BDSM Personals: Dom/mes seeking submissives

[jeff_is_smiling]

Not a dominant...but controlling sexually...

Any women with sub tendencies living in California around here? I am not into pain or real domination, but I am controlling in bed....anyways, it can't be anything but good to chat, right?

 

[aerofreak]

posting for someone else again... lol

this time, young male dom/switch... hoping to find young female submissives/switches who can ejaculate (easily), but for now, not really expecting the last... open to pretty much anything... can be a bit of a jackass at times, but mostly ok... he's having problems with lit at the time being, but his sn is TimeCrisis & his yahoo im is trianglekeg

 

[welshman]

look down

 

[princess4u]

look down

quite a provocative profile sir ~

 

[theblackthought]

Black Dom seeking mature sub

I posted an ad in the personals section, but I might as well mention my search here...

I am looking in the MidWest; the closer to St. Louis- the better...

Sanity is a must... after that, there must be trust... also, a strong capacity for lust; if you lack any of those- it's a BUST!

 

[welshman]

 

[Prince33]

African American male Dominate, attached, 33 years old looking for a r/l relationship with a submissive in the San Jose Area. PM me if interested.

 

[Richard49]

Michigan Dom looking

I live in Michigan
Have been in the lifestyle for many years
The pic here really is me

I have many vanilla interests including politics,reading,movies,gardening etc.

Drop me a PM and we can build from there

 

[NYSubGrpplr]

sorry, wrong forum

sorry

 

[aerofreak]

just a little nudge to the top so that people know it's here ...

 

[Richard49]

just a little nudge to the top so that people know it's here ...

Thanks for the nudge

 

[OeldeWolf]

Stockton, CA

Hello, folks!

I am a Dom in the Stockton, CA area, looking for a suitable sub/slave. I have multiple interests, and numerous talents. I also make custom furniture from time to time. I am experienced, sane, and respect limits. I am known as a gentleman, even. But make no mistake, I am a "natural" Dom.

As to why only Dom/Dommes seem to post, look at the thread title. With THAT title, anyone looking for a Dom/Domme will read, but not post. Subbie Manners and all that... <chuckles>

There is more info, and a couple of pictures as well, at http://bondage.com Under the nama OeldeWolf.

Richard OeldeWolf

 

[Netzach]

Why not

even though it's unlikely that anyone applicable is reading this:

Very attractive, mid-sized 29yo. bi FemDom (think Bruce Willis' girlfriend in Pulp Fiction) with adorable, lovable mid-sized 30yo. bi mbottom (think quasi Charlie Sheen)

we are looking for laid back, bi, gorgeous (in whatever flavor), nonmonogamous, fun, intelligent, femme bottom-sub-girlygirl (or exceptional and playful bi boi) to enjoy frolic, spankings, canings, teasing and taunting, flogging, tying, dressing up and down, and some of the more evil delights if we're mutually inclined. (piercing? GS? Knife play? Go boldly where my boy won't?)

We also have an occasional play partner, married bi butch dude, 42yo. If you can't deal with that in theory, this may not be the thing for you.

Are there any femmes into femmes and dudes without kids, co-dependency, or u-hauls in the greater Midwest? Let's defrost this spring. Ongoing triad-lovin' not out of the question, but very premature to even discuss. Minnesota locales optimum, or willing to travel.

I'm laid back and respect limits. I'll teach you what I know and I'm willing to say "I don't know." I expect obedience when I've earned it. I believe that obedience and respect are earned over time and I question the notion of "demanding obedience." I'd describe my style as a Top as softly persuasive. I'm bi, prefer other femmes sexually, but I'm open to certain butch bottoms.

My boy is a bottom with a strong submissive tendency. Trust has to be built slowly and patiently with him, and he is not the type of person to do something immediately simply because I say so. Basically, he's a careful, thinking, cautious bottom. He's very affectionate, sweet, cuddly and pampering, with a desire to please, excellent libido, and a respectful and logical outlook. His experiences in SM have mostly been with other men.

