Are you dominant or submissive

Closet submissive cum slut for men...

And that pretty much sums it up... 😆
I'm an old married grandpa who has pretty much kept my craving for cock from everyone I know.
There were times when I tried to get my wife on board to dominate me but... As most people know, "fake" domination is pretty much useless. It has to be a turn on for her...
So, even though I try and stop, I keep on going back to trying to be fucked, used, and abused...
(Read my stories - they're all based on at least a smidgen of reality...)
 
I like both. The thought of being tied and helpless in front of my wife, or a cock that wants to punish me is a turn on. But im equally turned on by being in control totally.
 
Submissive but...

I’m definitely a submissive to Mistress because if I don’t have structure I’m a mess of a human lol, every so often She tells me to take it and something animalistic comes out of me, that’s rare though. I love serving her.
 
Depends

On the mood, sometimes like to be held slapped and fucked until it feels like my legs are locked out. other times need to be in control and make then beg for relief
 
I am quite an assertive person in my day to day life. However im starting to realise I am actually submissive but it only seems to be with those who clearly make me feel this way. I also realised I am not very good at being dom although I can rock the look :)
 
Sub

For the longest time i felt like i was most definitely a Dom but as i delved more into my sexual life i've come to realize that i am way more submissive even tho in my day to day life i am most definitely fighting to keep in control of thing while in the bedroom that's a whole nother story
 
Fully and completely dominant. In and outa the bedroom. After 62 years I’m pretty good at it lol.

I was too. From my teens until I reached my mid to late 40's. I was often called cruel to women and a bastard ( and worse) by men, often husbands of the women I used to fuck.

All this changed. Not suddenly but over a period of perhaps 5/y6 years. I am now sexually submissive. I almost seem to encourage other men to humiliate me and make me feel inadequate and jealous.

My wife teases me. Sometimes she does much more than tease.

I am really not sure which "me" I prefer.
 
I was too. From my teens until I reached my mid to late 40's. I was often called cruel to women and a bastard ( and worse) by men, often husbands of the women I used to fuck.

All this changed. Not suddenly but over a period of perhaps 5/y6 years. I am now sexually submissive. I almost seem to encourage other men to humiliate me and make me feel inadequate and jealous.

My wife teases me. Sometimes she does much more than tease.

I am really not sure which "me" I prefer.

Likely the latter since this is what you have transitioned into. Your wife seems to like the new you, and you seem to be embracing all aspects of the new you.... go with it
 
Still exploring to find out.. I believe it depends on what type of person you are dealing with or maybe that’s in my case since I would consider myself a switch. I believe that I may start off getting to know a person by being more sub-like, but if there is an opening for me to take control or if I am put in the position in which I feel I have to take control, I would.

So maybe I am a submissive, but can be a service top?
 
Still exploring to find out.. I believe it depends on what type of person you are dealing with or maybe that’s in my case since I would consider myself a switch. I believe that I may start off getting to know a person by being more sub-like, but if there is an opening for me to take control or if I am put in the position in which I feel I have to take control, I would.

So maybe I am a submissive, but can be a service top?

I dont see what a submissive can not be a service top on occasion. I have a friend thats a submissive and she gives electric type care to with a violet wand to submissives’s who request it. Her Dom seems to be accepting of it. If your providing a service someone wants and everyone else in your life is okay with it then i don't see why you can’t. But good to ask whoever is involved in your life. incase someone has a problem with it.
 
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