Any good toys out there?

[lovechild27]

I have wanted to buy a sex toy for ages...I have no idea though which to try. I go to the sex shops...look online, but there are so freakin many I have no clue where to start. Anyone have any toys they couldnt live without that would be good for a first timer?



~IM turning into a post whore~

 

[nipplebyter]

Pocket Rocket with bunny clit simulator

S/O say it rocks her world.

 

[Weird Harold]

Cheyenne and many other ladies here at Lit swear by "The Beaver" and you canfind a couple of threads about that particular vibrator with the search function.

Of course, it all depends on what you want the toy for -- Anal toys are different than vaginal toys, which are different than clitoral stimulators, and all come with or without remote controls for your SO to play with.

 

[Freya]

*loves her silver bullet*


For clitoral stimulation I could not do without this little wonder. Now I also have a dildo with a dolphin head for the clit that is bundles of fun....but for quick, intense orgasms I swear by my bullets.


Not that I use it THAT MUCH!

 

[Lust Engine]

And Freya, if you do use them that much...far be it for us to complain! (Wonderful pic thread of yourself, by the way!)

But to get back with the topic, I've lawys been curious as to how women pick out toys for themselves too. When I first started buying toys for my lady friends I tried to get something akin to my proportions. After some initial feedback, I eventually started to get some ideas as to what they liked & didn't like about the first toy.

My advice to you would be to get a moderately tame one to start off with. It's going to be one of those trial by error ordeals for you unfortunately. Everyone's got their own preferences (that's why I hesitated to define "moderately tame"), but go out & order one. Have fun with it. Find out what you like or dislike about it and with your next purchase...get something better!

Enjoy!

 

[Freya]

And Freya, if you do use them that much...far be it for us to complain! (Wonderful pic thread of yourself, by the way!)

But to get back with the topic, I've lawys been curious as to how women pick out toys for themselves too. When I first started buying toys for my lady friends I tried to get something akin to my proportions. After some initial feedback, I eventually started to get some ideas as to what they liked & didn't like about the first toy.

My advice to you would be to get a moderately tame one to start off with. It's going to be one of those trial by error ordeals for you unfortunately. Everyone's got their own preferences (that's why I hesitated to define "moderately tame"), but go out & order one. Have fun with it. Find out what you like or dislike about it and with your next purchase...get something better!

Enjoy!

Thanks hun.

Thankfully I had friends who had been far ahead of me on buying toys to give me some ideas. Now I know some girls like these, but what they told me was to get osmething that felt more realisitic...not the hard plastic ones. So I ordered some bullets, and a my dildo..which is softer and rubbery. Later on I got another bullet...whcih actually was waaaay better than my first ones. So far I'm good with those, although I have seen another one I'd like to try that has beads and a rotating head, along with a clit stimulator...2 toys in one is always best!

 

[lovechild27]

Oooooooohhhhhhhhh I am so raring to go out and buy one now...I dont know how tame I will be able to be though...lol.

 

[Lust Engine]

Who says you need to be tame!?? Not me! Far be it!!!

If you feel the need to go out and get something akin to a pneumatic jack hammer & it satisfies all of your little desires & lovely womanly areas, go right on ahead!!! Fly! Be free!!

Take a stab at getting something that you'd like. Get something just so you'll have a point of reference for your NEXT toy! It's like that old saying goes, "You've got to try on a lot of shoes before you find the right fit."

Good luck in your hunt for a little friend. Please report back on what you got and how it worked out. I'm dying to hear your story!

 

[millieteases]

It really depends on what you're going for.

For vaginal penetration I have a nice penis-shaped vibrator with a little goose sticking out. The shaft hums and rotates, the goose just vibrates - mostly somewhere around my clit.

For anal penetration I like my little anal t - not too big, not too small and it hums very nicely.

For just playing but no penetration, I like my plug in "massager" that I got at a discount store. I've read lots about the Hitachi Magic Wand, and Betty Dodson and Good Vibrations seem to be wild about them, but I've never spent the money for one.

All I know is that once I got the guts to buy one it was the start of a very nice little collection.

 

[LadyOfTheMist]

Along with all the great ideas you already have, try looking in your freezer. Ice can be wonderfully erotic. My better half enlightened me, he always has the best ideas! And yes, I did use it by myself. ::

 

[Hotred911]

I must say my pocket rocket is my favorite....he's even got a name now (it's Buzz) I've also got a Buzz Jr. that stays in my purse...except on trips to the airport!

