Are you a kinky, curious girl, who thinks she's a sub? Are you an experienced sub

[crazyangel7]

You know that a commendation from a pathetic excuse for a woman is worthless, too? If you can't show that you can distinguish between morally right and morally wrong, why would your assessment of a person be of any value to anyone?

I think sinpain, you and I have all made our perspectives and opinions abundantly clear.

You now make yourself clear to everyone by attacking a submissive....
....for having her own opinion......and being loyal to/protective of her dominant.....for CHOOSING not to respond to you.

I trust others to read this thread and form their own independent opinions.

I understand this has been a multi-year pissing match for you, but it truly is time to stop. Your time and energy could be used so much more effectively elsewhere......such as developing your own dynamics.

 

[Primalex]

You now make yourself clear to everyone by attacking a submissive....

Why would you get special treatment because of your sexual preferences? This doesn't make any sense. You are a mature woman, aren't you?

for having her own opinion

I'm not attacking you for your opinion - if at all, I'm attacking you for withholding your opinion.

You come in here and expect other people to change their opinion about your dominant, yet, you refuse to answer any question that is about how those opinions got formed.

You come in here and demand that people don't ignore your opinion ("why you didn't seem to take me into account at all? You can't pick and choose the pieces you want to focus on."), yet, when we don't ignore you, you don't like what we ask.

Who is now choosing the pieces?

It's simple:
"Do this or I will make sure it will have bad consequences for you!" - is this negotiation with someone who is not your submissive in your book?

Answer "Yes" or answer "No". It's not rocket science, Carole Ann Boone.

 

[crazyangel7]

Why would you get special treatment because of your sexual preferences? This doesn't make any sense. You are a mature woman, aren't you?

Oh.....so you do recognize women and submissives as capable? You hold them to a standard? To be responsible for themselves and their choices? Geez.....how progressive, treating us like we are whole people.

Glad you clarified that.

As we all......unfortunately know, you have been on this thread from the beginning. Perhaps your memory isn't what it used to be? Let me remind you. The following is a direct quote from sinpain's original posting of what he was looking for.

"Now that she's out of my system, I'm on the lookout for a girl who like the idea of loyalty, and isn't afraid of the feels. If you're romantic, it's a plus, but you don't have to be. You can even be shy. Any body type is fine, and any age is fine, as long as you have no problem with proving that you're a born female. No, a pic won't do it. I need to hear your voice via Skype".

How much more fucking clear could it be????? He stated his intentions and requirements from the beginning.

Stop acting like you are some righteous savior. You don't give a shit. You are a true and complete troll.....over 5k posts helps demonstrate that.

The user this is all about, veletoblue, joined this site the same month/year this all popped off - June 2014. Posted 7 times total and has disappeared into the ether.

That user....she, he, ze, they, whatever....is responsible for reading the post and moving forward with contacting sinpain. That's it, that simple.

But...whatever...it doesn't really matter. Need to win your little piss fight? Ok...great...it happened exactly like you......who wasn't there....said it did. You've been right for 7 years - gold star.

Can you move on now? The rest of us have. Sinpain in particular has......again.....and again......and again, to the thrill of many women like myself. Sorry....I forgot....you wouldn't know what that's like.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

This thread, it truly is the gift that keeps on giving.

 

[Primalex]

Oh.....so you do recognize women and submissives as capable? You hold them to a standard? To be responsible for themselves and their choices? Geez.....how progressive, treating us like we are whole people.

I like how you are trying to turn this around, after you failed your "Look how he treats a poor submissive!" approach. I don't think my view is very progressive, but if you want to give me credit for it, fine.

As we all......unfortunately know, you have been on this thread from the beginning.

Thank you for confirming that I'm an expert on this topic.

Perhaps your memory isn't what it used to be? Let me remind you.

Perhaps your memory isn't what it used to be? Let me remind you.

Do this or I will make sure it will have bad consequences for you!" - is this negotiation with someone who is not your submissive in your book?

This is the current question.

 

[Sinpain]

Bumping this thread.

Please look at the very start of this thread for more info.

