Thanks for your response. As I said above, no one should have to apologize for who they are attracted or not attracted to. I mean, who knows why we are attracted to anyone?
Are trans girls perfect girlfriends?
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Britva415
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It goes without saying. The statement is not objectively true, so, there's no option except for it to be a personal preference. It's not even an opinion - it's a feeling.
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When people come to a forum and share an opinion, and then get roflstomped by someone who demands objective proof and convincing arguments like you're some kind of feelings-lawyer, that kinda makes them want to not engage with the odd person out.
Everyone else here is exchanging opinions, you were the one trying to turn it into a logic debate with a winner and a loser.
Nobody's trying to prove you like anal sex. If you don't, all you gotta do is say, "not me, thanks," or, better yet, leave the discussion to people who do.
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ShinyCrazyDi
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Gender is SUCH a construct & a spectrum in my opinion.
I personally don't think 'trans girls make the perfect girlfriends' because firstly, I think it's reductive. Secondly, I think it reeks of confirmation bias from men who've had good experiences with trans girls but not cis girls.
I have about half a dozen trans & NB friends & interact with a few more (I'm part of the Rainbow Coalition here). They're all COMPLETELY different to each other, in experience, physicality, personality, EVERYTHING.
A lot of straight guys are attracted to women's bodies but aren't attracted to women emotionally. A lot of straight guys would probably be happier if they got their emotional needs met by other men & just admitted they weren't 100% 'straight' (as the older generation would define it).
I think a few men like that believe (erroneously) that getting a trans gf will perfectly solve that dilemma (as if they're just a man's mind in a hot woman). That a trans girl will have the exact same social-skills, socialisation & expectations as they do (& also values & opinions) - but also boobies. Usually, as people get to know each other better they still have to make an effort to understand one another regardless of the genders they were assigned at birth.
I think as time goes by & more trans people are able to start their transitions earlier (puberty blockers, & hopefully more accepting communities where they can express themselves as themselves from a young age) we'll be seeing more & more fluidity & gender-norm-breaking NB people living happily & healthily among the people who still adhere to the binary.
At the moment many people's first exposure to trans women is through media (either mainstream, think: Laverne Cox, Jamie Clayton) or porn & in both forms, trans girls who HEAVILY conform to traditional female gender-roles/appearances are given the most attention.
I don't think many of the straight/bi/pan/curious/whatever men who talk about trans girls being the best girlfriends are talking about, for example: super-butch trans girls. The thick ones who have buzzcuts & broad shoulders & date people of all genders. I think they're generally imagining super-feminine, slim, gender-conforming or 'hollywood androgynous' ones like they see in porn.
I personally don't think 'trans girls make the perfect girlfriends' because firstly, I think it's reductive. Secondly, I think it reeks of confirmation bias from men who've had good experiences with trans girls but not cis girls.
I have about half a dozen trans & NB friends & interact with a few more (I'm part of the Rainbow Coalition here). They're all COMPLETELY different to each other, in experience, physicality, personality, EVERYTHING.
A lot of straight guys are attracted to women's bodies but aren't attracted to women emotionally. A lot of straight guys would probably be happier if they got their emotional needs met by other men & just admitted they weren't 100% 'straight' (as the older generation would define it).
I think a few men like that believe (erroneously) that getting a trans gf will perfectly solve that dilemma (as if they're just a man's mind in a hot woman). That a trans girl will have the exact same social-skills, socialisation & expectations as they do (& also values & opinions) - but also boobies. Usually, as people get to know each other better they still have to make an effort to understand one another regardless of the genders they were assigned at birth.
I think as time goes by & more trans people are able to start their transitions earlier (puberty blockers, & hopefully more accepting communities where they can express themselves as themselves from a young age) we'll be seeing more & more fluidity & gender-norm-breaking NB people living happily & healthily among the people who still adhere to the binary.
At the moment many people's first exposure to trans women is through media (either mainstream, think: Laverne Cox, Jamie Clayton) or porn & in both forms, trans girls who HEAVILY conform to traditional female gender-roles/appearances are given the most attention.
I don't think many of the straight/bi/pan/curious/whatever men who talk about trans girls being the best girlfriends are talking about, for example: super-butch trans girls. The thick ones who have buzzcuts & broad shoulders & date people of all genders. I think they're generally imagining super-feminine, slim, gender-conforming or 'hollywood androgynous' ones like they see in porn.
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As for the anal sex conversation. To each their own.
I don't have a dick (cis woman) but apparently they're quite different feelings to screw. Some men like the variety or taboo of anal, or the 'power'. Some men like the tight anus & then the... I've heard it described as a cavern? Feel free to correct me. Most of the men I've been with (at least, the ones I've bothered asking) have told me they prefer the full-length pressure of a pussy, that it 'grips' more. Not sure my selection process is unbiased or means anything tho.
I don't have a dick (cis woman) but apparently they're quite different feelings to screw. Some men like the variety or taboo of anal, or the 'power'. Some men like the tight anus & then the... I've heard it described as a cavern? Feel free to correct me. Most of the men I've been with (at least, the ones I've bothered asking) have told me they prefer the full-length pressure of a pussy, that it 'grips' more. Not sure my selection process is unbiased or means anything tho.
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Leaving aside all the fetishising and misogynistic "tranny" stuff (I hate all that), my take is that I'm hetero-romantic but also cocks get my reptile brain going (but male bodies and mindsets/attitudes don't)
So were I not already in a solid conventional relationship, I think I'd very much like to seek one with a convincing trans woman with whom I could share both the warm and fuzzy side of things, the dating and being attracted to, but have my cake (or cock) and eat it too.
So were I not already in a solid conventional relationship, I think I'd very much like to seek one with a convincing trans woman with whom I could share both the warm and fuzzy side of things, the dating and being attracted to, but have my cake (or cock) and eat it too.
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