Appropriate punishments

[Soraya1]

This one just popped into my head:

Have her go to work with no panties on under her skirt or dress. After lunch have her put a wireless vibrating egg inside her xunt, buzzing away on low. She must leave it there for the rest of the day. Tell her she's not allowed to cum. Sooner or later, she will. Have her tally those, & when she gets home that evening have her strip naked, tie her to the bed spread eagle, with her legs tied open very wide. Then for each violation, administer a set number of hard slaps right on her exposed cunt, either with your hand or your tool of choice, as she repeatedly apologizes for her disobedience.

 

[jizzyjizzy]

Punishments should be punishments. A lot of ‘doms’ make the mistake of setting a so called punishment which is not. i.e nipple clamps or spanking tend to be used as punishments but most subs actually desire/enjoy this. A punishment task should be something they don’t enjoy as it is not designed to be a reward. Always start off by withholding something they want/desire.

those worked for me. the hard control was almost a reward but having things taken away from me were punishment. or things i usually liked at times i didn't want it.

 

[Samantha47]

those worked for me. the hard control was almost a reward but having things taken away from me were punishment. or things i usually liked at times i didn't want it.

I want to submit to that so much

 

[apom]

1) what punishments have you given/received in this situation?

I've done the online thing several times, something I've taken as seriously as anything I've ever done. At one point my choice was to either do as I'd been instructed, embarrass myself beyond life and get myself fired. Or...not. I chose my job, and I've never felt as ashamed and guilty as I did that night.

For a month I BEGGED him to PLEASE punish me. For a month he ignored me completely. And for a month I suffered. When he finally spoke to me again I begged some more and he told me me to punish myself, to humiliate myself in the way I knew I deserved to be humiliated, and not to bother him again until I'd done it. Which scared me to death as I have no imagination. I'm horrible at figuring stuff out and making decisions.

But I did get it done. I learned my lesson and did not disappoint my Master again, and my obedience did eventually cost me my job.

2) suggestions on how to keep her focused?

In my experience there's no better motivator than my Master's disappointment, but that's probly just me. Not everybody is worthless enough to sacrifice rent and food for a stranger's amusement.

 

[Samantha47]

I've done the online thing several times, something I've taken as seriously as anything I've ever done. At one point my choice was to either do as I'd been instructed, embarrass myself beyond life and get myself fired. Or...not. I chose my job, and I've never felt as ashamed and guilty as I did that night.

For a month I BEGGED him to PLEASE punish me. For a month he ignored me completely. And for a month I suffered. When he finally spoke to me again I begged some more and he told me me to punish myself, to humiliate myself in the way I knew I deserved to be humiliated, and not to bother him again until I'd done it. Which scared me to death as I have no imagination. I'm horrible at figuring stuff out and making decisions.

But I did get it done. I learned my lesson and did not disappoint my Master again, and my obedience did eventually cost me my job.




In my experience there's no better motivator than my Master's disappointment, but that's probly just me. Not everybody is worthless enough to sacrifice rent and food for a stranger's amusement.

I'd love to experience domination

 

[apom]

I'd love to experience domination

PM me?

 

[Samantha47]

PM me?

I'm trans girl so you know before I pm you

 

[Samantha47]

I'm trans girl so you know before I pm you

You still want me too

 

[apom]

I'm trans girl so you know before I pm you

PM me.

 

[Samantha47]

PM me.

I did

 

[lowcollar]

Require video of her spanking her pussy with a hair brush until her lips turn bright pink.

 

[e7d3]

Love to see that!

 

[Obedientone13]

Mental punishments are the worst. I once had to go to wally mart and purchase a cucumber, pink panties in my size, and large tube of lube and only those 3 items. Then I was required to write a detailed report on the experience while wearing said panties. It was rejected multiple times due to lack of length, specifics, not being descriptive enough, and even grammer. Kept me reliving the humiliation for over a week.

 

[Samantha47]

Mental punishments are the worst. I once had to go to wally mart and purchase a cucumber, pink panties in my size, and large tube of lube and only those 3 items. Then I was required to write a detailed report on the experience while wearing said panties. It was rejected multiple times due to lack of length, specifics, not being descriptive enough, and even grammer. Kept me reliving the humiliation for over a week.

