BDSM Personals: Dom/mes seeking submissives

I do dominant and submissive roles quite well. Still haven't found someone with the same qualities though.:(
 
mmmmmmmm

i think i could top a woman, i'd love to try; i know what i want and could somewhat anticipate what she might want... i'd never want to top a man; i'd have to be totally repulsed by him and it would not be a respectful situation. i'd love to bottom for a couple, he stern but generous and she luscious generous but of course dedicated first to him, but he likes to watch us pain and pleasure me..... lots of possibilities for only two sexes, aren't there lol :rose: i could bottom for a woman switch, but dommes scare me, i don't know why....:heart:
 
p.s.

course, as long as this is role playing, i can play any role...
and very very very convincingly, as my desires run all over the board and my talents are broad, intriguingly diverse from experiences of incredible range, and i have no, or at least few, sacred cows. :heart: fuck, i just wanna play***********
affectionately,
to all of us alternate lifestylers on line on saturday night,
maryb.goode [can't, have other plans.] :kiss: :rose: remember, i love the petals and the thorns.
 
You would fit in perfectly with Us

Dulchenea said:
i think i could top a woman, i'd love to try; i know what i want and could somewhat anticipate what she might want... i'd never want to top a man; i'd have to be totally repulsed by him and it would not be a respectful situation. i'd love to bottom for a couple, he stern but generous and she luscious generous but of course dedicated first to him, but he likes to watch us pain and pleasure me..... lots of possibilities for only two sexes, aren't there lol :rose: i could bottom for a woman switch, but dommes scare me, i don't know why....:heart:



This is exactly what My Sub and I are looking for.
:D


:kiss: :rose: :kiss: :rose:
 
then let's get to it

then sirrah and miss, :rose: please use me for your pleasure so i may find mine :kiss: :kiss: to be used, with discipline and respect and attention, would satisfy me so.... and i promise....
and i do mean promise :heart:
that my talents are real and varied and succulent, and your pleasure will be served, more than you anticipate. i also promise i am a well integrated whoman, no dissembled girl, who will give my honesty and my friendship to the right people who are also honest and respectful of human beings in general.....and ohhhhhhhh, i am a writer by trade.... but my tongue is even better than my written poesy.... and i hope we can take this to the next step...
and the next, ;) and the next...
and so on.....
:eek:
aff'ly,
allmy
 
I would like a nice submissive man to dominate to my heart's content for a while. ;)
 
sub looking for Domme

hi, i am new to literocita..at least on the forum. i live in oregon and am looking for a Domme. single or married is fine i am a bit knowledgeable. spank me, strap-on, dress me...bi for You. any one out this way? btw aerofreak is very cool, wish i lived out there with them..
 
s. calif. all meet here - details on renting the lair de sade for private party

i posted a new thread rather than type all the details all over and over...
but i'm still here...
look for it under the above 're' or 'subject' or whatever...
ttfn,
dulcie
:rose:
 
I am a 19 yr old male in Tampa Fl looking for a Sub. I am a very passionate person meaining that I take being a master seriously. In a Sub I am NOT looking for any sort of emotional attachment. I have already had enough gf's and emotional attachments for my caring, so if your a Sub hoping to find a "loving" Master look elsewhere. The Sub must be obedient, adventerous, and cute. Those all hold the same level of importance there is no least to greatest or greatest-least in that small list.

To clarify a couple of things:

By adventurous:willing to explore ALL realms of sex because >I< am interested in exploring them.

By obedient:The Sub will quickly respond to all requests. the reason why i say all is because what will be going on for that session will be discussed ahead of time. this does NOT mean if you dont want to do it you will not. I hold the finale word in all things and never forget that.

If you leave in or near the Tampa area you can contact me by email or messenger
email-sinister321@hotmail.com(make sure the subject says "Reply to Search for Sub" or it will be deleted)
AIM messenger-SinisterSins321(when you first message me make sure it says "Hello I am messaging you in reguards to Search for Sub." if it does not you will be blocked)

Thank You and have a nice day.
 
Putting my money where my mouth is

I keep saying keep all your options open, so I’ll post here. I’m ready to get back into the game anyhow.

I’m Croctden Dee: straight dominate twenty-four-year-old short white guy supreme (that covers it all right?). I’ve been doming a few years. I like to consider myself an artistic Dom; I have my subs recite haiku as I spank them. Dance for me too. I’ll veto her hair and clothing choices on occasion. I’ll claim I’m a fairly unstandard dom. I don’t do the lifestyle (clubs, sharing, etc.), I’m self styled. Sometimes I think I want a live-in slave, but when I’ve tried it I didn’t like it. Maybe I’ve just tried girls who are too clingy. I do want an emotional component - to be couple, which is why I keep trying.

Away from women I write, gamble, play chess, study the American Civil War, and watch the NFL. I try to travel when I have the scratch (Hablo espanol mal), damn them college loans!

I seek a submissive woman in the DC area. Not a doormat, I want a girl who has some zest. Experience is not required, I train gladly.
 
Bi female/Straight Male

Hi All!

My Dom and I are looking for a submissive bi female from the UK.
My dom is a straight male and I, although a female bi switch, am dominant, never submissive with other females.

Ultimately we are looking for real life fun with that 'special lady' but that cannot happen until mutual trust and respect has been built, so online chatting, emails and probably phone calls would be a must to start with!

We are both very open and honest - neither of us will entertain any kind of relationship based on untruths - we expect the same in return. We also believe that discussion, feedback and aftercare are paramount.

We are into rôleplaying, the usual BDSM stuff (tho NOT watersports, scat, corpses, kids or animals!) and generally having huge amounts of fun!

We are looking for a Sub that will submit to our will, whether it be serving the two of us or she and I serving my Dom.

