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Are you dominant or submissive

Depends, but I think I'm mainly submissive which I'm sure is terrible for my credibility.
 
I feel this. Still figuring everything out, but think I need to get some submission out of my system for the right male dominant.
 
Dominant

I am a dom, and learned it slowly over years, and with the help of a friend here through play.
 
I am not sure if I posted on this question, so I will take the chance and say I am definitely submissive. Have been all my life.
 
Orchidea73 said:
Isn't that an innate thing? I mean, if you are submissive you can't dominant and viceversa. I suppose one can try, but it would be kinda faked, forced?
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Yes, that's very true. I've spoke to some people or say they're a switch. This confuses me sometimes, but than again I am new to all of this.
 
EnchanteDream said:
Yes, that's very true. I've spoke to some people or say they're a switch. This confuses me sometimes, but than again I am new to all of this.
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Oh yeah, I knew a girl who said she was a switch as well. And I don't know how that works either.

I suppose they are both, like yin & yang maybe?

I'm not an expert by any means. I'm not even part of BDSM world. I'm just curious.
 
Orchidea73 said:
Isn't that an innate thing? I mean, if you are submissive you can't dominant and viceversa. I suppose one can try, but it would be kinda faked, forced?
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I don't think so, necessarily. On balance, I am definitely a submissive, but there have definitely been a few occasions where I've been dominant. It's not something I really actively want to do most of the time, but there are occasions where something clicks or a fantasy or two that's a little different.

Ex: I was with someone for quite a while and almost always a sub with him, even though he was more of a switch. It wasn't planned, but one night he ended up on all fours on the bed while I played "don't move or I'll stop" for a very long time.

Another: I have a fantasy about a particular female athlete who is definitely muscular enough and tall enough that she could pick me up and break me in half. I love to imagine finger fucking her until she cries.
 
Really?

If you can't tell by my screen name, then you need to strip and lay across my knees!
 
Both

I personally go through phases. I love dominating my wife. I try to get her to dom me but she is not interested. Have had some online fun in the past woth male and female doms. Have also had fun online dom for males and females. Have had one strange real life experience with a male "dom" but he just was into spanking. Wasnt really for me.
 
ashkitten said:
I don't think so, necessarily. On balance, I am definitely a submissive, but there have definitely been a few occasions where I've been dominant. It's not something I really actively want to do most of the time, but there are occasions where something clicks or a fantasy or two that's a little different.

Ex: I was with someone for quite a while and almost always a sub with him, even though he was more of a switch. It wasn't planned, but one night he ended up on all fours on the bed while I played "don't move or I'll stop" for a very long time.

Another: I have a fantasy about a particular female athlete who is definitely muscular enough and tall enough that she could pick me up and break me in half. I love to imagine finger fucking her until she cries.
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I can understand that. But I was ref. to those who don't have that side, if that's the right word. Like, for example, the idea of dominating a man is very off putting for me. Even when I read that scenario in a book, I was like "nope, don't like it".
 
Orchidea73 said:
I can understand that. But I was ref. to those who don't have that side, if that's the right word. Like, for example, the idea of dominating a man is very off putting for me. Even when I read that scenario in a book, I was like "nope, don't like it".
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I like it it seems subversive since it seems they are generally considered dominant.
 
Orchidea73 said:
Could you elaborate? I'm not sure I fully understood.
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It just seems more subversive. Like you are breaking society's rules. Making them question their masculinity.

Hot.

I dont feel this way all the time it just strikes me some times
 
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