Be openminded, really into all genders, things you've not even tried yet. Etc. I'd like you to be age 30 max, size 14 or smaller, and a college grad, but these things are not written in stone.

Friends above all else, really.

 

[BeherskavNatten]

on the hunt for willing prey

the short---
a couple with strong vampiric fetish seeking young, fresh and willing prey to play with us



the long---
18 m - the most dominant. owner, sire and lover of Elskerinne. She always describes me as the tall dark and handsome type, I can see at least the first 2. Artist, amateur chef, and appreciater of the arts, visual and performance. Art, Philosphy, and love are my life. I work to celebrate and preserve life from conception to its natural end.

32 f - submissive toward Beherskav, but secretly craves a younger woman to own and control. Short, busty, and gorgeous (as Beherskav likes to describe me) just like with him, I can see the first two... Very into music and clubs, fun partying personality. Smart and exciting. Typical graver appearance.

the both of us- vampiric tendancies, both in dress, and in lifestyle. Not like drinking goblets of blood or killing or anything, but we both have a certain obcession with bitting and a small amount of blood letting. Going to "The Church" (a nightclub in denver) and hunting for out nights prey....

Ideal Girl:
simply put, willing prey.
someone that shares the other side of our fantasy, who would like to be hunted, seduced, and brought back to our place to be shared between us. Elskerinne sinking her pristine white teeth into the pale skin of our prey while the young woman screams in pain and extacy as Beherskav fills her tight young pussy... etc. She must be not only willing to be taken in such ways, and shared as both our lover and our prey, but she must want it. Ability to play along as an innocent victem is important. In times when we are not playing, she must be young at heart, as we are, an appreciater of music and art, and a generally fun and laid back person.

physical preferences (dont let these discourage you though) -age:18-35 -height: 5'3-5'7 -weight: 125-145 -skintone: pale/light -hair: dark (red or black) -eyes: big, bright (violet or green) -breasts: 34c or larger -shaving: trimmed or shaved (a small strip prefered) -dress:goth/punk(must like black, plaid, boots,collars)

if there is any interest (from questions, to "WHERE DO I SIGN UP??") in either Beherskav or Elskerinne or both, email at

beherskavnatten@hotmail.com
AIM- beherskavnatten
elskerinneavblod


sleep tight, and dont be suprised if we sneak in for a visit...

 

[Nimbulan]

still looking...

23/M in the SA, TX area still looking for a demanding mistress for some discreet fun. Kindly PM if you're in the area.

-Nimbulan

 

[KisstheSky]

this thread deserves some attention, so
BUMP
I'm a 20 yr old switch fem. from IL who doesn't have much experience but is willing to be an apt pupil

 

[KisstheSky]

BUMP

 

[Hexiegirl]

damn
too bad there aren't more dommes out in Cali

 

[Thaelog]

North Texas couple looking for a female pet to play with

We're a clean, drug free young couple looking for a pet for occasional play, possibly a 24/7 situation if things go well. She is bi, no curious about it, so a pet would be more for her. Quite frankly she is insatiable and it would be nice to have someone else for her to play with. We are very open-minded and enjoy just about anything sexual. We are always looking to push the boundries of our sexuality in search of new thrills. We'd like someone who is also somewhat adventurous. Here's some stats on us.

She is:
20 yrs. old
Bi
5'6
160
Long brown hair with red streaks
Blue eyes
A handful of tatoos and piercings (toungue)

He is:
25 yrs. old
Straight
6'4
250
Short brown hair
Brown eyes
One Tatoo and peircing (toungue)

Looking for:
Submisive Bi-fem
18-28 yrs old
Dallas/Ft Worth area

If you're interested you can email us at Nukinfuts@yahoo.com so we can talk further, trade headshots, and possibly meet if we all feel comfortable.

