Any last words of encouragement?

[Lady_Prowless]

actually he is out of town. BTW she called and her husband is not home from work yet, so she is waiting for him. Our husbands are pretty good friends, so I wouldnt be suprised if this eventually turned into a crowded mess!

awesome let it take its course..she may be into the beginings of a beautiful friendship as we speak.

 

[blondi84]

So we were sitting here talking about new years, and my daughter wakes up. She comes out, basicly steals the show because she is little and cute, and then my friends husband called, and thier kids were bieng wild and out of control, so nothing tonight.

 

[jacintexas]

So we were sitting here talking about new years, and my daughter wakes up. She comes out, basicly steals the show because she is little and cute, and then my friends husband called, and thier kids were bieng wild and out of control, so nothing tonight.

aww.. I'm sorry it didn't work out sweetie. maybe next time.. did she get the idea you were interested at all

 

[blondi84]

No, I am just going to get drunk with her, and kiss her. Fuck telling her anything, or waiting for the perfect opp. I sound like a guy. Oh hell....

 

[jacintexas]

No, I am just going to get drunk with her, and kiss her. Fuck telling her anything, or waiting for the perfect opp. I sound like a guy. Oh hell....

Go for it girl.. your horny.. she's horny.. just go for it..

 

[HouseToy]

No, I am just going to get drunk with her, and kiss her. Fuck telling her anything, or waiting for the perfect opp. I sound like a guy. Oh hell....

Even you noticed the extra touches earlier. This is something you can do without sending the family to Egypt. A smile and a light touch on the center of the back as you walk together towards the kitchen. Little, non-grope touches are one way to communicate without being too overt. If you ask a simple question..."what was your first time with a woman like?" ... that should start an interesting conversation.

Good luck.

 

[lastingpassion]

worth the wait

Try to keep thoughts about the pleasure you can offer her. Small steps and comments to begin (and sense her mood). Make eye contact and then let your eyes and "mouth" seduce her entire body. At that moment, the kiss you mentioned would be most probably welcomed. All the best to you.....

 

[LotusFlower24]

That is really a great idea!

But I have to admit some people (me) don't pick up those signals, we are clueless ;o( . I had a very close friend that I no longer speak to (another story). Anyway in talking with a close friend about her she couldn't believe it I missed the others signals. Which after listening to her explain them all and thinking about it, something clicked and I was like AaaHa now I see... Of course I'm also not experienced in the f/f arena (yet) so it was a learning experience on signals - lol.

 

[TOgirlie]

A smile and a light touch on the center of the back as you walk together towards the kitchen. Little, non-grope touches are one way to communicate without being too overt.

That doesn't always work though. I find it really difficult to differentiate between "friendly" touches and "more than friendly" touches. Haha... that sounds like an after school special.

Anyway...

There's this one woman I'm quite attracted to and she touches me all the time, but I can't tell if she's just being her because she's a fairly friendly/outgoing kind of person, or hinting at something else.

Every opportunity she gets she'll touch my thigh, arm, back, waist, etc. It could all be very simple and innocent, but definitely turns me on. How can you tell what the person means?

I think instead of playing these kinds of games you gotta just come straight out and ask.

 

[HouseToy]

I'm not a girl and FF advice from me is just a guess. This is similar to what I've been trying with MM lately though... so I'm not _totally_ clueless.

How can you tell what the person means?

Put your hand on her hand and smile. Things get clearer in a hurry.

I think instead of playing these kinds of games you gotta just come straight out and ask.

I don't think of it as a game as much as trying to be subtle before clubbing them in the head and dragging them back to your room.

Whatever you are comfortable with... go for it. I'm more comfortable with body language.

 

[Lady_Prowless]

So we were sitting here talking about new years, and my daughter wakes up. She comes out, basicly steals the show because she is little and cute, and then my friends husband called, and thier kids were bieng wild and out of control, so nothing tonight.

damn

 

[Lady_Prowless]

No, I am just going to get drunk with her, and kiss her. Fuck telling her anything, or waiting for the perfect opp. I sound like a guy. Oh hell....

heehee

 

[Lady_Prowless]

That doesn't always work though. I find it really difficult to differentiate between "friendly" touches and "more than friendly" touches. Haha... that sounds like an after school special.

Anyway...

