Are the same few people ruining your Lit experience?

[Mav Unlimited]

Something got me a little fired up today and it has been a while since I got on my soap box so here goes…

Things that I think contribute to other people having their Lit experience ruined

The “New piece of ass welcome committee”
Guys, you know who you are. When a new person comes along, you don’t need to add them to your wank bank straight away. Let them settle in and find their way around. You lavish all this attention on them within the first month and then suddenly that attention stops and they wonder what they did wrong so they leave or they get bitter about the guys being disrespectful. They can’t e-fuck you all at the same time and I am sure you wouldn’t want that either. You don’t need to be the first. Spread the attention out a little. If they are up for having fun with multiple partners, then you will get your turn. If they aren’t here for that, then you have spared yourself some embarrassment.

The “I’m just here for fun” brigade
Ladies, be honest with yourselves. A lady comes along and is posting about just wanting to have fun, be slutty, enjoy as many men as they can and then three weeks later is posting about how they fell in love and have had their heartbroken. The guy is a total douchebag for dumping them. Well, surprise! He isn’t a douchebag. He is probably a nice guy who also just wanted fun. At the start of things, you tell him you just want fun and he lets you know he wants the same. Then you start to get feelings and he is putting on his running shoes and out the door before you can blink. He was honest with you but you weren’t honest with him. Now I understand that sometimes feelings come up when you really weren’t expecting them to but don’t blame him for that.

The “Dog in a manger” syndrome
You don’t want them (or they don’t want you) but you can’t let them move on. Relationships go bad sometimes but that doesn’t give anybody the right to stop another person moving on. You aren’t with them anymore for a reason. Whether you accept that reason or not, it is in the past. Let them get on with their lives and you get on with yours. Everybody has a past, present and future and the only part you should concern yourself with is the present. Also, those that keep several people hanging on in the hope that something may develop. Don’t keep them hanging on just because you want a back up for a day when you might not be getting all the attention you want/need. Let them know there is never going to be anything between you in a romantic/sexual way and then they can go and find their happiness.

The “I don’t know who I am” complex
This is the thing that has me fired up today. Coming back as a different user and pretending you are new. Why? What purpose does this serve? If your previous Lit experience was that bad that you feel you don’t want to be identified, why come back at all? Is it that attention you get as a new user that you crave and need to have constantly? Did you do something so bad you think people won’t forgive you? Do you think you are so special that people really give a fuck? Be whoever you want to be, do whatever you want to do but don’t try to deceive others. I automatically give respect to people but by doing this type of thing, that respect is totally gone. Deceitful liars do not deserve any respect. Sometimes I think people do it because they didn’t fit in or weren’t received how they wanted to be the first time around. A change of name won’t change that. Your personality is still the same!

The “I didn’t know it was a sex site” posse
This one always leaves me shocked. People complaining about what they receive messages about. Now sure, there are some which are absolutely shocking and should be reported but the majority of what I see people complaining about are just the norm. Getting a PM from a guy saying he would like to fuck your ass on a site like this is not something that should have you screaming “inappropriate” or “creepy” or “disrespectful”. If you want him to ask for your recipe for mac and cheese, join a fucking cooking forum.

I realise I have gone on a little bit, so if you did read all that, thank you and apologies. Obviously, each of those things can be reversed so it isn’t just men doing one thing and women doing another. We are all people and our behaviour is not defined by our genitalia.

I’ve got a few more but I’m not as bold as you plus it might get some panties in a twist.

Ooooo…panties…

But no, people don’t ruin my lit experience. They only make me stay here and cause more trouble

 

[Pad_Foot]

I was taught under my first name, uptoplay, to treat others here as real people.

I know I have pissed some off over time, partly for having quit and returned under different names, all but one (nope…2) because I was trying to quit and needed new name after killing old one. Two Alts died because friends didn’t like the names or due to a misunderstanding.

Lit is addictive

I can’t be upset many old friends managed to break away. I hate when people are driven off
Ignore can help

I ignore plenty of folks on the political thread, but none here at the moment, but I know who to avoid irritating because I piss them off by my existence and steer clear of posting close to them.

 

[Misshotndeep]

I was taught under my first name, uptoplay, to treat others here as real people.

I know I have pissed some off over time, partly for having quit and returned under different names, all but one (nope…2) because I was trying to quit and needed new name after killing old one. Two Alts died because friends didn’t like the names or due to a misunderstanding.

Lit is addictive

I can’t be upset many old friends managed to break away. I hate when people are driven off
Ignore can help

I ignore plenty of folks on the political thread, but none here at the moment, but I know who to avoid irritating because I piss them off by my existence and steer clear of posting close to them.

It doesn’t matter what name someone is under if they keep doing the same mean shit.
I just have this profile. I thought of starting an alt years ago and decided that was more effort than I cared to put forth on here.
Folks need to learn that just creating a new account does not fix their shitty behavior or lack of respect for others.

 

[Mav Unlimited]

Folks need to learn that just creating a new account does not fix their shitty behavior or lack of respect for others.

That’s why I continue my shitty behavior and lack of respect for others under the same name. Why take more effort?

