Any BI's out there?

[Stegral]

Amazing! I wouldn't have thought so many varied people would pick up only on the surface cues.
The seed... Are you sure that you 'really have no inclination'? You sound like you would be a most fascinating date!

You sound like you would be a most fascinating date Please elaborate for now I am curious..lol
I actually toyed with the idea of trying women after the proverbial "slap in the face" by the now ex when we broke up (all 4 of my full trust realationships ended with him going elsewhere b4 dumping me)...
I vowed I was finished with guys & was talking to alot of my Bi/Les friends & learned there was just as much drama in those relationships too...
& by the time I got up the nerve to approach a woman I trusted & felt close to, I found out she had very recently re-kindled with an old flame... & I just wouldn't feel right with him knowing... or seeing for that matter...( most guys like to see this I hear...)
Then almost right on cue, the fella I am with now started to show his intentions ... so I have yet to be with a female in any sense
(Kissing my daughter on the forehead good night is as close as it gets...LOL)
I do wonder what it would be like, but it isn't something that I feel comfy with at all...Nor willing to try at this point in time..

 

[Anniejustagirl]

You sound like you would be a most fascinating date Please elaborate for now I am curious..lol
I actually toyed with the idea of trying women after the proverbial "slap in the face" by the now ex when we broke up (all 4 of my full trust realationships ended with him going elsewhere b4 dumping me)...
I vowed I was finished with guys & was talking to alot of my Bi/Les friends & learned there was just as much drama in those relationships too...
& by the time I got up the nerve to approach a woman I trusted & felt close to, I found out she had very recently re-kindled with an old flame... & I just wouldn't feel right with him knowing... or seeing for that matter...( most guys like to see this I hear...)
Then almost right on cue, the fella I am with now started to show his intentions ... so I have yet to be with a female in any sense
(Kissing my daughter on the forehead good night is as close as it gets...LOL)
I do wonder what it would be like, but it isn't something that I feel comfy with at all...Nor willing to try at this point in time..

You certainly have to follow your heart's desire. If your heart isn't into women, that's just fine. I stand by my statement that you would be an interesting date!

Yes, there can be just as much drama and deception in dating women as men, but the difference comes into play with openness and honesty... and that certainly doesn't stick to one side of the gender line.

You would be a fascinating date because of your own openness and honesty. You may not feel the inclination, but you are open to it. the possibility is enough to prove to be a most interesting and entertaining conversation and dance of friendship and who knows what else... even if it is nothing romantic or chemical.

 

[Stegral]

You certainly have to follow your heart's desire. If your heart isn't into women, that's just fine. I stand by my statement that you would be an interesting date!

Yes, there can be just as much drama and deception in dating women as men, but the difference comes into play with openness and honesty... and that certainly doesn't stick to one side of the gender line.

You would be a fascinating date because of your own openness and honesty. You may not feel the inclination, but you are open to it. the possibility is enough to prove to be a most interesting and entertaining conversation and dance of friendship and who knows what else... even if it is nothing romantic or chemical.

Thank you.... I am not sure I could ever do anything with a female but I am comfy among my bi & les friends... I have a rule they all know... "Don't force it on me & I don't really care what you are .."
it works for religious conversations too...lol

 

[little_dragon]

Thank you.... I am not sure I could ever do anything with a female but I am comfy among my bi & les friends... I have a rule they all know... "Don't force it on me & I don't really care what you are .."
it works for religious conversations too...lol

Lol...yeah, I like that "Don't force" rule. I had it for awhile before I realized, etc .

But of course, all of my experiences (only 3 ) have been out of curiousity...well, ok, 2 were. What I mean is, they didn't force anything...just waited till I felt comfy trying new things. It bothered me a lot though cause I still liked guys....and for awhile I struggled with "all my life I've been told bi is wrong, either one or the other...." but now I'm just like "fuck it" (excuse my French, lol).

Like I've said before---no one is exempt from such a strong emotion as love. When you fall for someone, be it male or female, then you just fall. And just like you can't stop falling due to gravity, you can't stop falling due to love....or something like that.

Little Dragon

 

[Anniejustagirl]

Thank you.... *****

it works for religious conversations too...lol

You're most kindly welcome.

Religious conversation Could be a tad sticky... maybe we should save that for the second date?! *lol*

 

[sissyjeri]

The bi side of me in pictures

Hi,


sissyjeri

 

[funwithnone]

Same problem with a twist.

Funny thing is I haven't been with a female... really have no inclination of it (although I was toying with the idea after the smack in the face dump my last b/f gave me) & yet because of the way I present myself alot of ppl think I am lesbian or bi.... a few are confused when they are told I am straight...
I am a Truck Driver... I work in a male dominated field that I have to bone up for & act all tough & what not, because pretty & cute just doesn't happen .... I wear pants & sneakers... it has to be pretty special for me to get into a dress & heels... So ALOT of the time I am seen as a "butch"...

Just my 2 cents but I had to put it in... because even the "gaydar" is off track sometimes...

I have the same sort of problem except the other way around. I would classify myself as butch, but people keep thinking I would rather be wearing a dress when I am most comfortable in jeans. I have no trouble picking gay guys, but I have had a few slaps in the face when asking a female the 'question'. Makes life interesting at times.

Belinda