warmlips
Goddess of Love
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Maybe you are not sure how to forgive?
I think it's about accepting that people really do make huge mistakes sometimes, be it with awareness or not, most people have done something they would prefer they hadn't done. Imagine how you would feel if someone didn't forgive you for something.
Think how your brother must actually feel, he has feelings too, perhaps he feels very unhappy inside about whatever he has said or done to you, and wishes he could change what he has done, but he can't. Orlanth, you want both of you to be happier, don't you? Your future is only your own, no one else can be responsible for it, and whatever someone has done in the past, you are the only one who can change how you feel about it, transform it into light.
Even if you can't say it to him, I hope you can start to say you forgive him or at least that you would like to, to yourself.
I will PM and tell you my story about forgiveness,
warmlips
I think it's about accepting that people really do make huge mistakes sometimes, be it with awareness or not, most people have done something they would prefer they hadn't done. Imagine how you would feel if someone didn't forgive you for something.
Think how your brother must actually feel, he has feelings too, perhaps he feels very unhappy inside about whatever he has said or done to you, and wishes he could change what he has done, but he can't. Orlanth, you want both of you to be happier, don't you? Your future is only your own, no one else can be responsible for it, and whatever someone has done in the past, you are the only one who can change how you feel about it, transform it into light.
Even if you can't say it to him, I hope you can start to say you forgive him or at least that you would like to, to yourself.
I will PM and tell you my story about forgiveness,
warmlips
