are you a jealous person?

[Sweet_and_Sensual]

When I was younger, I used to be a jealous person because I believe I wasn't happy with myself. Now since I've been Single, I'm learning new things about myself and very confident with myself. Think it all depends on the person.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

sometimes i get a smidge jealous of people who dont have to work for a living.

but other than that though, i dont really feel jealousy like one is supposed to

i have now watched 3 murderporn shows in a row where the person is killed because someone thought they were cheating or being intimate with others

i feel as long as one is told beforehand or immediately after what is going on, then all is good but apparently my feelings are different from others cause i aint gonna do a murder over it

sometimes I am completely ambivalent, other times I am pathologically jealous... bordering on the homicidal.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I am not. My wife is. When I think about it I’m kinda surprised since she dominate and I’m submissive.

 

[water_moutina]

I am not. My wife is. When I think about it I’m kinda surprised since she dominate and I’m submissive.

Exact opposite for me. My hubs is jealous, and I'm not

 

[Dom70]

If I have had total honesty from the other person, then I am not a jealous type.

 

[SunshineSam218]

I'm not the type of person to be jealous.

 

[KatieDoes]

I used to get jealous frequently when I was younger. I’m sure it stemmed from my own insecurities and lack of confidence in myself.

Now that I’m older, more confident, more self aware, emotionally stronger, and have more life experience, I have almost zero jealous streak.

I find myself genuinely thrilled for others when good things come their way. Experience has taught me that even when someone appears to have everything I think I’d want, they also have struggles and challenges that might be far worse than I realize. So when the good things come for people, I’m happy to celebrate them.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I used to get jealous frequently when I was younger. I’m sure it stemmed from my own insecurities and lack of confidence in myself.

Now that I’m older, more confident, more self aware, emotionally stronger, and have more life experience, I have almost zero jealous streak.

I find myself genuinely thrilled for others when good things come their way. Experience has taught me that even when someone appears to have everything I think I’d want, they also have struggles and challenges that might be far worse than I realize. So when the good things come for people, I’m happy to celebrate them.

In this day and age that's a very stable place to be. I'm not jealous of what others have either. Some are in a better place than I am, and some are far worse. Jealousy is self destructive.

 

[CarlyAnn]

I was when I was younger and then I dated a guy who was extremely jealous and I saw what it looked like. We dated for about 6 months and I went out with the girls one night. When I got home he was waiting outside and came into my apartment. He accused me of cheating (I hadn’t cheated) and started to slap me around. Then he knocked me to the floor and started kicking me. He broke a few ribs, my wrist, my jaw and left a 2” deep cut in my head. He was obsessed and possessive and I found out, a bit crazy. I’m no longer jealous

 

[ericalauren]

I get jealous of abled people often.

 

[Nightspeed]

Absolutely not. In college (back in 1987) I lived with a woman who was certifiably insanely jealous. She'd sit outside my classes to make sure I wasn't talking to female classmates. She'd accuse me of fucking every woman I spoke to. She would even wake up from a dream demanding to know who the women in the dream were and how long had I been fucking them?

This went on for seven or eight months, but like in so many abuse stories, I couldn't leave. I was madly in love with her, even after she began isolating me from my male friends. But I woke up the day she swung her hand at me to slap me. I fenced in college, long before I got old and obese. I had reflexes like a cat on meth. I caught her wrist with the palm of her hand a half inch from my face. INSTANTLY she became "the victim", claiming I'd broken her wrist, she was going to call the cops, and such. She even said she'd commit suicide because of it. I told her to do it in the bathtub so it would be easier to clean up. Then I very calmly took her key from the key ring and walked out the door.

But that trigged the PTSD that has led to all of the current emotional and mental issues that I've had to deal with for the last 35 years. And I vowed I would never again date a jealous woman and I in turn would never be jealous of what they do or who they know. Hell, if they want to fuck someone else then come home and tell me about it I would get so turned I'd either have to have sex with her immediately or at least jerk off as she talked about it.

Anyway, this was really long way to say, "No, I'm not a jealous person". Thanks for sticking around for it.

 

[ericalauren]

I'm not jealous when it comes to relationships. That being said, I'm extremely envious of abled people. I'd love to not be disabled anymore.

 

[TwinkleStars]

I get jealous watching porn. I'm pissed off that hot guy on the screen isn't pounding the fuck out of my pussy.

Jealous, no, not me.

 

[MetalRabbit51]

This prompted me to research the difference between jealousy and envy. Apparently there's some overlap between these feelings, with jealousy being when you direct anger to a person.
By that measure, I'm hardly ever jealous. It's a misguided, destructive emotion that helps no one. Since I'm not a possessive person by nature, I avoid most of that.

My last girlfriend was extremely jealous towards me. She couldn't accept that I had women friends. Not booty calls, not FWB... just friends. She always suspected me of scheming behind her back to meet other women. I was completely faithful to her. But the thought that I might or the belief that I was secretly scheming to cheat, burned a hole in her, and broke us up. Such a waste.

I have experienced envy at times in the context of relationships, as in feeling envious of a man who enjoyed the company of a woman I desired to be with, but wasn't.. or wasn't anymore. In those instances, I wasn't angry at the man, more just upset about the situation. But that's a self-destructive wormhole, too. Best to chalk it up to experience and cut one's losses. Besides, in those situations, it was her loss, not mine.

 

[Twistedkink]

I am not a Kelli’s person for a few simple reasons. First I want who I care about to be happy. Second if they choose not to be with me then I will let them go physically and ultimately emotionally. I don’t go where I’m not wanted.

 

[muscularcowboy797979]

I get jealous of abled people often.

Howdy - not to be offensive at all, but that's really hot! It could make for some interesting stories here

 

[IndianaStevenJones]

Not even a little bit. My wife gets jealous at times though.

 

[Filipinawife]

I can be jealous my husband less so

 

[slavemelanie]

Not really to individuals but at time to situations. Being open minded helps to limit those thoughts.

 

[calangston62]

I only get jealous of women because I'm a feminine male I just wish men could wear lingerie, encouraged to suck cock , celebrated by swallowing sperm and recognized by making love like a woman. The greatest thing in this world is seeing a Panty Princess earn her place and be taught a lesson on being a bitch.

I'm a proud but discreet bitch who's dying to get fucked for the very first time this is the only time I get jealous of women they are open sexually as men are closed .

 

[lovecraft68]

Jealousy is an ugly effect of low self esteem. Most people are jealous over their lover because they feel they're inadequate and their partner will see that if they talk to other people.

 

[DanDraper]

We all get jealous, it's human nature. It all depends on how you handle that jealousy.



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[Inthesewalls]

Sometimes. Jealousy to me is a big neon sign to me that in unhappy with a person or situation. Either the relationship is missing something or im unhappy with something in my own life.

 

[Ingenue844]

I get very jealous. I wish I could chill but that’s just not me.

 

[Weirdnessome]

I can be