed worth testing a second finger.

Two fingers met a bit of resistance so I didn't try to force them all the way in. I was ready to spend time loosening her up, but she called for two fingers to go in all the way, right away. When I started pulling them out she said she was ready, total time maybe 20 seconds, 30 max.

I stopped as soon as I got my dickhead inserted so she could adjust. I worried about the angle and how deep I should/could go because I'd had past experiences with lovers who needed things lined up just so. After only a 10 second pause she told me to slowly slide all the way in as deep as I could go.

As I sunk into her tight ass she rolled her hips a bit so I was pushing toward her belly button instead of her spine, while I'd expected her to want penetration toward her back. When I bottomed out she told me to go for it.

Still being concerned about what discomfort I might be causing her, I settled into about half length strokes and noticed they were aimed about the same as when I went for her G-spot. Then she told me to go as fast as I wanted, and 30 seconds later she was orgasming.

I couldn't believe how fast things had happened. That evening she'd pulled me straight into her pussy, bypassing oral. We had just started fucking and I knew she was several minutes from her first orgasm when she had us switch to anal. It was truly just a very long minute from when I entered until she announced she was cuming. I'd never had an experience that quick.

Her climax was fast and hard and so soon after I entered her ass, and then she made me keep going until I came myself inside her rear. I'd used the condom so that we could easily switch back to vaginal but she didn't want to stop until I'd finished so the sheath came off a limp dick, not a hard one.

And most remarkably, my entering with us face to face her on her back did not cause her any pain or discomfort -- or whatever happened was what she expected and desired. There were later times when I did hit the wrong angle, and she let me know very quickly. We were communicating and I'm sure that if something was wrong she would have had me stop or adjust.

Afterwards she was like the cat who swallowed the canary, draw me out with knowing smiles about how good anal sex felt for me, and how she knew how much I'd enjoy doing it regularly. Then she told me how much she liked it and wanted it and encouraged me to go for it anytime I wanted.

We practiced anal sex in several different positions, depending on the flow of things. I think she got the longest and most intense experience from the tripod, but she chose the face to face from the front position a little more than the others because of the intimacy.

Ocassionally other lovers have really had a good experience from the front, but most times they are agressive and want to be able to push back onto me or control the angle from on top. But every now and then I like to hold their legs up and just slowly slide down until I'm laying on top of her.
 
As usual, SexyChele comes through with great advice! And thanks to ReadyOne for the nice story, too.

I just have one thing to add, and it's my usual spiel:
Do not go from ass to pussy directly. This will cause infection in 90% of women. The easiest thing to do if you are fluid bonded is to wear a condom for the anal, then when you're ready to switch back to vaginal just peel off the condom. Even licking both at the same time (without protection) is inadvisable, because you are smearing the bacteria from her ass to her cunt. Trust me, this is not something she will love you for doing.
 
Well, I was looking at the list of thread's I've posted on and noticed this one again. And just having had another near and dear to me anal experience last night, I feel like reporting. Not to mention that it was anal from the front.

We traded e-mails a couple of times yesterday and by the last one "I love you" had grown into "I can't wait to get my hands on you". When she got home, SO was affectionately clingy and stayed right next to me while I brought out some snacks. We sat on the stairs and ate, and all the time she waited for me to make a move on her.

Eventually we went upstairs where I undressed her, put her nice things away, and then undressed her again as she was starting to pull on jeans when I finished in the closet.

I really took control then and put on face down on the bed, holding her arms over her head and spreading her legs with a my knee between them and kissing her back and neck -- something which can almost always jumpstart things or quickly ratchet things up a notch or two.

When I switched to tracing over her back with light finger tips she started teasing me about watching porn while she was at work. I mentioned a few threads on lit but assured her I hadn't watched movies in a long time. When I got down to her legs, I spent extra time spreading her ass cheeks, exposing everything, and encouraging her swollen wetness even further along a bit with my fingers.

