Are you a bi male...

great thread!

I am in the club, married and bi and my wife does not know. She always says its gross when she sees two guys together. Now I had many bi experiences before meeting her. But it gets really frustrating, with so many STDs out there and the guilt as well, its not easy.

I think my wife is worried I would go gay, a while ago she would use a dildo on me, of course I enjoyed it, for her I probally enjoyed it too much. Lately nothing even close. I think I enjoyed her fucking my ass more than a man but I still miss sucking cock.
 
mssweetangelina said:
Oh yes how could I have forgotten to mention that?!

Sharing cock with another guy is definitely HOT HOT HOT and all the other combinations/variations as well.

Thanks for reminding me, badger. ;)
I would love to share a cock with you.6tonque9
 
I think there must be something comforting and natural (?) about being with someone who has the same equipment - cock and balls. You have a pretty good idea about what turns him on because it would turn you on too! Not to mention the obvious signs like an erection, tighten of the balls, leaking of pre-cum.

I know what turns my wife on most of the time, but I have to be very sensitive to understand the nuances of her excitement - and that is wonderful. Her signs of growing excitment are more subtle, at least in the early stages of love-making. I like to think I am a good lover, because I try to be aware of the ebb and flow of her ebb and flow.

However, I imagine that being with a guy, and being able to reach over and grab his cock, rub it a bit and get an obvious reaction would be tremendously gratifying. Even more so when you successfully jack him, or suck him off to an orgasm and witness your partner ejacualte over youyr hand or in your mouth.

Any thoughts?
 
I would tend to agree with your logic...it does make sense that a man would know what turns another man on. The gratification of seeing his physical signs of arousal indicating that he is indeed enjoying what you are doing is very instantaneous.

In response to one of your earlier replies, I also agree that the dynamic of a couple's relationship does become forever changed when a third party is introduced. I have often fantasized about the idea of another man joining my boyfriend and I. We have discussed it at great length and it is a huge risk. No matter how much discussion and thought goes into it beforehand, when it comes down to it and it's time to "put your money where your mouth is" (I'm sorry I couldn't pass that one up :p ) no one really knows what their true reaction will be at that precise moment. Once you go through with it, you can't take it back and you must face the consequences. From what I've read from people who've actually done it, it can be accomplished--I just don't know if I'd be willing to risk it all to try.

Thanks to everyone who continues to read/post. :kiss:
 
moneeke and ms, so well said! you do have to be careful with taking dreams and turning them into reality. Again, so well said!
 
To Dear Sweet Queen of Erotica MssweetAngelina

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Originally Posted by mssweetangelina (IN Women and Bi-men)
I haven't been fortunate enough yet to witness it in person but it would drive me absolutely WILD to see two men together and be able to participate as well.....watching them suck and fuck each other and me being the lucky recipient of all that lust! It's definitely high on my list of hot fantasies!!

Any bi guys that would like to chat about it...feel free to PM or IM me on yahoo...mssweetangelina


WHAT a wonderful Thread! Have always thought that a woman, into enjoying bi men, is the most erotic quality, of a very sexual nature. Women that love seeing men be affectiate, willing to kiss, embrace, then show their raw lust, encouraged bi a lady, would be the ulitimate Best of both worlds. For me, to share sucking a man with a lady, share his cum, snowball it, have her save some and use it to lubricate my ass and prepare it for penetration, is a wonderful fantasy at this point. Then, most of all, to have me on my back and her cradling me, offering me her delicious tits and nipples as a special gift, and MOST of all, gaze into my eyes as I'm penetrated, would fulfill a long held fantasy. Would Love to meet a Lady that gets off on such thoughts - not to mention, I would be Yours, to fulfull what ever You Desire! Ms Sweet Angelina, you've aroused my passions....

Sweet Tongue kisses, tasting of preCum..... All Ladies who would like to help me fulfill this (and MOST important) fulfill their own fantasies, Please PM me....
 
Flattery will get you everywhere, Eclectic! :nana:

I'm glad this thread is giving some of you an outlet that you might not otherwise have. Please keep the PMs coming! :kiss:
 
Its so sad, I coud cry

I've only had one girlfriend that was into the bi-mmf scene, and we used to talk about it when we were having sex, and she really got off on all that stuff.

Unfortunately, we never got round to actually trying it.

