Are you spoiled?

[lilrosie lips]

I was out looking for avs in preparation for my 100th post. As picture after picture of females with enhanced breasts and liposuctioned bodies passed in front of me, I started to think about is all this overload good? The same images appear all over the media, and I live in Los Angeles where it seems that the proportion of fit and tanned is even greater than elsewhere. Most of us are unenhanced, we don't look like those women,
(and most men don't look like the men in pictures either... LOL). Some of us are heavy, short, thin, tall. Most of us don't look like models. I have what I think are nice looking breasts, been told so fairly often, but certainly not like the women in magazines, tv, movies or in pic sites on the internet. So I was wondering do people come to expect a higher degree of physical beauty because of the media bombardment? When we meet real people are we dissapointed by what we see, even subconciously? Any thoughts?

 

[Devil_d0ll]

I was out looking for avs in preparation for my 100th post. As picture after picture of females with enhanced breasts and liposuctioned bodies passed in front of me, I started to think about is all this overload good? The same images appear all over the media, and I live in Los Angeles where it seems that the proportion of fit and tanned is even greater than elsewhere. Most of us are unenhanced, we don't look like those women,
(and most men don't look like the men in pictures either... LOL). Some of us are heavy, short, thin, tall. Most of us don't look like models. I have what I think are nice looking breasts, been told so fairly often, but certainly not like the women in magazines, tv, movies or in pic sites on the internet. So I was wondering do people come to expect a higher degree of physical beauty because of the media bombardment? When we meet real people are we dissapointed by what we see, even subconciously? Any thoughts?

i think most ppl do expect the higher standard but it is a fact that most ppl are over weight...
when i meet someone for the first time i have seen pics of the real them and have a good idea of what im getting myslef into unles they look nothing like their pic then its kinda scary lol but thats another story... some ppl might subconciously be disappointed but that is something that the individual person has to deal with htemselves

as for Av's.. i pick mine based on my mood or something from my personalitly i have went throught about 20 Av or more since i hit 100 and that was in march i think lol.. as with the one right now.. im feeling stressed but still want to be a princess...to someone who kinda knows whats going on with me the would so get the pic and understand
hope this thread helps u out

 

[lilrosie lips]

Re: Re: Are you spoiled?

i think most ppl do expect the higher standard but it is a fact that most ppl are over weight...
when i meet someone for the first time i have seen pics of the real them and have a good idea of what im getting myslef into unles they look nothing like their pic then its kinda scary lol but thats another story... some ppl might subconciously be disappointed but that is something that the individual person has to deal with htemselves

as for Av's.. i pick mine based on my mood or something from my personalitly i have went throught about 20 Av or more since i hit 100 and that was in march i think lol.. as with the one right now.. im feeling stressed but still want to be a princess...to someone who kinda knows whats going on with me the would so get the pic and understand
hope this thread helps u out

Thanks for the input Devil_d0ll ... I know what you mean about the av's.... I expect to be changing regularly....like every 20 minutes... LOL...

 

[sweetmamaangel]

avs, spoiled

I don't think I am personally spoiled....but I think society is as a whole. This is old news to the BBW of the world. We are seem as less than human b/c we are less than perfect. Honestly, though, if everyone was perfect, where would the fun be in interacting with each other-we'd all be the same, and that would be so boring. Character flaws make us individual, and the same goes for physical flaws. If we all looked like Carmen Electra, how would we know each other when we passed in the street, and someone new would never be interesting. I think that though men may expect better than reality in front of other men, usually on an individual basis they are much more accepting. It's all a pissing contest ladies..who can get the nicest looking arm candy.LOL But the ones who demand Barbie usually miss out on the stuff that lasts longer than a boob lift-intelligence, honesty, integrity, a sense of humor, etc. Sometimes you have to sacrifice a little fluff to get the stuff that's good for ya, and if you have any brains, it's not a sacrifice b/c those qualities ARE sexy.IMHO

 

[Ladybird]

Hi lilrosie lips..

With regard to av's I know just what you mean. When I first began posting here, I was so keen to have my own av, that I searched for a long time for an image that I liked.

So when I reached my 100 posts I was ready, and put my av up. It was a very erotic image of a woman, and I received a lot of compliments and pm's about it.

But I felt uncomfortable, because the compliments etc directed at me were for an image of someone else. I didn't look anything like the woman in my av. I am not tall, and I am not slender. I really felt as though I was a fake.

