onefastford
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Would like to explore being controlled by a female dom in calif or close.
Im a single 33 male
Im a single 33 male
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BDSM Personals: Dom/mes seeking submissives
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AZMajician
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Re: Re: I am curious....
LoL... Well I certainly hope so.. but oh well, they aint here...
So tell me Miss Karen, have you found one yet?
I know I havent and it looks like they arent in Arizona either..
Mr. Majic
aerofreak said:
LoL... Well I certainly hope so.. but oh well, they aint here...
So tell me Miss Karen, have you found one yet?
I know I havent and it looks like they arent in Arizona either..
Mr. Majic
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Re: Re: Re: I am curious....
We have found a few ... but each time we find one, he turns out to be a liar and/or asshole (human nature sucks).... So overall, no, we haven't found any yet, but still holding out hope that not all of the subs in the area are posers.
AZMajician said:
We have found a few ... but each time we find one, he turns out to be a liar and/or asshole (human nature sucks).... So overall, no, we haven't found any yet, but still holding out hope that not all of the subs in the area are posers.
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Re: I am curious....
Wow.. bummer... let me briefly tell you about one I found not to long ago....
I was waiting for a friend to show up at an all night coffee shop... we were going to talk about her abusive husband and try to figure the best way for her to get away from him and not have as many issues to deal with...
Well, I was sitting at the counter, waiting and this woman sat down about two seats away from me. I was writing some ideas down for a story that I was thinking about writing....
She at one point asked me what I was working on and I told her that I was toying with some ideas for a story of a slightly erotic nature..
Hopiiing tomayself, that she would be happy with that comment I continued to write. She moved closer and asked what it was about. I told her that it was a BDSM type of story and she smiled and told me that she had always wanted to be a submissive for someone. But that her husband didnt like this type of stuff, so he had given her permission to find a Master or Mistress, but he didnt want to know anything about it.
She was there waiting to meet some woman that she had chatted with on the net, and wanted to know if I was ever online...
I told her yes I was, and that when I wrote the story I was going to post it online at Literotica.com.
About that time my friend called me on my cell phone, and said that she couldnt meet me that night but that we could talk at work the next week. I said ok, and turned to this lady atthe counter, and asked her if she was really interested, and tried to get her to tell me more about her desires.
She related to me that she wanted someone to be totally in charge of her, tell her what to do, when to do it, and how to dress, act, and behave. Someone that would control her life, her personality, and her sexual needs.
I told her to call me some time, and we could talk more. I paid my bill and walked out. AS I got to my car, she walked up to me and asked if I would be interested in teaching her about the lifestyle, and maybe consider having her as a subbie to train.
We chatted there by the car for about 20 minutes, and then I walked her to her SUV. I told her that I would consider it, and for her to call me in two or three days. As she stepped into her SUV, she turned to me and asked if she could prove herself to me.. I asked her what she meant, and she opened her blouse and asked me If I wanted her breasts in my hand or in my mouth. LOL.. she was quite well developed, and it was very hard for me not to reach out... but, I told her that MY idea of a good subbie was not one that would just open her blouse to anyoe, and that if she wanted to have me work with her, she had better learn some decorum.
Well, not to turn this into a full novel, she called two days later, we met, we discussed issues and ideas, and I found she had very little if any real knowledge of the BDSM lifestyle, let alone about Dominant and submissive relationships or scenes. It turned out she was just playing, and wanted sex with others, not necessarily BDSM, but just wanted to screw around without her husband.
She even made up stories about being interested in trying women if the man she found was interested in that, and even tried to tell me she had to be carefull as her two brothers were members of the local PD. I did some checking, and about a week later, she had a posting I found listing her desires to "get laid" on a site I had told her aoubt... I never heard from her again, but have seen her posting in a number of places.
OH well,,, I guess the liars and posers are out there, but I want to find a real person for a real relationship.
Majic
aerofreak said:
Wow.. bummer... let me briefly tell you about one I found not to long ago....
I was waiting for a friend to show up at an all night coffee shop... we were going to talk about her abusive husband and try to figure the best way for her to get away from him and not have as many issues to deal with...
Well, I was sitting at the counter, waiting and this woman sat down about two seats away from me. I was writing some ideas down for a story that I was thinking about writing....
She at one point asked me what I was working on and I told her that I was toying with some ideas for a story of a slightly erotic nature..
Hopiiing tomayself, that she would be happy with that comment I continued to write. She moved closer and asked what it was about. I told her that it was a BDSM type of story and she smiled and told me that she had always wanted to be a submissive for someone. But that her husband didnt like this type of stuff, so he had given her permission to find a Master or Mistress, but he didnt want to know anything about it.
