Anal Sex

[CDsuzie69]

Can anyone help me please? I have never had an orgasm through anal sex alone. I want to enjoy it but I can't get anything out of it. I have vibrators, a 6" plain dildo, a pulsating and vibrating dildo of 8" but no matter what I do with them I can't find the right spot. I enjoy the feeling of being filled but can't make myself cum with it. What am I doing wrong? Also I lose my erection once it's inside me is that usual?

 

[ZfrkS62]

It's not uncommon to not be physically aroused during play, from what I've read.

I've been chasing it off and on for a couple of years with no success. Come close a couple of times but no push over the edge. Probably one is this things you have to stop actively wanting and chasing in the moment.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I have been fucked hundreds of times by my trans girlfriend. I am never hard and I have never cum. At one time I might have cared as you do but no longer.

For your sake I hope you accomplish your objective since it seems to mean a lot to you.

 

[ellebrooks]

Not everyone is aroused to orgasm the same way. Just make sure it’s pleasurable.

 

[Rabidwolf71]

Can anyone help me please? I have never had an orgasm through anal sex alone. I want to enjoy it but I can't get anything out of it. I have vibrators, a 6" plain dildo, a pulsating and vibrating dildo of 8" but no matter what I do with them I can't find the right spot. I enjoy the feeling of being filled but can't make myself cum with it. What am I doing wrong? Also I lose my erection once it's inside me is that usual?

First, you need to find one that hits the right spot and you won't know right away. Don't get me wrong. I love being on all fours with my ass. In the air and having a fucking machine and that's what you really need honestly, to really get that orgasm, going it just moves better. And you can relax Vs having to use your arm. So fuck yourself for a few minutes. Doggy style, get everything looped up and warmed up. Then, lay on your back and have the machine where it's app at an angle to hit your prostate, go slow at first move your body around up-and-down with your hips, eventually you'll find it that makes your Body kind of Jump. It may even feel like you have to go to the restroom. Then, you know, you're in the spot. Once you start feeling that, let it keep hitting that area, speed it up, it usually gets the trick going. You'll feel like getting warm and tingly and feel like you almost have to pee. Just relax and you will have the most shattering. No hands touching orgasm, ever, make sure you've got plenty of lube. That way, you can enjoy the sensations as well as the sounds. If you want to have some extra fun, get some of that cum. Lube that actually looks like the real deal that way, when you 're done. You 'll feel so naughty

 

[Wonderer67]

Not everyone is aroused to orgasm the same way. Just make sure it’s pleasurable.

I would agree with this. I think people get hung up on what they see in porn.

FWIW, I fell into the trap of really trying to search for ejaculating from anal stimulation only. It did happen twice to me from my wife’s pegging, but out of the probably hundred times I’ve been pegged, it’s only happened twice.

And I cannot replicate it.

I can have pretty intense prostate orgasms and body orgasms, and core orgasms for anal sex, but no ejaculation except for those two times.

If you want to DM me, I can tell you what I did to achieve really good feeling prostate orgasms.

But everyone’s different. Even if I didn’t orgasm from it having something fill my ass feels really good to me.

 

[Cumpup39]

As a bottom faggot, my role is his pleasure, to make him cum in my mouth or boi pussy. If I cum or not does not matter. That said, when I let go completely and embrace my role as a sub bitch for a man is when I do release my sissy juice. If I am trying or thinking about it, it does not happen. When it is the furthest thing from my mind and I’m existing for his pleasure is when this sissy squirts.

 

[lowcollar]

I don't orgasm or ejaculate from anal sex. But, I do get an incredibly good sensation from it. I call it an assgasm where I border on cumming but don't. I also used to not stay erect. Now I often stay erect when being pegged or fisted.

 

[saintcero]

Can anyone help me please? I have never had an orgasm through anal sex alone. Also I lose my erection once it's inside me is that usual?

Like you I have never had an anal orgasm. I have tried all sizes and shapes of dildoes, vibrators and e-stim with no success, A small dicked guy fucked me all over his house. He put two loads in my ass on 3 different occasions but I never had an orgasm. During all that my cock was limp but leaking excessively. A larger cocked guy, 6.5” and 1.7” diameter fucked me until I started getting raw but no orgasm for me.