 

[Pad_Foot]

I hope I am not guilty of “shitty behavior”

 

[Dribble]

Isn't it funny how 90% of the threads and posts on this forum have nothing to do with sex or sexual flirting? That's gotta be a burr up some people's asses.

 

[THROBBS]

Isn't it funny how 90% of the threads and posts on this forum have nothing to do with sex or sexual flirting? That's gotta be a burr up some people's asses.

I find the ABC threads ridiculous. Not butt "burrs", just a waste.

Luckily! I can scroll on by!

 

[Misshotndeep]

That’s why I continue my shitty behavior and lack of respect for others under the same name. Why take more effort?

Lol. Your shitty behavior is at least up front. You are hunting for the weak.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I’ve got a few more but I’m not as bold as you plus it might get some panties in a twist.

Ooooo…panties…

But no, people don’t ruin my lit experience. They only make me stay here and cause more trouble

I think you need to show us some of this trouble you will cause. I need entertainment and I have never seen you cause trouble

 

[AmberLGreen]

I was taught under my first name, uptoplay, to treat others here as real people.

I know I have pissed some off over time, partly for having quit and returned under different names, all but one (nope…2) because I was trying to quit and needed new name after killing old one. Two Alts died because friends didn’t like the names or due to a misunderstanding.

Lit is addictive

I can’t be upset many old friends managed to break away. I hate when people are driven off
Ignore can help

I ignore plenty of folks on the political thread, but none here at the moment, but I know who to avoid irritating because I piss them off by my existence and steer clear of posting close to them.

We had a big fallout under your previous username but we talked it through and are now very good friends.

I think it is good for everybody that you try to avoid pissing off the people who you may have hurt in the past. Some bridges cannot be rebuilt. Scars run deeper for some people. I feel fortunate that we were able to talk through our differences and build a friendship from that

 

[13Fantasies]

I have never understood deleting an account. When I tire of the place or it gets heavy with tension, I leave.

But when I eventually come back, people know it's me. Deleting and retreating accounts or alts is just tiresome and frustrating.

I can see possibly forgetting a password or something, but there are ways to reclaim

 

[AmberLGreen]

I hope I am not guilty of “shitty behavior”

You have been in the past. I think your behaviour is so much better now

 

[AmberLGreen]

Isn't it funny how 90% of the threads and posts on this forum have nothing to do with sex or sexual flirting? That's gotta be a burr up some people's asses.

With the right wording and timing, any thread or post can be made sexual and/or flirtatious. I think you just wanted to make people think of sticking stuff up asses with your post. See what I did there

 

[Mav Unlimited]

I think you need to show us some of this trouble you will cause. I need entertainment and I have never seen you cause trouble

*folds hands on chest*

Na an. I’m not showing anything.

You remember those profiles that have “I’m not here for your entertainment” kind of stuff? I used to think, well, if you’re not here for my entertainment, why the fuck are you here? If I’m not entertaining you, and you’re not entertaining me, what are we doing here?

*shuts up*

 

[AmberLGreen]

*folds hands on chest*

Na an. I’m not showing anything.

You remember those profiles that have “I’m not here for your entertainment” kind of stuff? I used to think, well, if you’re not here for my entertainment, why the fuck are you here? If I’m not entertaining you, and you’re not entertaining me, what are we doing here?

*shuts up*

Copyright that quickly. Some fucker is going to steal it for their signature

 

[PandemicReader8]

I have to admit, hitting Ignore and being done with it is damn near blissful. It's so much better than arguing with a brick wall.

 

[StillRain]

All I want to know is who shit in Ambers tea this morning?

 

[barefootgirl69]

YES!

The ones that are horny and think you are, too, by reading your posts. (I guess if you are, you're just magically going to want them.)

The lurkers who want your advice of how to do their sister.

Then, there's that one.

Yes, I know - ignore. But, they've already made me and .

 

[Misshotndeep]

YES!

The ones that are horny and think you are, too, by reading your posts. (I guess if you are, you're just magically going to want them.)

The lurkers who want your advice of how to do their sister.

Then, there's that one.

Yes, I know - ignore. But, they've already made me and .

What popped in my head…

 

[Acktion]

 

[BongoGal]

Are the same few people ruining your Lit experience?

No. It is different people every day.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

No. It is different people every day.

Right? Some people rub you the wrong way on one day, whereas 99.9% of the time you're ok with them. For instance, today the person who used "creamy load" that I read early this morning in a thread that doesn't typically have that sort of post made me gag. And not in the good way.

 

[jaF0]

Mmmmumm, Mmmummm, Mummm.... Mumms the word ... lips sealed .....

 

[JerseyJade]

Right? Some people rub you the wrong way on one day, whereas 99.9% of the time you're ok with them. For instance, today the person who used "creamy load" that I read early this morning in a thread that doesn't typically have that sort of post made me gag. And not in the good way.

I won't ask.

 

[ShaneoD]

Right? Some people rub you the wrong way on one day, whereas 99.9% of the time you're ok with them. For instance, today the person who used "creamy load" that I read early this morning in a thread that doesn't typically have that sort of post made me gag. And not in the good way.

That's one of those combinations of words that only sounds good coming out of a ladies mouth, usually at the point of orgasm, but if you're really not attracted to someone you really really don't want to see it from someone