She was there waiting to meet some woman that she had chatted with on the net, and wanted to know if I was ever online...
I told her yes I was, and that when I wrote the story I was going to post it online at Literotica.com.
About that time my friend called me on my cell phone, and said that she couldnt meet me that night but that we could talk at work the next week. I said ok, and turned to this lady atthe counter, and asked her if she was really interested, and tried to get her to tell me more about her desires.
She related to me that she wanted someone to be totally in charge of her, tell her what to do, when to do it, and how to dress, act, and behave. Someone that would control her life, her personality, and her sexual needs.
I told her to call me some time, and we could talk more. I paid my bill and walked out. AS I got to my car, she walked up to me and asked if I would be interested in teaching her about the lifestyle, and maybe consider having her as a subbie to train.
We chatted there by the car for about 20 minutes, and then I walked her to her SUV. I told her that I would consider it, and for her to call me in two or three days. As she stepped into her SUV, she turned to me and asked if she could prove herself to me.. I asked her what she meant, and she opened her blouse and asked me If I wanted her breasts in my hand or in my mouth. LOL.. she was quite well developed, and it was very hard for me not to reach out... but, I told her that MY idea of a good subbie was not one that would just open her blouse to anyoe, and that if she wanted to have me work with her, she had better learn some decorum.
Well, not to turn this into a full novel, she called two days later, we met, we discussed issues and ideas, and I found she had very little if any real knowledge of the BDSM lifestyle, let alone about Dominant and submissive relationships or scenes. It turned out she was just playing, and wanted sex with others, not necessarily BDSM, but just wanted to screw around without her husband.
She even made up stories about being interested in trying women if the man she found was interested in that, and even tried to tell me she had to be carefull as her two brothers were members of the local PD. I did some checking, and about a week later, she had a posting I found listing her desires to "get laid" on a site I had told her aoubt... I never heard from her again, but have seen her posting in a number of places.
OH well,,, I guess the liars and posers are out there, but I want to find a real person for a real relationship.
Majic
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Remember that everyone was vanilla once... But honestly, for the majority of the vanilla world, their conception of BDSM lies somewhere between "Eyes Wide Shut" and the concept of an on-call occasional slut. It is a journey from a novice but willing wanton wench to a well trained submissive, and as you well know, not everyone has the same expectations of the journey nor what they will encounter during it. The BDSM title has many facets and if they enjoy even one of them, then they fall into the realm somewhere...
Keep lookin'
I know I am...
Cheers
=-= The CyberPoet
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TheCyberPoet said:
We're still looking, but that doesn't mean that we're not disappointed and a bit discouraged. And we don't mind people who are still pretty nilla and aren't exactly sure about the lifestyle yet, but if they aren't willing to listen to what Holly and I are looking for and learn at least a little about the lifestyle, then I'm not interested, and it sounded to me like the woman that AZMajician talked with was not willing to learn about the lifestyle and what HE wanted ... which means to me, that he was perfectly correct to not continue further with her.
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TheCyberPoet said:
OH how true. Yes she was vanilla, and yes she had "heard" the terms before, but she was not willing to play.. she admitted she oly wanted to screw around, and break her vows to her husband. She has since taken to advertising around the web on singles sites.
She is not sub, has no desie to be and in fact is probaly afraid of herself. let alone the "two brothers" on the local police dept.
majic
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aerofreak said:
Miss Karen, let me say thank you.
Yes, I don't mind "nilla" or not very much experience. My biggest NO-Way is married women who don't have hubby's permission or married women who just want to "revenge" hubby's playing around.
I am not looking to get in the middle of that scene...
My desire is a single woman. One who is willing to learn or at least have an open mind. I don't have to have a subbie in my life, she dosen't have to be into the same things I am. Just someone for myself. not shared with someone else.
Yes, I would prefer someone who has this interest, or at least has the interest in learning about it. But I am monagamous, and not looking for a harem or multiple subbies.
Then again.... there isnt anything wrong with having fun with two at a time... <grin>
Majic
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How about a Bump for sunday....?
Just wanted to introduce myself, 20 year old Dom in central VA...I love submissive women wanting to grow from their master. Its a beautiful relationship in my opinion...A woman looking to grow and be liberated while at the same time under the rule of her master. It just seems so...right...natural. Just wanted to say that...PM me if you want to talk, maybe just over emails if you're far off.
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Posting again, as always, that we are still searching for the ones that we can call ours. Massive disappointments right and left during our search, but as we have managed to miss the crushing blow that they could have been, we are still searching (although there was a space of about a week that I wanted to give up entirely - boys suck sometimes, and not always in fun ways).
