Appropriate punishments

[Soraya1]

This one just popped into my head:

Have her go to work with no panties on under her skirt or dress. After lunch have her put a wireless vibrating egg inside her xunt, buzzing away on low. She must leave it there for the rest of the day. Tell her she's not allowed to cum. Sooner or later, she will. Have her tally those, & when she gets home that evening have her strip naked, tie her to the bed spread eagle, with her legs tied open very wide. Then for each violation, administer a set number of hard slaps right on her exposed cunt, either with your hand or your tool of choice, as she repeatedly apologizes for her disobedience.

 

[jizzyjizzy]

Punishments should be punishments. A lot of ‘doms’ make the mistake of setting a so called punishment which is not. i.e nipple clamps or spanking tend to be used as punishments but most subs actually desire/enjoy this. A punishment task should be something they don’t enjoy as it is not designed to be a reward. Always start off by withholding something they want/desire.

those worked for me. the hard control was almost a reward but having things taken away from me were punishment. or things i usually liked at times i didn't want it.

 

[Samantha47]

those worked for me. the hard control was almost a reward but having things taken away from me were punishment. or things i usually liked at times i didn't want it.

I want to submit to that so much

 

[apom]

1) what punishments have you given/received in this situation?

I've done the online thing several times, something I've taken as seriously as anything I've ever done. At one point my choice was to either do as I'd been instructed, embarrass myself beyond life and get myself fired. Or...not. I chose my job, and I've never felt as ashamed and guilty as I did that night.

For a month I BEGGED him to PLEASE punish me. For a month he ignored me completely. And for a month I suffered. When he finally spoke to me again I begged some more and he told me me to punish myself, to humiliate myself in the way I knew I deserved to be humiliated, and not to bother him again until I'd done it. Which scared me to death as I have no imagination. I'm horrible at figuring stuff out and making decisions.

But I did get it done. I learned my lesson and did not disappoint my Master again, and my obedience did eventually cost me my job.

2) suggestions on how to keep her focused?

In my experience there's no better motivator than my Master's disappointment, but that's probly just me. Not everybody is worthless enough to sacrifice rent and food for a stranger's amusement.

 

[Samantha47]

I've done the online thing several times, something I've taken as seriously as anything I've ever done. At one point my choice was to either do as I'd been instructed, embarrass myself beyond life and get myself fired. Or...not. I chose my job, and I've never felt as ashamed and guilty as I did that night.

For a month I BEGGED him to PLEASE punish me. For a month he ignored me completely. And for a month I suffered. When he finally spoke to me again I begged some more and he told me me to punish myself, to humiliate myself in the way I knew I deserved to be humiliated, and not to bother him again until I'd done it. Which scared me to death as I have no imagination. I'm horrible at figuring stuff out and making decisions.

But I did get it done. I learned my lesson and did not disappoint my Master again, and my obedience did eventually cost me my job.




In my experience there's no better motivator than my Master's disappointment, but that's probly just me. Not everybody is worthless enough to sacrifice rent and food for a stranger's amusement.

I'd love to experience domination

 

[apom]

I'd love to experience domination

PM me?

 

[Samantha47]

PM me?

I'm trans girl so you know before I pm you

 

[Samantha47]

I'm trans girl so you know before I pm you

You still want me too

 

[apom]

I'm trans girl so you know before I pm you

PM me.

 

[Samantha47]

PM me.

I did