Since then, the gf's I've had have made it clear they find it a turn off, so I've not been able to tell them my desires, though I have spoken to many girls who I've not dated, and most say they find men on men and MMF a real turn on (unfortunately, their boyfriends don't, so that avenue of pleasure is once again closed off from me !!) :(
 
More gay than bi

I would love to be a slut for a dom bi male and have the wife watch or particapate.
When I was 20 I was a drag queen and actually did a three way with a husband and wife. He had me suck his dick while she watched, then I ate his ass. He fucked me and made me eat her pussy at the same time. I wish I had pics of it.
 
Pics

Anyone that wants to see pics of me sucking off a str8 guy cam message me and I will share them.
 
There are varying degrees to which a person can be said to be bi. In my opinion at least!
I would personally be happy with sucking a cock when I was involved in an MMF 3sum, but can't see myself doing it as a one to one. However, if he's got a large one, well... ok.
Would you say that tobe bi, a man would have to be into pentrative sex, either as the 'giver' or the recipient? Or, does being merely oral include a man in this envelope?
It's just an interesting concept to me, and I'm not massively fussed either way. I know what I like and if I'm enjoying what I'm doing then I'll keep on doing it!
I have a story up 'First Taste' which can be found on my sig. It's nothing too special, but it is an almost ;) true story.
 
Keeping the bi side of myself a secret is tough..... and sometimes I wonder if it is worth the risk but then you remember the feelings and the buzz of meeting a guy and go through the risk again!!

MMF is definitely something I would love to try - just need to find the right combination of guy and gal to get it working :p
 
What a great thread!

I am not secretly bi, I am open about my preferences. I was married and when I told my ex after 20 years we divorced! Well, now I am the person I always wanted to be. A very submissive and willing lover to both men and women. I've been lucky enough to meet a few women who think that playing with bi guys is sexy and I love it! But being taken by a guy is something no one can understand until you try it!
Sunday I went to the park dressed up and met a very nice black guy who had a very hard 9" cock. It took 5 minutes for me to work him into me. Finally after I had relaxed enough I started to slide back and forth on his cock. I was bent over a fallen tree for 30 minutes as he slowly fucked me with long deep strokes and grinding while deep inside me. Finally as he got nearer to cumming he picked up the pace and finished with long deep fast pounding of my ass as I tightened my mussle's on him. If I only get it once a day thats what I like!
But when I got home someone on YH messenger asked if he could cum over! Well, of course he could! Twice more I got fucked! I guess my basket was filled for Easter!

PS Just a bit of advice....don't waste your life wishing for something you have control of.
 
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saw your post and i would love to be able to share with you...my wife is not really into talking about this side of me .message me ..i am on yahoo messenger send me a mesage.
 
Oh, at last!

You made my day :) I started to believe that women like you do not exist on earth, nice to hear that woman like you exist and I hope one day I can find my woman. I am eager to talk with you. You can reach me at my e-mail and also I am available for voice chat at Skype (http://www.skype.com) with nick mete72.

Hope we can speak one day :)
 
I wish there were more out there like Mssweetangelina, a woman who knows, undersstands and is open about it.

If more ladies thought about it and brouched the subject honestly they would probably find many of us would jump on the chance.

I know I have, would and want to...

(NJ/NY area by the way... for intrested parties)
 
This describes me as well. I've been looking for someone to experiment with, but most of the leads I get don't pan out, sadly.

I'm thinking that perhaps I might find a glory hole on my upcoming trip to Philadelphia, perhaps I'll find something there of interest. We'll see....
 
make your move

Positive karma that you laid in a previous life!
make your move majorDarkside! :nana:
 
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Sounds like quite an interesting dilemma, MajorDarkside!

The fantasy you describe sounds quite hot indeed and I'm sure it makes for quite an interesting atmosphere at work, lol. ;) I can't really give you any advice other than to say be careful if you do try and go for it. I'm sure you can imagine the negative fallout if things "went south" and then had to face this woman every day :confused:

It would be awesome if you could make it happen though! :nana:
 
Major Dark
The best of worlds and the worst of worlds. If there wasn't the work connection it would be a lot easier. Like mentioned earlier haveing to look at each other if it doesn't work out every day could be a major problem. could be a problem if it does work out. But nothing ventured nothing gained. Tread easily but don't stop till you know its a dead end. Been in some simular situations and it was well worth the the risk. What the F... Ilive the vision. One of my favorate fanitisies, and a couple of my realities.
 
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