I bave given up on an orgasm but I have completely embraced being a limp dicked cock sucking submissive bottom bitch and I love it.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I bave given up on an orgasm but I have completely embraced being a limp dicked cock sucking submissive bottom bitch and I love it.

Me too. That's why when my trans girlfriend laughs and calls me her jealous wife, I love it.

 

[remington123691]

I have never orgasmed from anal sex. I did once using a prostate toy but I haven't been able to do it again. However I love getting fucked and get pleasure from the stretching of the anal sphincter and the feeling of fullness. Also the knowledge that I'm giving pleasure to my guy as a submissive slut turns me on..woof!

 

[CDsuzie69]

Well that certainly gave me ideas, and got me very horny too.

First, you need to find one that hits the right spot and you won't know right away. Don't get me wrong. I love being on all fours with my ass. In the air and having a fucking machine and that's what you really need honestly, to really get that orgasm, going it just moves better. And you can relax Vs having to use your arm. So fuck yourself for a few minutes. Doggy style, get everything looped up and warmed up. Then, lay on your back and have the machine where it's app at an angle to hit your prostate, go slow at first move your body around up-and-down with your hips, eventually you'll find it that makes your Body kind of Jump. It may even feel like you have to go to the restroom. Then, you know, you're in the spot. Once you start feeling that, let it keep hitting that area, speed it up, it usually gets the trick going. You'll feel like getting warm and tingly and feel like you almost have to pee. Just relax and you will have the most shattering. No hands touching orgasm, ever, make sure you've got plenty of lube. That way, you can enjoy the sensations as well as the sounds. If you want to have some extra fun, get some of that cum. Lube that actually looks like the real deal that way, when you 're done. You 'll feel so naughty

 

[Shyguy694unow]

First, you need to find one that hits the right spot and you won't know right away. Don't get me wrong. I love being on all fours with my ass. In the air and having a fucking machine and that's what you really need honestly, to really get that orgasm, going it just moves better. And you can relax Vs having to use your arm. So fuck yourself for a few minutes. Doggy style, get everything looped up and warmed up. Then, lay on your back and have the machine where it's app at an angle to hit your prostate, go slow at first move your body around up-and-down with your hips, eventually you'll find it that makes your Body kind of Jump. It may even feel like you have to go to the restroom. Then, you know, you're in the spot. Once you start feeling that, let it keep hitting that area, speed it up, it usually gets the trick going. You'll feel like getting warm and tingly and feel like you almost have to pee. Just relax and you will have the most shattering. No hands touching orgasm, ever, make sure you've got plenty of lube. That way, you can enjoy the sensations as well as the sounds. If you want to have some extra fun, get some of that cum. Lube that actually looks like the real deal that way, when you 're done. You 'll feel so naughty

as a virgin I have no advice but my dream fuck is to find a 7 or bigger to get on top of him and ride him like a cowgirl.

 

[UncleJunior]

Help me, help you.

I also have no frame of reference for an anal orgasm outside of that one time I got the wife real drunk.

Despite this, I tried my first anal sex story. This one's for the fellas if you catch my drift.

Tell me about how you cum from the ass.

or in one, I've only got that one time.

 

[whiteasianlvr]

What I've read so far in this thread misses the mark at least for me personally. Much of sex is not physical but psychological. For a man to lie under another is to give up something, to acknowledge the superiority of another man's manhood vis-a-vis one's own. That's been much of my own turn-on - as well as the additional mental aspect of receiving his seed. This gets me off as much or more than the physical stimulation of the act itself. Also, when taken missionary, his stomach can stimulate me as his cock massages my prostate while my legs are locked around him. This total self-giving is the submission my joy!

 

[Terrylipstick]

What I've read so far in this thread misses the mark at least for me personally. Much of sex is not physical but psychological. For a man to lie under another is to give up something, to acknowledge the superiority of another man's manhood vis-a-vis one's own. That's been much of my own turn-on - as well as the additional mental aspect of receiving his seed. This gets me off as much or more than the physical stimulation of the act itself. Also, when taken missionary, his stomach can stimulate me as his cock massages my prostate while my legs are locked around him. This total self-giving is the submission my joy!