Then turning her onto her back, I started kissing her from forehead to (long delay at) her lips and then down her throat again to reach her breasts. When I positioned myself between her legs, I grabbed the lube bottle off the dresser to have beside me.

Nibbling and sucking her pussy lips made her squirm and give little moans of encouragement. Likewise, running my tongue around her entrance and up the inside of her lips got her pelvis moving to try and put my tongue in direct contact with her clit. I went up and over and all around the hood, trying not to directly stimulate it while she squirmed. I finally had to grab her hands away from my head and hold them underneath her butt to keep control.

When I sucked hard on the lips and hood surrounding her clit, her tummy turned rock hard as a full-blown orgasm hit. I kept it going by flicking her clit with the tip of my tongue until she started gasping.

Meanwhile I changed to hold both her hands (still underneath her) with just one of mine so I could insert two fingers inside her pussy. It was tight, and as I pushed in she was pushing back out against them. I finger fucked while keeping at her clit until she collapsed panting and her uterus stopped spasming.

As her sides relaxed I felt the magic spot just inside roughen up again. Circling over it and also sliding down over it from further inside started a G-spot orgasm. I pressed harder and harder as her body reacted more and more. When I let go of her hands so that I could press down firmly on her tummy just above her pubic bone she welcomed the extra pressure it brought. I didn't stop until she called for me to ease up until after her arching and quaking had gone on for a good minute.

After I granted her rest, her hands came out from underneath her and grabbed at me. Calling that she wanted me inside her, she tried to pull me to her and get us fucking for real.

Instead, I sat up. Staying between her legs to keep them spread, I groped to find where the bottle of lube had rolled. When I had a daub on two fingers, I pushed her knees up, used my other hand to spread her cheeks, and started playing with her ass hole.

One finger slid in easily. I worked as much lube as I could through her anal ring and slowly finger fucked her a while. With a second daub, I pushed against her opening with two fingers and encouraged the lube between them to go inside her. With a third daub of lube, I slowly drilled two fingers inside her and as I felt her relax, I started the two fingers moving in and out until I was going as deep as possible.

When things were loose I told her to grab a pillow and withdrew to start lubing up my cock. After she got the pillow jockey into position under her, I lifted her legs straight into the air and rolled her hips up a bit more until I could see her puckered entrance.

Taking aim to slide straight in, I pressed the head of my dick against the opening. While we gazed into each other's eyes, I slowly pushed forward until it popped inside and waited for her to relax again. The look of pure bliss on her face was incredible as I slowly sunk all the way in. Her eyes lost focus on me after I started long slow strokes, and she left this universe.

Occasional soft "ohs" and "ooos" came back from her pleasure space to where I was feeling the ever-increasing need to cum myself. I changed my thrusting pattern to keep myself under control while she continued to build, and changed my angle to push up toward her belly button in the way that she says gives her the best feeling.

I can't really tell when her anal orgasms start. They just seem to grow and grow until I realize that one has arrived in all its glory, and I hear her make a quiet declaration or two about its cuming. Then she stays on sensory overload for a long time, and finally tells me to finish up.

This time I didn't have to finish up when she signaled. I'd cum myself in one of the most intense ejaculations I'd had for quite a while, with an overabundance of semen held inside me by the pressure of her anal ring around my dick until the delayed explosion forced the first load down through my cock and into her bowels. I felt a second, and then a third move with a volume that seemed almost as big as my first release and with an intensity that definitely surpassed it. Then I twitched several more times adding to what I'd already delivered to her, all the while continuing my rhythmic motion.

My orgasm preceded hers by a considerable bit, but as sometimes happens to me, my cock stayed rock hard. Part of the appeal of anal sex to me is the increased pressure all over my dick. The stimulation is more intense than when inside a pussy, closer to what I can give myself when I jerk myself off. The sharp intense ejaculations from masturbation also carry over a lot to anal.