I’m very busy lately, so also looking for men to play with very smart hot talented sub of mine. All men who qualify must actually have a life and can’t live in their parents basements and cannot have over five thousand trolling posts on this site.

Sinpain

 

[Sinpain]

Fet

If you’re a sub or a DOM and you’re on Fet send me a note with your screenname.

Sinpain

 

[Primalex]

very smart [...] sub of mine.

Oh, you attract those, too? She should join this thread, maybe she can answer a simple question.

 

[slutindianwife]

Nope!

 

[5by5]

If i may

I don't understand how so much hate can come from people, aimed at one person, who they've never gotten to know on or off site.

Let me be clear, i am not a sub or a dom.
I'm simply a woman (37 at the time of posting this) who met a man (Sinpain as he's known on here) at a time in my life where i was extremely cynical and untrusting. But also extremely lonely.

On one of my old accounts (I've been on lit for years on and off) i left a audio on the skype thread expressing that i wanted something from someone, but didn't know what i wanted or what i had to give. Sinpain heard my audio and reached out to me, stating it was just to talk as he felt there was something in my voice that connected with him.

I was reluctant to talk off site due to past experiences both here and in 'real life' and stated i wanted nothing sexual and that he would be wasting his time. I'd based this off his profile and what i could gather from his posts and figured I'm not willing to submit to anybody.

I asked him for a voice sample as i was convinced he wouldn't and that would be that. But he did and i gave him my skype as i was now curious, but in our first mini chat, i barely spoke and tried to give nothing away. But he stated that he would honour my request to keep things platonic and just wanted the chance to get to know me.

As time went on, i wanted to make things sexual but he reminded me of what I'd asked for and no matter how much i flirted with and enticed him, he never wavered, which I'm grateful for in hindsight even though it was frustrating as heck at the time. By him keeping his word and us just talking i began to trust him, and even though i have no idea what he looks like, i developed a serious crush on him.
Yes he voice is stupid sexy, but it wasn't just that, i love his frankness and honesty and how passionate he can get about things that mattered to him. Plus, due to his experience and my lack of, if things had gone down the sexual route I'm sure I'd be satisfied.

I didn't see it then, but i didn't really want something sexual, i needed a friend, someone who wanted to talk to me, who cared about what i felt and why. But in the same vain i wanted something to happen as i gradually became attracted to him because of his personality, even with the occasional clashes, i enjoyed debating with him and holding my points when i had them, it was a turn on.

Several years later, even with gaps in communication because of life stuff, i now consider him a friend. We've had healthy debates as we don't always agree on things, but I've never hated him, i respect his right to think independently vice versa, he's made and makes me laugh and through our friendship I've learned alot about myself. Is he perfect? No, no one is. But he's also incredibly sweet to me and trusts me. And I've never felt uncomfortable when chatting.

So I'm not posting this to defend him as he can do that himself if he feels the need. But after coming back to the boards recently and seeing that he's still being attacked by the few. I'm genuinely confused, as the man i know doesn't match up with what some are claiming him to be. I must stress i am not trying to start beef with anyone, but Sinpain is my friend and I don't see how this justified.

 

[Primalex]

I don't see how this justified.

So, are you willing to answer my question then?

 

[5by5]

So, are you willing to answer my question then?

I believe the question you refer to has already been answered.
So why do you continue to ask it?

 

[Primalex]

I believe the question you refer to has already been answered.

No.‎‎‎‎

 

[Sinpain]

Bumping this thread.

Just a bump. Please refer to the very first post of this thread for more info. Thanks!

 

[richmondman]

Haven't been on Lit that much in a while, just now and then. But I have a few threads set up for email alerts on Yahoo. So all of a sudden I see the continuing for ages battle going again. Frankly, I don't get the stalking by Primalex over and over. This is supposed to be a fun place.

CrazyA posting here as you requested below.

Peace out

 

[Primalex]

So, are you willing to answer my question then?

I guess it is a "No, I don't answer the question." then.


This could even become a movie.

"My MASTER is not a vampire! Stop slandering him! He never bit me and turned me into a subordinate and I'm saying this out of my free will!"
"So, are you willing to touch the cross over there to prove that?"
"NOOoooooooooo *hiss*"

 

[Sinpain]

Spring cleaning.