 

[Lust Engine]

I must say my pocket rocket is my favorite....he's even got a name now (it's Buzz) I've also got a Buzz Jr. that stays in my purse...except on trips to the airport!

Seeing as how there's that pending case with the lady getting busted (and thoroughly embarrassed) at the airport...

How do you ladies pack your toys for trips to other cities?? Or is it dildo free on flights and toys are only good for road trips???

 

[shelley23]

I suggest that if it is your first time with a toy u start with somthing simple like a small ordinary vibrator and get used to that first... then you can build yourself up to using somthing like the pocket rocket ( which is ace ) and also things like the rampant rabbit! couldnt live withought it! the rampant rabbit similer to pocket rocket could make men history, if only it could pay bills and put out the rubbish!
xxx

 

[millieteases]

1. Take the batteries out so it can't turn on.

2. Pack it in the bags that you're checking.

3. If you're easily embarassed, go for non-representational or toys designed for massaging othe parts of your body as well. You can always claim a bad back....

 

[BgMma]

Sex toys

I have found that anal beads are great for first timers.
I am partial to the glow in the dark, myself.

 

[Huggles]

I have wanted to buy a sex toy for ages...I have no idea though which to try. I go to the sex shops...look online, but there are so freakin many I have no clue where to start. Anyone have any toys they couldnt live without that would be good for a first timer?

Look at all the Doc Johnson iVibe range.

The iVibe bullet is really nice. It has 8 different vibration settings, and intensity settings as well..

It's definately one of the best I've seen.

 

[peachykeen]

I packed my vib in my luggage and went through, no probs. Had an interesting moment at check-in when the security people went throught the checklist of questions tho! One of the things they asked was "Do you have anything in your luggage that looks like a gun or could be mistaken for a gun or any other weapon?" And I'm sure I blushed and I said "Umm...I have a...personal massager." the female of the two kind of smiled and said "Yeah OK no worries" and they moved on.

On another note about toys, why are they so friggin' expensive?

 

[KinkyKiki]

I have no idea why they're so expensive, but they definitely are. That's why I usually look for household items that can work just as well without putting out the money for them. My favorite so far is my electric toothbrush.......without the brush head of course!! It's the greatest and wow does it ever cause the most intense orgasms. Everyone should at least try it once. Let me know if you have or do and what you think. It's great!!!

KinkyKiki

 

[BgMma]

sex toys

In a way I think it is so expensive because it's the "Good to be the King" . If you can afford to be a perv then you get the stuff. If you can't you are stuck with using soda bottles and vaseline.
I am NOT saying that toys are for pervs only. I have some myself. Well.......I think I am going to be quiet now.

 

[lovechild27]

Ooooo so many ideas and things to check out!!

I am going more towards a big fat veiny dildo made for g-spot rubbin right now...but who knows!! lol

Yea they are way expensive. The really cool ones are $70 + bucks....I am a college student! I cant do that!

I told my lover that I want a toy, and he is very excited. He cant wait to watch and help me play

Hopefully...shopping will commence this weekend. I will make sure to share all the details

 

[Guest]

Toys Doggie Style

Just an off the wall suggestion but cruise the toy section of your local pet shop, you'd be amazed how much some of the toys meant for Fido look like things best packaged in a plain brown wrapper....

 

[asenath]

Along with all the great ideas you already have, try looking in your freezer. Ice can be wonderfully erotic. My better half enlightened me, he always has the best ideas! And yes, I did use it by myself. ::

Yeah… I like ice… *S*

 

[Belilica]

I started with a cyberskin egg and an anal tool. Now I have a few different ones too, but I think my fave has got to be this one purple one I got as a "birthday present" for my partner... The kind of "big veiny g spot stimulators" that I've seen that look good are all by Penthouse or Hustler and run you about 50 - 75. They come with a removable silicone or cyberskin sleeve as well. I'm planning on getting one of those too, but once again, single mom here.... I guess I'll have to save, or ask for it as a stocking stuffer

Bel

 

[Lust Engine]

I guess I'll have to save, or ask for it as a stocking stuffer

Bel

Lucky stocking!

 

[Belilica]

Lucky stocking!

*sits on LE's Lap* Now Santa, *placing hand in between his legs* THIS is what I want for Christmas