That's when I began taking my own pics and using them. I don't feel comfortable posting a pic of my face, so I use a cleavage pic instead. And now if anyone says they like my av, I know they like me, and how I look. I feel much better about that.

 

[Rex1960]

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But I felt uncomfortable, because the compliments etc directed at me were for an image of someone else. I didn't look anything like the woman in my av. I am not tall, and I am not slender. I really felt as though I was a fake.

That's when I began taking my own pics and using them. I don't feel comfortable posting a pic of my face, so I use a cleavage pic instead. And now if anyone says they like my av, I know they like me, and how I look. I feel much better about that.

Hello posters
Hello Ladybird kotc

no offend..
but don't you think you are more than a cleavage ?
I still think you are a lovely person (as far as I can judge) but I guess some cleavage doesn't tell the entire story...
...
My own av is a fake though it's pretty close.
But not my sixpack, not my pool...
Hiding face and balls in purpose...way too personal.

Rex

PS: I still think you are a lovely person

 

[sweetmamaangel]

avs

I post some pics of me on the boards, but my av is more of my idea of who I am than how I look.

 

[lilrosie lips]

Hello posters
Hello Ladybird kotc

no offend..
but don't you think you are more than a cleavage ?
I still think you are a lovely person (as far as I can judge) but I guess some cleavage doesn't tell the entire story...
...
My own av is a fake though it's pretty close.
But not my sixpack, not my pool...
Hiding face and balls in purpose...way too personal.

Rex

PS: I still think you are a lovely person

From what I have seen here in my first week that there are lots of lovely people here...not just nice... but smart and funny and imaginative... which to me is a great thing...

I agree with LadyBird though... we walk a fine line. Why people choose the av's they do is so individual. Some I am sure do it to attact others to them. Some do it to express an aspect of their personalities or moods... Others do it for the shock effect... I don't think I would like a picture of my face all over this board... but at the same time I can understand how it can feel phony or false to get complements about a strangers body.... I have to think on this for awhile....

 

[Ladybird]

Hello posters
Hello Ladybird kotc

no offend..
but don't you think you are more than a cleavage ?
I still think you are a lovely person (as far as I can judge) but I guess some cleavage doesn't tell the entire story...
...
My own av is a fake though it's pretty close.
But not my sixpack, not my pool...
Hiding face and balls in purpose...way too personal.
Rex
PS: I still think you are a lovely person

Rex, I think I love you... will you marry me?

Just joking sweetheart.. lol

Thank you for your lovely words.. yes I am a lot more than a cleavage, but that's all that I'm prepared to post here. I hope that my words speak for themselves and that no image is required for people to know me.

But..... if you have a peek here, you might see something you won't see again..

 

[Rex1960]

Rex, I think I love you... will you marry me?
Just joking sweetheart.. lol
Thank you for your lovely words.. yes I am a lot more than a cleavage, but that's all that I'm prepared to post here. I hope that my words speak for themselves and that no image is required for people to know me.
But..... if you have a peek here, you might see something you won't see again..

LB !! Wow, now you have me on the hook - lol
ok - lets talk about that marriage... (did I say this outloud?)
you have to delete your pic again...
or the guys will freak your Inbox out of control PMing you like hell... lol
what a cutie... such a smile (or is it a grin?)
kisses and huggs my friend from down-under
Rex

 

[Lady_Sam]

I tend to use fantasy avs because I'm not one of those perfect bodies. And I honestly don't feel like perpetuating that myth. If you look in the bbw threads you'll see a pic or two of me...as well as in the tattoo ones

 

[LovetoGiveRoses]

My AV is definately not me. What can I say. Though I have posted my picture here and then upon occasion. Hello LB..How are you?

 

[weed]

if i had a dig cam, it would be me, or some part of me.....the toughest part of picking an av is they are so unreal and i am real!

Damn, my eyes are better than any i've seen in avs, anyway

 

[1sexylady]

Hi just to give my two cents....

Most people use av's to protect their Id.... I pick one that is close to my personality... If I get pmed on it I tell them it is not me and that I don't have a pic.... It is choice...I write what I am, who I am and that is what is real...I look at everyone's opinion regardless of the av...some have animals and we all know Wolves can't type..

 

[jewel_GR]

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