Handjob Dirty Talk

[Cardinal]

Probably like a lot of married men, after 30 years of marriage my wife will often “take care of me” when she doesn’t want to have sex, which is often unfortunately.
Anyway she pretty good at the handjobs. Last week I asked her if she could add a little dirty talk while she’s giving me a handjob and surprisingly she said “sure” but the admitted she wouldn’t know what to say. So I’m asking for suggestions here and then I’ll compile it in a word doc for her.
So thank you in advance for your help!

 

[JuicyLittleKitty]

Her first time is a nice subject spiced up a bit maybe. I can remember very well the first time wandering hands found their way under my skirts to my special kitty place and nice big fingers fucked me where a cock would usually go. My first time wanking that big machine and learning to suck while my mouth was fucked, filled by a long, fat, hard cock. My first time fucking is a story in itself with a creaking bed, headboard banging on the wall in time to his thrusts, my breasts bouncing, a room filled with the scent of lust and the sound of flesh slapping on flesh. and stories can be adapted to the person. I guess you have to be a good story teller and like sex. Reading erotica is a help to get a handle on language and such. Do you describe " he stuck his hard cock in me and we fucked" or how your cunt ached for his sword of pleasure, how deep he got when that fuck tower was inside you, how hard and long he thrust until his cum fountain burst forth and he painted your cunt and womb with his cream? Kitty can keep a man's thoughts occupied while she pleasures his fuck tower with her little hands and mouth.

 

[RustyRedheadSpitfire]

Anyway she pretty good at the handjobs. Last week I asked her if she could add a little dirty talk while she’s giving me a handjob and surprisingly she said “sure” but the admitted she wouldn’t know what to say. So I’m asking for suggestions here and then I’ll compile it in a word doc for her.

A lot of spouses would have responded to that request with an eye roll and a lecture. She said “sure.” That’s a pretty good starting point.

The good news is that dirty talk doesn’t have to sound like something out of an adult movie. In fact, for most couples, it works better when it sounds like something the actual person would say.

Since she’s new to the idea, I’d suggest keeping it simple:

• “You like that, don’t you?”

• “I’ve been thinking about this all day.

• “You look good when you’re excited.”

• “I love how responsive you are.”

• “Tell me what feels good.”

Some women are also comfortable with playful teasing:

• “You’re not going to last very long, are you?”

• “Someone seems pretty eager tonight.”

“You look like you’re enjoying yourself.”

And some couples prefer affectionate rather than explicit:

• “I still enjoy doing this for you.”

• “I love making you feel good.”

• “Thirty years later and I can still get your attention.”

Personally, I’d encourage her not to memorize a script. The sexiest thing she can say is usually whatever feels natural coming out of her own mouth. A slightly awkward genuine comment will almost always land better than a perfectly rehearsed line that sounds like she’s auditioning for a role in a porn film.

After thirty years together, authenticity is usually far more powerful than a scripted performance.

 

[Salamneama61]

ربما مثل الكثير من الرجال المتزوجين، بعد 30 عامًا من الزواج، غالبًا ما "تعتني بي" زوجتي عندما لا ترغب في ممارسة الجنس، وهو أمر يحدث كثيرًا للأسف.
على أي حال، هي بارعة في الاستمناء اليدوي. سألتها الأسبوع الماضي إن كان بإمكانها إضافة بعض الكلام المثير أثناء قيامها بذلك، وللمفاجأة وافقت، لكنها اعترفت بأنها لا تعرف ماذا تقول. لذا أطلب منكم اقتراحات هنا، وسأقوم بتجميعها في ملف وورد لها.
شكراً لكم مقدماً على مساعدتكم!

أنا أيضا زوجتي تفعل ذلك وتحكي لي قصص عن ممارسة الجنس من صديقاتها

 

[lilmissholliex]

THe self-degradation... calling myself kinky names usually seems to work for a lot of guys!

 

[cartepostalelondon]

How about asking you if you can guess what panties she's wearing? Or if she's wearing, say a nightdress if you like it. Or if she's wearing pyjamas with a button up top if you'd like her to undo another button?