help_me_Rhonda
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What is your response in a situation where it is uncomfortable for you, but you know he likes it and he wants to keep going? Do you ask him to stop? Or do you endure the uncomfortable situation? And does your answer change if it is painful?
If it is a hard limit, stop, now.
Soft limit? It depends on the situation...
Pain (beyond mild play) and humiliation are hard limits.