Appropriate attire for moms ?

My parents were always modest. Mom was always cloths or in her robe. Dad never walked around in his underwear/boxers, but PJ pants and no shirt was a usual. They still do this. But then again my mother always has to "put her face on" to be presentable for the paperboy (puts on makeup asap after waking up...) ::shrugs::

My aunt and uncle have 2 children the son follows them around constantly espically his father, around the house in the kitchen into the bathroom/shower... he stopped following his mother into the bathroom though about a year ago, hes 5 or 6 now.
Their newest addition to the family is almost 2 and she laughs, like full out from her little belly laughs everytime she sees her father naked and it makes him self concious so he puts on his boxers/bathingsuit when they bathe her. (she squirms and since their first child didnt' they just got in the tub with her while bathing her, eh, it works for them lol.)
 
I don't think any child will be traumatized by seeing his/her father in boxer shorts, assuming nothing is popping out. I also don't think any child will be traumatized by seeing his/her mother wearing a tshirt and panties. Most of the time, adults make more of a big deal of this than it should be. Kids are going to ask questions, give their opinions on more things than they should in company you wish you could change, but that is part of their growing and learning process. My eldest daughter used to threaten to call the panty police on Mommy or Grandma if she could see our underwear when we came out of the bedroom wearing a tshirt and panties. She and I one day sat down and talked about why my peepee was ugly and hers was pretty because I had hair. (Try doing that before Thanksgiving dinner and your parents were supposed to be over 5 minutes ago.) My yougest daughter one time told her Grandpa, in my car, about how mommy used to have fur and now she doesnt'. I explained masturbation to my son. I'm not going to say I've done everything right in their early sex education, but I hope I've made it known to them that sex is a natural thing, something to not be ashamed of.
 
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