There's this one woman I'm quite attracted to and she touches me all the time, but I can't tell if she's just being her because she's a fairly friendly/outgoing kind of person, or hinting at something else.

Every opportunity she gets she'll touch my thigh, arm, back, waist, etc. It could all be very simple and innocent, but definitely turns me on. How can you tell what the person means?

I think instead of playing these kinds of games you gotta just come straight out and ask.

i guess the way she touches you touch her back and see what happens..really she cant reject what she is projecting toward you now can she???

 

[Jack Makokov]

close to it no i dont have any nudes on here but i do cam every once in awhile

That moving photo is just mesmerizing. I keep finding myself watching it over and over and over....

 

[Lady_Prowless]

That moving photo is just mesmerizing. I keep finding myself watching it over and over and over....

me 2 one of my favorite masterbating photos

wish it was larger...

 

[snneze]

Wow

That picture is wonderful! Thank you for giving me some erotic fantasy material.

I wish I could have offered you advice about how to tell your friend. My situation was very much like yours. Here is what I did. She was bi and single, I was married and curious. We spent a lot of time talking about sex because we have been very good friends for many years. Anyway, when I got so curious I could no longer stand it, I scheduled an evening out with her and she and I went to dinner and had a few drinks. After we were both feeling rather randy we went to her house ( no kids or husband to interupt). We put on the stereo and started a game of poker. I jokingly made the comment that we should play strip poker. I was so hoping that she would challenge my joke and agree. That is exactly what she did. We had been enjoying some medicinal herbs and after the several rounds of margaritas at the Mexican restaraunt, we were really both very horny.

So after a couple of intentional losses from me and from her we were both in our undies and bras. After a couple of awkward moments, I started to massage her foot which was pointed toward me. It did not take long for me to get very into my work onher foot and it led me right up to her thighs and from there the was no turning back.

It was amazing. We still have our evenings together and we have even taken the show on the road a few times by visiting a local swingers club. And the best part is that we are still very good friends, even when we are not licking on each others pussies or fondling breasts.

 

[blondi84]

This sounds exactly like what I want! I know that this is the kind of friendship she has had in the past, and it is all I am interested in. My big fear is that she won't be attracted to me. So far we have talked about sex, and I tried to bring up the whole subject of me being with another girl, but I kind of chickened out and turned it around to say that it was a fantasy of my husbands. She said that I would be suprised at how many women would help me with that, and started talking about swing parties in our area. I want to approach her now, but am afraid she will think I want her for a three way or something with my husband. That is totally out of the question because our husbands are like best friends.

 

[snneze]

My belief is that all relationships (non familial) are based on some attraction. Even if at first you don't find someone physically attractive in time as you get to know them they become more attractive to you. You begin to look past the strictly physical and start to look more at the person they are inside. Obviously, this person has been your friend in the past. Therefore, it is my belief that she already has some attraction for you. Have the two of you ever talked about sex? I mean more than the surface stuff, have you ever had deep and revealing conversations about sex? That would be a good way to start the whole thing off. You could always tell her that you thing she looks sexy in a certain outfit or with a certain hairstyle. After the first time you say "you look so hot in that skirt", it will get easier to say more often and then if she doesn't freak on you then you can start to tell her that you think about her body sometimes or something like that.

 

[blondi84]

Do you think I should tell her outright that I am just interested in her and I, or should I just see where it goes?

 

[snneze]

Is your relationship strong enough to withstand that if she turns you down?

 

[blondi84]

I dont know. I mean, I almost dont think she would turn me down. I think that it would just be a matter of timing. But then I worry that she might not be interested in girls at all any more. I dont know. We are pretty good friends, and our kids are friends and our husbands are friends. I think she is mature enough that she would get over it if it were not to work out.

 

[snneze]

You could simply ask her if she every thinks about being with women anymore. If she says no, then you could ask her if she is over that or if life is just too busy. If she says yes, ask her if she would like to play with you.

 

[blondi84]

Well I dont know if she knows that I know she is (was) bi. Her husband told my husband before he was deployed, like two years ago.

 

[blondi84]

Well I dont know if she knows that I know she is (was) bi. Her husband told my husband before he was deployed, like two years ago.

Fuck I just re read that and if you need me to clairify anything...

 

[snneze]

Well that makes it a little harder. Have you ever talked to her about your sexual fantasies? Any of them not just your f/f fantasies.