A big thanks to all the people here who’ve shown support of my thread, including the many subs who’ve experienced me in real life/online, most of whom know my true identity, and have entrusted me with theirs, and also for trying their earnest to keep my thread free of annoying clutter. Special thanks to a still-platonic friend here who advised me to use the block feature, which has really helped against the no-life having trollers

For anyone else seeing this thread for the very first time, please refer to the very first post of this thread for more info. Thanks!

 

[subcuriousgirl]

This is quite an impressive thread, I must say. To have stuck with this for so long shows how dedicated you all are to proving or disproving one person's worth. I haven't read the whole thing, but have seen enough.

While I haven't known Sinpain for very long, I can say He is an extremely unique individual. I couldn't stand Him at first, to be honest. I accused Him of being pushy and refused to talk to Him...until I gave in to Him. I regretted caving at first, after a very heated conversation. He frustrates me so much at times. He says things that come across as rude and I definitely misunderstand His tone in some of His messages. Because of His intelligence, He comes across as condescending at times, which frustrates me further.

All that to say, He is incredibly fascinating. We can talk for several hours about non-sexual things and I will find myself wet, just from His voice. His voice...I could listen to it all day and it sticks with me long after we stop talking. He is incredibly skilled at reading people, which makes me feel like He knows me to my core- crazy, seeing as we haven't talked that long. That knowledge is invaluable for a DOM to have, seeing the responsibility He has for his sub. I do not belong to Him at this time, but even through this trial period, I can see how He could satisfy a sub fully and completely.

I have been lucky enough to have a few experiences with Him and they were incredible. He uses what He already knows about me to bring me to some of the greatest orgasms I have ever had- maybe the greatest I have ever had. The most recent one rolled through my body for what seemed like ages, and my pussy felt the trembling aftermath long after we ended the conversation. And just knowing that He was pleased that I was a good girl was an unbelievable feeling.

Say what you want- pick apart my words and feelings. I know He has other subs. But I speak from experience, and see myself as a lucky girl, indeed.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Formulaic

 

[subcuriousgirl]

You sound envious

Formulaic

I’m speaking from experience. Have you experienced him before? I think you’d understand if you had. Maybe you’ll be as lucky as me someday.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I’m speaking from experience. Have you experienced him before? I think you’d understand if you had. Maybe you’ll be as lucky as me someday.

Envious? Haha, no. I consider myself quite lucky to have avoided many land mines here at Lit. I’ve read this thread since it began, and there have been red flags that I’m amazed people ignore. The accolade “Yelp Dom Review” posts are so suspiciously cookie cutter, as well. Anyway, I think it’s a good thing he’s kept it all in one thread. While that’s hardly advisable, the fact that women had access to all of this and still chose to talk to him shouldn’t be minimized. An interesting cog in the Lit social experiment for sure!

 

[Primalex]

Formulaic

Well, she forgot to mention how "nasty" she felt; so no bingo winner.

 

[subcuriousgirl]

Oh, yeah...

Well, she forgot to mention how "nasty" she felt; so no bingo winner.

I forgot about how nasty he makes me feel. Thank you! ;-)

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Well, she forgot to mention how "nasty" she felt; so no bingo winner.

She should probably apologize for missing the mark in her review. Feeling nasty is a key component of the “Sinpain experience.”

 

[crazyangel7]

She should probably apologize for missing the mark in her review. Feeling nasty is a key component of the “Sinpain experience.”

I see these pesky weeds have returned. Or perhaps cockroaches is a better comparison?

I value intelligence and would love to go back and pick you all apart the way you continue to try, emphasis on try, to do to sinpain in a methodical manner. I have tried somewhat, but honestly, I have a life. I go offline for awhile, since I am satisfied and have no need to regularly visit lit anymore, and I keep coming back to you and your whiney male counterpart flooding this thread.

You both annoy me.

Formulaic? Do you not see the flip side? It is called consistency. Clear evidence that sinpain conducts himself in a similar fashion over time and has to ability to adapt himself to different women/subs to illicit a strong response.

I'm a 90's baby, so this phrase comes to mind.
Don't hate the player, hate the game.