Does sound kinda sexy

 

[sdma]

My thought, it should be punishments not just one, a set of few small ones!
Like edging, sit ups, writing lines, no panty for few days, awkward clicks...
If you give a punishment she will finish it in 30 mins and everything is normal again but in this way you get to teach her discipline.

 

[HarleyQuim]

I have an online slave who just decided to stop following rules and went radio silent for 5 days. We play online. She has daily rules and tasks. When she’s focused she’s fantastic when she’s no she’s worthless.

Two questions:
1) what punishments have you given/received in this situation?

2) suggestions on how to keep her focused?

Thanks for the assistance.

Maybe she decided to meet someone irl and realized you’re kind of a a douche.

 

[Titman69x]

Maybe she decided to meet someone irl and realized you’re kind of a a douche.

The question wasn’t why did she do it, but thanks for the advice.

 

[TrainMe24]

Have you tried withholding orgasms for a period of time and making her say who she is owned by and why she can't cum?
Worked wonders for me.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Have you tried withholding orgasms for a period of time and making her say who she is owned by and why she can't cum?
Worked wonders for me.

I'd love to own you, and have you for my own personal use.

 

[seekingAlpha]

I was involved in a long-distance D/s dynamic with a woman who was totally compliant and submissive whenever we were together in person. Yet the longer we spent apart, the more her bratty side would surface.
She craved pain, degradation, and humiliation, and very little truly unsettled her until I discovered her hidden germaphobia. I sent her to a busy department store one day with a simple command: film herself on her phone, slowly licking the handle of a public bathroom stall from the inside and the top of the toilet seat. The raw combination of public exposure, filth, and her intense aversion to germs created a moment of deep, genuine vulnerability that left her profoundly shaken in a way nothing else had.

 

[Titman69x]

I was involved in a long-distance D/s dynamic with a woman who was totally compliant and submissive whenever we were together in person. Yet the longer we spent apart, the more her bratty side would surface.
She craved pain, degradation, and humiliation, and very little truly unsettled her until I discovered her hidden germaphobia. I sent her to a busy department store one day with a simple command: film herself on her phone, slowly licking the handle of a public bathroom stall from the inside and the top of the toilet seat. The raw combination of public exposure, filth, and her intense aversion to germs created a moment of deep, genuine vulnerability that left her profoundly shaken in a way nothing else had.

That’s an interesting task, how was her behavior afterwards? Did this help control her when you were apart?

 

[SmilingLez]

I have an online slave who just decided to stop following rules and went radio silent for 5 days. We play online. She has daily rules and tasks. When she’s focused she’s fantastic when she’s no she’s worthless.

Two questions:
1) what punishments have you given/received in this situation?

2) suggestions on how to keep her focused?

Thanks for the assistance.

IMO, if your slave, online or irl, is disrespectful and disobeys rules, I would give her the ultimatum - "Continue with this behavior and our Dynamic will end". Control the disrespect before it becomes habit. If your slave requires maintenance in order to keep her focused, then do that separately. YMMV

 

[seekingAlpha]

That’s an interesting task, how was her behavior afterwards? Did this help control her when you were apart?

Her demeanor as a submissive stabilized profoundly, manifesting in consistent obedience and a marked reduction in brattiness that transformed what had once been challenging into something playfully engaging and genuinely charming. Equally significant, this equilibrium extended seamlessly to her conduct whether we were physically together or apart.
This proved to be a pivotal learning experience for me and it was during this period that I developed the view that there is, in truth, no such thing as a fundamentally bad submissive, only a Dominant who has not yet discerned the particular guidance, structure, and insight required for her to flourish.

 

[MiaDani80]

Some punishments I loved giving to my online but long-time sub/slave. Some of these are not for everyone...

1) One day I had her pour a glass of water over her crotch at work so it looked like she'd pissed herself and then go and spend time in the break room with her colleagues

2) One time i had her piss in a metal refillable thermos at work and drink it during a meeting

3) the punishment she hated most was putting one or more ice cubes up her ass and then wearing a butt plug

4) make her eat food or drink water out of dog bowls

5) I would make her bring extra panties to work so I could have her wet herself and then send me the video.