Anyone else?

[curvyjae]

Can definitely understand that. But you can write and never share it. I had blog for some low points in my life. Or even use other media as forms of inspiration

Omg. Me too. That’s kind of cool. Only one person has read it, just because I needed a “witness” to some things going on. Good point.

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

You are defenetly not the only one, Curvy. And I for one are very happy that so many who feel this way find their way to this forum and support eachother.

Love,

Thom

 

[curvyjae]

You are defenetly not the only one, Curvy. And I for one are very happy that so many who feel this way find their way to this forum and support eachother.

Love,

Thom

I luckily made the choice to get out. I’d rather be single and lonely than lonely and married. While the thought of dating, especially in my area makes me want to puke, at least the opportunity for something amazing is now possible.

 

[Coranhorn]

Omg. Me too. That’s kind of cool. Only one person has read it, just because I needed a “witness” to some things going on. Good point.

I'll ready anything, you want to send it

 

[rudrakshpathak]

Anyone else mostly happily married? Like your life is good- have good jobs, don’t fight, all appears well, but there’s just nothing there. No spark. No passion. Literally like living with a roommate that you share a bed with? You try and try to initiate things, go on dates, do special things for them hoping they’ll return it or there will be a spark or passion, yet nothing happens. What do you do? Stay? Leave? Stay and just find someone on the side to fulfill those needs?

I can’t be the only one?!?

The lack of a spark is understandable. It really happens to a lot of people. It depends on what a person wants from a relationship.
Personally I can be content with the emotional aspect and may 'look' for thrills elsewhere with my partner's consent if that's possible.

On a side note, a good throat fucking should definitely ruin even the best makeups.

 

[Ironfan]

On a side note, a good throat fucking should definitely ruin even the best makeups.

Sounds like a good marketing point 'make up so good, even the hardest throat fuck won't make it run'

 

[fatlab]

Anyone else mostly happily married? Like your life is good- have good jobs, don’t fight, all appears well, but there’s just nothing there. No spark. No passion. Literally like living with a roommate that you share a bed with? You try and try to initiate things, go on dates, do special things for them hoping they’ll return it or there will be a spark or passion, yet nothing happens. What do you do? Stay? Leave? Stay and just find someone on the side to fulfill those needs?

I can’t be the only one?!?

Sounds way too familiar. I think just a great fwb on the side is the answer. In reality tou may never find such a compatible partner. But god knows we need that physical sex

 

[LuvHCups]

It does and we all grow apart to some degree. I know for me there have been things said between the wife and I that even though we are great friends, for me the spark is not there so to me the sex is lacking and I find myself drawn to other women in hopes of that fun spark in sex again. I have cheated multiple times over the years so maybe the issues she and I have are my fault. I know I live with my best friend and no matter what I try to do I find the spark gone but I stay because I don't want to loose my best friend.

I know exactly how you feel. I too cheated on my spouse due to more exciting sex elsewhere. I was caught, however; and found out what a mistake I'd made. There were definitely cracks in the sex life prior to that, obviously, but for the last two years of the marriage it was zilch. You might consider getting out while your friendship is intact. My ex and I were once soooo close but now we're complete strangers. There's a line from the song Invisible City by the Wallflowers that rings true to me under those circumstances of staying together as friends "Imitation of good faith is how you stumble upon hate. It may have been the first of mistakes when we held on to this thing that opened the gates." Maybe you might think about getting out while their is still some friendship there.