When she finally gave me the go-ahead to cum, I "faked it" by making the short hard thrusts I often use when each discharge comes out of me, grunting with each one, and then telling her how full I'd just filled her ass. She may have peaked again -- I hope so! -- and then we quickly wound down.

I eased out, still hard, and after a quick wash, was still firm enough to climb back on and slowly move inside her as we kissed and clasped each other tight and thanked each other for the wonderful experience. And I didn't slip out when we finally rolled on our sides and I drifted off for a bit. She, of course, was hungry and ready for the real dinner!
 
I just emailed that little story to my lover. Ya think its too obvious of a hint?
 
and anal from the back

ReadyOne, that was excellent. It makes me want to share my morning -

We lay in bed for a while, knowing there was snow outside, not in any hurry to get up and shovel. His mom was in the other part of the house, getting up. We talked about a shower, but didn't actually move.

I started playing with his nipple, enjoying the harness... and reached lower to find his boxers opened and waiting for my hand and lips. After a few gentle sucks, I asked him to take out the piercings, and he obliged.

I enjoyed blowing him even more once there were no metal bits banging into my teeth as I took him all the way to the back of my throat, but I shifted around so that he could finger me. His hand kept wandering to trace around the tight ring of my ass, and my breathing told the effort it took for me to stay silent - he warned me he'd stop everything if I made any noise that his mom would hear.

I couldn't take it for long, and moved again to straddle him and slide down on him. I squeezed him as hard as I could as I slid up and down, and he paid me back by taking my nipple in his hand and pinching it as hard as he wanted. I leaned down to whisper in his ear, "It hurts so much - I love it." I completely lost track of time as I concentrated on enduring his torture and how good it felt to have him inside me. The smile on his face was evil satisfaction, and he reached down to play with my ass. I told him I'd brought some lube with me last night, but he surprised me by shifting under me towards the edge of the bed, and the dresser. I stifled my laughter as we awkwardly made our way over, me trying to keep him from sliding out of me. We reached the edge of the bed, and he pulled out a bottle - "Damn, that one's empty. Here ya go" - and he tossed me a full one. I dripped some on the sheets, and got a classic "Awwww - look whatcha DID!" as I grinned and slipped a wet finger into my ass. I whispered - "do you want me on top of you again, or - - ?"

"I don't care," he said, and the look on my face must have told him I needed him to do whatever he wanted with me, because he grabbed my hips and flipped me over, pulling me backwards to him on my knees.

I felt one finger slide into my ass easily, and then he started to fuck me again while he fingered me. I was just in heaven, and then he added another of his big fingers, and I felt that first bit of pain that was exactly what I wanted. He fucked me harder and faster as I gripped the edge of the matress with one hand, and buried my face in the pillow. He forced a third finger into my ass, and I took it as long as I could - harder, faster, deeper - until I reached back to feel his hand, touching the ring he wears at the base of his middle finger, amazed that he'd spread me open that far. I turned my head to look back him. "More lube - please?" I begged, and he was good enough to add a few drops.

I could feel his fingers in my ass, and his cock pounding into my cunt, and had to bite down on the pillow and reach back to my clit. Finally he fucked my ass...

anyways... it's been a very long time since I've had sex this good and I hope everyone here gets just what they need for the holidays, too!
 
Damn girl - that made my morning. Also made me very determinded to get MINE today! Sometimes being forced to stay silent is so hot........
 
pogogirl said:
I have had nothing but bad experinces with anal. My boyfriends who have tried it with me were to eager to take their time and ended up hurting me. I swore for a long time I would never try anal again. I am slowly trying to get used to it by fucking myself with my vibrator. I would really like to try anal with a man again but I am still afraid of the pain. I read that if preping for anal penatration is done right there is no pain. Is this true?