 

[experiment102]

Kissthesky- I'm an 18 year old sub/switch, male from IL. Send me a message if you want to talk sometime

 

[Richard49]

Re: Michigan Dom looking

I live in Michigan
Have been in the lifestyle for many years
The pic here really is me

I have many vanilla interests including politics,reading,movies,gardening etc.

Drop me a PM and we can build from there

I am still looking

 

[experiment102]

Sorry Richard I'm only into relationships with girls. Best of luck in finding a sub.

Kissthesky, I would still very much enjoy getting to talk to you though. Send me a message if you are interested

 

[Hexiegirl]

aww, too bad you're so far away Thaelog

 

[TheCyberPoet]

TIME FOR A REPOST (for those of you who don't read old posts, but are new to the thread)....

Tampa, FL
by Stiff Writer -- err, Staff Writer
TheCyberPoet

Experienced Tampa Dom, never switch, voracious appetite for stimulating the mind as well as the body, is open to new female sub or sub-switch (neophyte to somewhat experienced, but not totally jaded), age 18 to 38, of reasonably sound mind and body (Please no BBW's - females size 13+ are just not Our thing). I am not interested in online play nor phone-sex, although I will take the time to develop an understanding and a good level of communication online and/or over the phone in advance of meeting you. Limits respected; safewords given; you will be trained to My expectations (which do not involve golden showers, scat, beastiality, any illicit drugs, nor minors).

Picture taken 12 Oct 2002

I have a very beautiful live-in bi female significant other (switch for your purposes), who, depending on the semester, often does not have much in the way of free time (between her work and degree studies, it may only be a few hours a week), but you would be expected to acknowledge her presence in My life and form your own relationship with her (she may be Domme to you, or sub, or just the occasional lover; that is strictly a matter of how you two mesh personally and what your desires are -- but I will tolerate no cattiness).

As for Me, I am not above spanking, whipping, flogging or caning for you, but I am not inherently a sadist (pain strictly for the sake of pain) in much of any sense, though I truly enjoy spanking. I use both positive and negative reinforcement, as well as negative-to-positive. Furthermore, I am, for lack of a better term, a pseudo-sexual vampire: I feed off that which fuels My partner's desires, what flames their fires, and what holds no interest for you at any given interest, probably holds no interest for Me for that moment either. This is not to say that I do not have My own prefered scenario's and themes (do you still call it a fantasy if it has already been a reality?), nor that I will not enjoy punishing you in the slightest. If pain turns you on, then I am all for making you feel each sensation intensely and do have great experience in the handing of various impliments, as well as techniques to maximize the perceptualization of the sensations.
I am well aware that the largest sex organ has always been and still is the mind, and I will stimulate yours, probably to realms which you have never reached before. I prefer to train My slaves for voice and eye control, although that requires a very advanced degree of training. And I do believe that romance and BDSM are not mutually exclusive concepts. Finally, I will push your limits, but not exceed them without your specific request (oh, and how you will beg Me to exceed them).

Interested parties should drop Me a PM with a letter of introduction, some information about yourself.

Generalities:
Perceptual Ownership: no matter what the illusion is that I, Master M, 'own' a slave, the truth is that any sub I would accept is a legal adult empowered by law to make her own decisions. She opted to be My slave, to be 'owned' by Me, but the reality is that she could just as easily reverse that decision and walk away (dubious that she would, but possible). No one person can truly own another in our society, irrelevant of convention or law; such ownership in our case is merely a mutually held illusion created by choice and endorsed by action. I do not fool Myself into believing that true ownership exists beyond that.

A Word on Dominance: I am naturally dominant in My environment. I am not inherently pushy [i.e. - gruff in a social context], but rather others just inherently defer to Me because of My education, intelligence and mannerisms, especially in times of crisis. This is an inherent part of My personality. If you prefer the company of weak-willed, easily controlled males, do not seek Me out. If you enjoy the concept of giving yourself to a strong Alpha Male who isn't suffering from testosterone poisoning, and are comfortable with the idea of being shared as ours, then feel free to read My stories and/or write Me.

 

[Hexiegirl]

awww, sooo far away!