Beautiful description… “my legs locked around him”. All I can add is to ‘pull his head down for a kiss’ and it’s heavenly

 

[whiteasianlvr]

Thanks Terry for the add-on....it does complete the vision of being totally taken!

 

[Felicity_Fellatio_CD]

Can anyone help me please? I have never had an orgasm through anal sex alone. I want to enjoy it but I can't get anything out of it. I have vibrators, a 6" plain dildo, a pulsating and vibrating dildo of 8" but no matter what I do with them I can't find the right spot. I enjoy the feeling of being filled but can't make myself cum with it. What am I doing wrong? Also I lose my erection once it's inside me is that usual?

First can I say just enjoy the pleasure of being anally penetrated, that's the starting point.
Secondly learn to fully relax, get yourself into a very aroused state prior to anal play and build the pleasure slowly.

Another tip is to stop trying too hard, stop chasing an orgasm, let it happen naturally.

Personally when I'm penetrated by a cock anally I climax pretty much instantly, with a dildo it takes a bit more work.

I get myself aroused first, just being xdressed gets me 75% to the point of climax anyway, my cocklette starts leaking, so I just tease my juicy cocklette right to the point of climax but stop, edge myself, keep myself right on the edge, then use the dildo, you will go over the edge once you start riding it, even if you have to tease yourself a little, you will climax hands free eventually, just through penetration

Also try to find your P spot with the tip of the dildo and concentrate on that spot, you will get there I promise.

Lack of erection during anal penetration is normal, don't be concerned about that, you will still climax but it will be far more intense than stroking your erection and cumming like that.

If you need any more help just DM me.

Fliss

 

[photobuff56]

Anal orgasms are the best, but it's been along time since having one. I achieved my the first time with a 12 inch rubber dildo. It has to hit your prostate just right over and over, the constant rubbing takes time and some not so long. I've also came with a dick in me while he was laying down and me sitting on top wowza

 

[Terrylipstick]

Had a really great experience today. Met with a longtime FWB and he invited another guy to join us. I started out sucking my friends cock and the new guy stripped down and showed me a very big cock. I blew both of them for a while and then my friend got on the bed and spread his legs and I went down on him and the other guy climbed up behind me. And pressed his cock against my well lubed ass. He pushed it straight in and fucked me hard until he orgasmed. He pulled out, showed me the full condom and got dressed and left. I spent the next 45 minutes fucking my friend and finished off straddling him cowgirl style. He kept trying to play with my cock and I begged him not to. I bounced up and down until his dick found my cum button and I shot a hands-free load of cum all over his chest. Best lunch date I’ll have all week

 

[remington123691]

Can anyone help me please? I have never had an orgasm through anal sex alone. I want to enjoy it but I can't get anything out of it. I have vibrators, a 6" plain dildo, a pulsating and vibrating dildo of 8" but no matter what I do with them I can't find the right spot. I enjoy the feeling of being filled but can't make myself cum with it. What am I doing wrong? Also I lose my erection once it's inside me is that usual?

When you relax your ass hole to take a dick the muscles that keep blood in you cock also relax, hence going soft during anal play. I suspect it's more normal than staying hard.

 

[DCRyanB]

Can anyone help me please? I have never had an orgasm through anal sex alone. I want to enjoy it but I can't get anything out of it. I have vibrators, a 6" plain dildo, a pulsating and vibrating dildo of 8" but no matter what I do with them I can't find the right spot. I enjoy the feeling of being filled but can't make myself cum with it. What am I doing wrong? Also I lose my erection once it's inside me is that usual?

Hi Susie, I’m not gonna lie, for me it’s way more mental, and I have found that smaller, less than 5inches is a guarantee for a handsfree orgasm. Perhaps you’re putting too much effort in trying to have one, and using too big of a toy. I mean, who doesn’t love the feeling of being opened up by a girthy thick, long smooth cock. I love being opened up and exposed. But I can never cum from pure penetration from a larger cock or toy. But, a smaller one, works every time. And very intense as well.