If this sounds appealing, then please PM me and we can take it from there!

Thanks for reading!
Bright blessings!

:D
 
Seeking

I have been involved in the lifestyle for sometime <smile> ........

In my mid 20s I took the suggestion that if you wanted to become a good Dom that spending a year as sub was appropriate. I spent mine under a dominate couple.
I know I am no submissive or switch.

My experience has primarily meeting women that live nilla and turning them out. I had one collared submissive for 13 years. She was bi and we were poly. However a monogamous relationship would be acceptable to me also.

I am very interested in many things though natural health/herbs has become a main focus lately.

I am interested in and involved in .... military veterans issues, politics, TV production, reading, writing, gardening --- and the list goes on

I live on twin bays of Lake Michigan ... about 10 blocks from beach ..... I travel ... I'll be in San Francisco the first week of Sept. That is also my birthday week.

I have tickets for two (2) on Caribbean cruise in Nov.

What do I seek in a sub ? That they be female. HWP
You are intelligent and a good conversationalist. Willing to work towards a 24/7 relationship.

I have an interactive diary ( for lack of better title)
were you can learn more about me then you would ever want to know. It can be found at

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=146578

I do not type or spell well but I am intelligent and well educated. I also have a voice that will melt your heart. I use to be a DJ and also had my own radio talk show.
 
New Dom

I am a relatively new DOM. All my fantasies have been online. I still enjoy and would like to find an online sub, mature, relatively new female, BBW preferred..

You can contact me at old_sad@yahoo.com...
 
bi submissive in colorado

just thought I'd chack and make sure that there is no one out there that needs a slave who's willing to do anything
 
Dom couple ISO female sub, SoCal

Located in Southern California, we are looking for a bi-female in the area to train and try out new ideas. A bit about us:
Male Dominant, straight, experienced and well known for His expertise.
Female Switch, will be doing most of your training. This is mostly for Her experience and learning desires. She is bi and very lovely, and very committed.
Male submissive, in training, and very open to new things.

Person we are looking for does not have to be experienced submissive, but should be open to new things, serious, clean, and willing.

For more info, just reply to me or look at my profile for contact info!
 
online submissive

I enjoyed a brief session training a sub (online); family pressures ended it. So I am looking for another woman to be my sub partner (online fantasy). As you know it becomes pretty real!

Primeone
 
happy day

Just wanted to say, that after so many years, I finally found a master to put me in my place, we began training yesterday, and I can already tell, He totally owns me:)
 
19 male

Im a 19 year old male going to college in florence alabama

currently and am looking for a dom- who will do anything she

wants to me, not into males but anything else goes.
 
Re: happy day

jugernaut said:
Just wanted to say, that after so many years, I finally found a master to put me in my place, we began training yesterday, and I can already tell, He totally owns me:)

Congratulations!!

Another happy note, we have found one boy that we may/may not be keeping (silly boy thinks he's a switch ... we don't have the heart to explain to him that he's not really that dominant even when he's in "Dom mode"). We are still looking however, as we want more than one boy for our household, so anyone who is interested, and doesn't mind not being an 'only boy' should get in touch with us.
 
aerofreak

congrats to both of You and Your boy! i know its been a long search. i've read enough of your posts to be optimistic that, had i lived closer to You, i may have been that other boy. good lock to You.
p.s. still looking for a Domme in portland or.
 
Young North Texas couple seeks bi-female sub

Well I suppose I will throw my hat in here.

My girlfriend and I are looking for a submisive bi-fem to play with in the Noth Texas area. Ideally it would just be something to do on the side at first then progress to a 24/7 situation.

We are a very dedicated and loving young couple who would like to have a pet to dolt on and play with. I am dominant by nature and have had some experience with submissive women. My girlfriend has somewhat submissive tendancies with men, but is dominant with women while never having had experience directly dominating a woman in a Master/slave role. We are looking for a woman that my girlfriend can cut her teeth on, literally and figuritively. We have a wide range of tastes as far as women go so let us be the judge on whether or not you meet our desires. All we require is that you be honest, open, and sexually adventerous. We are exploring our sexuality and would like someone else with the same attitude.

If this sounds like something you might be interested in we would love to hear from you.

Some stats about us:

Him:
25 yrs old
6'4
250lbs (linebacker build)
Short Brwn Hair
Grn/Brwn eyes

Her:
20 yrs old
5'6
She'll kill me if I say (think Botichelli-like)
Mid-back length Blnd/Brwn hair
Light blue eyes

Any other stats you'll just have to ask for in person ;-)

You can contact us at: Saoi_Donn@yahoo.com
 

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For the record I live in the far East corner of Tn.(Mtn City, if anyone knows where that is)
I am Male
40 yrs
175 lbs
Blue eyes
Blond/brown hair

And bored out of my ever lovin gourd.

I am a Dom. Seeking a fem sub (me and everyone else it seems).

I have experience in Domination, bondage, toys, and fixtures (furniture) both in private and public venues. Have done chains, Ropes, crosses, knives, whips, floggers, etc etc etc et frigging cetera....(So nope, I'm not the next door basement dwelling geek who spends too much time on porn sites)[sorry about the angst there]

By personal preference I am NOT looking for one nighters. I want to develope a real D/s relationship again. So I am looking for a femsub that wants to feel protected, looked after, and cared for, as well as the play.

On the play side-
A fondness for bondage is a plus.
Personally, am rather fond of fixture play.(furniture)
You should want someone who knows how to make the body react in pleasure - or any other sensation neccesary.
You should see the whole as a process- bodage (if any), Domination, sensation, Erotic play, your willing submission, a process that culminates in pleasure and fullfilment.

But every day-

You should want to be cared for, to feel protected, to be touched with love, to be heard.
But to be disciplined if necessary.


So there we are:

EKVITKAR
 
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