I've heard that too. I bet you've noticed that the list of "what to do in preparation" is really extensive. Be really aroused. Be somewhat stretched. Be excessively lubed up. Be distracted if you need to. Be with a partner that knows what he's doing.

See what I mean? That's a lot to take care of. And then there are simply people who don't enjoy it, no matter what, even if they dig anal stimulation and have the most devoted partner in the world. I know people who just don't enjoy vaginal sex. People are all wired in different ways.

Back to the original question, I enjoy the intimacy of missionary anal, but I find it more painful than our preferred position, spooning. Doggy-style anal? Only if T is feeling especially sadistic.
 
Must try it sometime

Vixandra said:
Haven't had it from the front either... going to have to give that a try one of these days, LOL.

Likewise.
 
My husband specializes in different positions. Has to try them all. I don't mind that a bit so yes, we've done it with me on my back facing him.

It was interesting that way, didn't hurt, felt great, but of course my favorite position period, is on my knees no matter which hole he is in.

Anal sex is so incredibly stimulating to me, it's almost too much. I have difficulty coming that way but I don't mind because it feels so overwhelmingly fantastic. Each little movement sets off waves of pleasure in me. I never want to stop. I can always come another way and believe me and I will usually more than once.
 
crazybbwgirl said:
damn it - this thread is making me horny. mmmmm anal....... Standing with your hands on the floor - or your ELBOWS on the floor! lol Or on top facing him, or facing away, or just hands and knees on the bed, or just standing in the shower hanging on to the edge of the tub for dear life, or on his lap on the couch so he can suck on your nipples too, or just......... mmmmm - oops - what was I talking about?


fuck i want to come to ohio!
 
My wife really gets into anal sex BIG time.She had tried it before me but had bad experiences.I kept working on her slowly eating her pussy and sneaking a tongue down to her ass and then slowly working a finger in and using a finger in her ass as we had sex.Then I would talk dirty to her as we had sex telling her how I would love to have my cock up her ass and finally she said Ok but be careful so I took my time and let her be in control of how much she took and how fast she wanted me to move.Soon I was able to hammer away at her ass just like it was her pussy and the rest is history,she now Loves anal in any position.We like to use two firm pillows under her ass,mainly the angle is better that way,her knees up to her shoulders and her rabbit vibrator in her hot cunt and as I shove my cock in her it shoves the vibrator in her pussy too.She cums everytime during anal sex also.Many times more than once.It really sucks about not switching back and forth from anal to pussy though because here I am slamming into her ass and she is yelling nasty things out loud.I look down and watch my cock go in and out of her tight puckered ass and I see that hot cunt open and swelled up clit sticking out and wetter than hell and I want so bad to fuck her pussy too_Oh well,on good nights I get both anyway after I wash up.So have fun people.Go for it and try different positions it is a blast.
 
I have done it both ways. From the front allows your man to use toys on you... From the back allows him to pound into you. It all depends on what you are in the mood for... I think you get more penatration from the front.. IMO.

All I can say it that the Orgasm that you can from anal is wild, wonderful, hard and intense...
 
I had a spontaneous anal orgasm yesterday. After we both orgasmed during anal sex we were just kinda standing there still attached, catching our breath (I was bent over the bed, he was standing behind me) when suddenly - without any extra stimulation - I just had another giant orgasm. Well - it was so intense we both nearly fell over! That's a new one for me. And we're getting older - I think we might invest in the oxygen tank next to the bed soon........
 
pogogirl said:
I have had nothing but bad experinces with anal. My boyfriends who have tried it with me were to eager to take their time and ended up hurting me. I swore for a long time I would never try anal again. I am slowly trying to get used to it by fucking myself with my vibrator. I would really like to try anal with a man again but I am still afraid of the pain. I read that if preping for anal penatration is done right there is no pain. Is this true?

I got over the pain with PLENTY of clitoral stimulation at the same time. Makes me cum like a rockstar everytime.

Oh, and we always do it facing, with me on my back and him on top.
 
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