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Is love worth it?

Maybe playing video games all day in Mom's basement turns out to be GENIUS MOVE

Maybe?
 
I got a question

Is love worth it?

Maybe playing video games all day in Mom's basement turns out to be GENIUS MOVE

Maybe?

Playing video games in Mom's basement gets old fast when you realize you could have your own space to make yours and go to bed and cook or order food whenever works for you. Also, ✨privacy.✨ But you do you!

Love is sometimes extremely painful, and it's also so, so empowering. It's work, and the first person you try doesn't necessarily have to be forever if you just don't feel it anymore. I've loved and lost and loved again, and the growth I've achieved through it has always been worthwhile. You deserve to experience it and find the person/people that feels like home to you, imo ✌️

Also you can still be a gamer and find love, so...💖 Why not?
 
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Growth often is often uncomfortable and nerve-wracking (unless it's dick growth, if that's uncomfortable and causing anxiety, maybe talk to your doctor!), but the understanding that you gain of yourself and your relationships with others is worth it
 
Do you wear cute panties everyday?

I don't! Mostly because I actually find boxer briefs comfier MOST of the time (I have a physical job!) to avoid chub rub, andddd I tend to get horny so easily with panties that it's not ALWAYS viable to wear them out hahaha...but I'd have way more cutesy girly pairs to secretly wear under my masc clothes if I had the money.. 💸💸💸 alas, I am stuck with only a few poor quality pairs until I can afford to pay my bills. 😔
 
I don't! Mostly because I actually find boxer briefs comfier MOST of the time (I have a physical job!) to avoid chub rub, andddd I tend to get horny so easily with panties that it's not ALWAYS viable to wear them out hahaha...but I'd have way more cutesy girly pairs to secretly wear under my masc clothes if I had the money.. 💸💸💸 alas, I am stuck with only a few poor quality pairs until I can afford to pay my bills. 😔
Here's another question.... Do you want to go through my panty drawer and pick a few panties out for yourself?
 
I'm relaxing with a night off of work and a rather large glass of whisky neat to loosen up pre-playtime.

Any questions for a trans boi, curious, genuine, naughty or otherwise? I also welcome PMs! ✨💋

Happy Tuesday!
Hello. I'm glad you opened this forum (?). I am a 64 yr old MWM who has been bi curious for a very long time, but alas I remain only curious at this point. Fueling that curiosity further now is my recent discovery of Lit and cyber, which lead to me realizing that femboi's and CD's/TS girls are my true sexual desire. Though I would welcome a sexual encounter with a twink, or a well muscled athletic guy, preferring him to be smooth, I am truly attracted to the softer, sweeter side of a femboi. A younger, boi needing the attention, affection, of an older man. Having said all that, my question is a genuine one, not naughty this time.

Here on Lit in the chat rooms young femboi's and sissies flock to me, all claiming to "love" older men, wanting a "Daddy" to be devoted too. If this is so true, why have I not broken the code of if a nice boi is hitting on me, or displaying any availability IRL? I'm trying to articulate this well, and not sound like whining. I grew up in an age long before this was so out in the open, and it was totally closeted. I never saw in my younger adulthood anyone resembling a femboi. lol, which for my marriage may have been a good thing.

Next question, then I stop talking. I intend to go to a queer club here in the town I am at for the next couple or three weeks. If present, will a cute boi approach me and make a "first move" as they do here on Lit? Given I am pretty attractive and in pretty descent shape for my age. What are your thoughts. Am I grabbing at straws, or is there a chance? I do want the honest answer please? I can put all this away and forget it and move on if that's the way it will go.

This has gotten really long. I know there are plenty of "Real Men" laughing and guffawing at me. So what. I sense manyof them have the same question, especially if from my generation. You opened up this post, and I have at the very least, had a place to vent. So now having written it, I'll launch it.

Thank you!
 
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Hello. I'm glad you opened this forum (?). I am a 64 yr old MWM who has been bi curious for a very long time, but alas I remain only curious at this point. Fueling that curiosity further now is my recent discovery of Lit and cyber, which lead to me realizing that femboi's and CD's/TS girls are my true sexual desire. Though I would welcome a sexual encounter with a twink, or a well muscled athletic guy, preferring him to be smooth, I am truly attracted to the softer, sweeter side of a femboi. A younger, boi needing the attention, affection, of an older man. Having said all that, my question is a guenuine one, not naughty this time.

Here on Lit in the chat rooms young femboi's and sissies flock to me, all claiming to "love" older men, wanting a "Daddy" to be devoted too. If this is so true, why have I not broken the code of if a nice boi is hitting on me, or displaying any availibility IRL? I'm trying to articulate this well, and not sound like whineing. I grew up in an age long before this was so out in the open, and it was totally closeted. I never saw in my younger adulthood anyone resemplying a femboi. lol, which for my marriage may have been a good thing.

Next question, then I stop talking. I intend to go to a queer club here in the town I am at for the next couple or three weeks. If present, will a cute bio approach me and make a "first move" as they do here on Lit? Given I am pretty attractive and in pretty descent shape for my age. What are your thougths. Am I grabbing at straws, or is there a chance? I do want the honest answer please? I can put all this away and forget it and move on if that's the way it will go.

This has gotten really long. I know there are plenty of "Real Men" laughing and guffawing at me. So what. I sense manyof them have the same question, especially if from my generation. You opened up this post, and I have at the very least, had a place to vent. So now having written it, I'll launch it.

Thank you!
Well done sir. You are definitely not alone, as I am in a similar situation as yourself.
 
femboi's and CD's/TS girls are my true sexual desire
This thread is about transmasc

cute bio approach me and make a "first move" as they do here on Lit?
I guess it's possible a transmasc person might. If you're interested in transfem people, then, if they do make the first move, they might have a certain agnda which you might or might not be intere$ted in. Maybe you could make a first move, if you see someone you like.
 
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