Attract older women?

[ToxicPoison]

For as long as I can remember, I've found older women much more attractive then the girls my age (I'm 22, going on 23). However, I seem to have the hardest time getting them to pay any attention to me. I'm fairly attractive looking, and I don't think im rude or crude, but it seems like every conversation I manage to start ends up with me alone.

Any suggestions or comments to help this poor guy?

 

[jeepman6]

For as long as I can remember, I've found older women much more attractive then the girls my age (I'm 22, going on 23). However, I seem to have the hardest time getting them to pay any attention to me. I'm fairly attractive looking, and I don't think im rude or crude, but it seems like every conversation I manage to start ends up with me alone.

Any suggestions or comments to help this poor guy?

You can do a search, this topic was discussed not to long ago here, within the last couple of weeks.

 

[ToxicPoison]

Thanks

So there was..

Didn't turn out to be very useful though..seems most of the women are against younger guys..
I guess most women think younger guys are immature and whatnot, I don't believe that's that case with me, but I'll keep trying I suppose
Good things come to those who wait.

 

[Stiffy Says...]

Keep the faith...

... and just be open and honest with them. They key to not being seen as immature is by proving it, which I am sure you can do.

 

[ToxicPoison]

thanks

Thanks stiffy
Naturally I don't act immature (at least I don't think so) and hopefully one of these days a nice lady will notice and appreciate this fact

 

[wicked woman]

Re: Thanks

Originally posted by ToxicPoison
So there was..

Didn't turn out to be very useful though..seems most of the women are against younger guys..
I guess most women think younger guys are immature and whatnot, I don't believe that's that case with me, but I'll keep trying I suppose
Good things come to those who wait.

Trust me that's not the case for all of us....but it does seem to be a love them or hate them situation.

Did you find this thread or this one

 

[Jenny _S]

Re: Re: Thanks

Trust me that's not the case for all of us....but it does seem to be a love them or hate them situation.

Did you find this thread or this one

That's quite true, Wicket Woman. Those who have "trained" their fair share of younger lovers have done their duty, so to speak.

I personally don't care one way or the other. What I do care about is being refered to as "an older woman". I'm 36 and that's old? Call me that when I'm 70 and still sexually active.

 

[ToxicPoison]

Yes i did..

I did read those pages and its really nothing new.

I treat the women I find attractive with the utmost respect, but every attempt seems to end the same way. We'll have a pleasant conversation and I will ask for her phone # or if we could get a cup of coffee sometime and it always seems to end the same way..
She asks me my age, I respond honestly and she'll tell me Im a bit too young for her.

I always thought polite conversation was an attractive attribute too. Perhaps I just dont have good luck....

 

[wicked woman]

Re: Yes i did..

Originally posted by ToxicPoison
I did read those pages and its really nothing new.

I treat the women I find attractive with the utmost respect, but every attempt seems to end the same way. We'll have a pleasant conversation and I will ask for her phone # or if we could get a cup of coffee sometime and it always seems to end the same way..
She asks me my age, I respond honestly and she'll tell me Im a bit too young for her.

I always thought polite conversation was an attractive attribute too. Perhaps I just dont have good luck....

If their first question when you ask for their phone number is to ask your age, then you just aren't meeting the right women...those that have already discovered they love younger men. Don't want to speak for others, but I know personally I had a little difficulty accepting my feelings for my first younger lover....we were friends first...then our feelings grew as well as our attraction to each other. As friends the age difference (which was major) was immaterial....but considering being lovers was very different.

Actually now that I think back..my husband was younger too....only by 3 years though....think that hardly counts.

Sorry no tips on how to meet/seduce older women...I never purposely went after younger men....just sometimes the opportunity presented itself.

Jenny...I hear you but I never considered it 'training'. Yes some of them have been virgins....but even so....it was more about the total relationship.

 

[ToxicPoison]

thanks

Once again I thank you all for your support.

I haven't given up yet...don't think I ever will. I just hope things work out for me eventually..

 

[Dick Cheyney]

Toxic,

The best thing to do in creating conversation with an older woman is the same with a woman of any age. Conversations just seem to click with some and not with others. Like it has been said, just be honest and leave behind any preconceived notions or lusts at the door when you go out to meet them.

In fact, don't go out of your way to meet them. Just let it happen. Subtle touches can bring immense pleasures. The harder you try the more forceful or desperate you are apt to reveal. Just let it all go and enjoy whatever wherever you're at. Odds are you'll bump into somebody on the same wave.

 

[Delta Boy]

Any suggestions or comments to help this poor guy?

Try your local nursing home? Hey, at least they can't run away!

Kidding, kidding...

The cool thing about the older woman is that she doesn't take any shit. She's seen it all and most of it is laughable. So if you aren't sincere even glancing at her was a waste of time.

Don't ask for her number, pal. If she likes you she will take the incentive and GIVE it to you.

Or she will just do what my older woman did and tell you that she wants you. No mind games there. Just all sorts of games of another kind.