Just a bit about our search so you don't have to dig through the whole thread for it: We are sincere, & we are looking for boys that we can have true affection for. We require that we be able to at least be friends with our pets because if we can't get along with you, how can we live with you? We are not interested in pain sluts, as we neither one enjoy dealing out pain all the time, however, spanking and some 'light' s&m is acceptable. We are not in a rush, but we do require that boys be relocatable, as we are currently not (although that could change in the not-so-distant future). If you are not currently relocatable, that's ok, as long as you can be in the foreseeable future. Because we want live-ins, if you are married, don't bother (I have yet to meet or even hear of a wife that was ok with her husband moving out to sub to another woman, or pair of women, as in our case). We have suffered some disappointments as I mentioned earlier, and because of those, we are a bit more jaded than we were - and more likely to be bitter about certain things. If you wish to message us, please know that we absolutely cannot have smokers around us due to health issues, so again, don't waste our time or yours, and we own a lot of animals, so you need to at least be able to get along with pets of all species. We aren't into sissification, crossdressing or forced fem - nothing against it, so if it's only occational, it's ok but don't expect us to get off on it, if it's something that you *need* then you need to look elsewhere. We are in general very laid back, we don't have a lot of strict rules, so if that is what you are looking for, keep looking cuz it's not here. The rules that we do have we expect to have followed, but that should be pretty easy to do.
Wow, I just realised this is a really long post for me... better stop now before people get bored with reading it ... hehe.
Just a bit about our search so you don't have to dig through the whole thread for it: We are sincere, & we are looking for boys that we can have true affection for. We require that we be able to at least be friends with our pets because if we can't get along with you, how can we live with you? We are not interested in pain sluts, as we neither one enjoy dealing out pain all the time, however, spanking and some 'light' s&m is acceptable. We are not in a rush, but we do require that boys be relocatable, as we are currently not (although that could change in the not-so-distant future). If you are not currently relocatable, that's ok, as long as you can be in the foreseeable future. Because we want live-ins, if you are married, don't bother (I have yet to meet or even hear of a wife that was ok with her husband moving out to sub to another woman, or pair of women, as in our case). We have suffered some disappointments as I mentioned earlier, and because of those, we are a bit more jaded than we were - and more likely to be bitter about certain things. If you wish to message us, please know that we absolutely cannot have smokers around us due to health issues, so again, don't waste our time or yours, and we own a lot of animals, so you need to at least be able to get along with pets of all species. We aren't into sissification, crossdressing or forced fem - nothing against it, so if it's only occational, it's ok but don't expect us to get off on it, if it's something that you *need* then you need to look elsewhere. We are in general very laid back, we don't have a lot of strict rules, so if that is what you are looking for, keep looking cuz it's not here. The rules that we do have we expect to have followed, but that should be pretty easy to do.
Wow, I just realised this is a really long post for me... better stop now before people get bored with reading it ... hehe.
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Just a BUMP, just in case....
Hoping the right submissive female sees this thread, and decides to reply.
Majic.
Hoping the right submissive female sees this thread, and decides to reply.
Majic.
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*slinks in*
onefastford
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Hmmm whats vamp's? sorry for my ignorance.
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My wife/slave and I are seeking another masochist for me to use and abuse.
We are not seeking a bi-slave, but if she is bi-curious that will be OK. My slave is not bi, but has a little curiousity about it.
Our favorite pastimes include tight restrictive bondage with clamps, insertables, and gags. We also enjoy the use of crops, canes, floggers, belts and old fashioned OTK spankings with my bare hand.
I like for my slave to wear corsett, stockings and high heels at all times. We do have an 11 year old child at home, so anyone that we get to be friends with will be around the child. If you have children that is not a problem.
We like to be friends in the real world, not just the kinky side of things.
We are members of the local groups and enjoy attending the play parties. If you are not into public things and need discretion, that is not a problem.
We live in Friendswood, TX just south of Houston.
My wife/slave and I are seeking another masochist for me to use and abuse.
We are not seeking a bi-slave, but if she is bi-curious that will be OK. My slave is not bi, but has a little curiousity about it.
Our favorite pastimes include tight restrictive bondage with clamps, insertables, and gags. We also enjoy the use of crops, canes, floggers, belts and old fashioned OTK spankings with my bare hand.
I like for my slave to wear corsett, stockings and high heels at all times. We do have an 11 year old child at home, so anyone that we get to be friends with will be around the child. If you have children that is not a problem.
We like to be friends in the real world, not just the kinky side of things.
We are members of the local groups and enjoy attending the play parties. If you are not into public things and need discretion, that is not a problem.
We live in Friendswood, TX just south of Houston.
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shame there's the Atlantic in the way
*she who has slunk*
*she who has slunk*
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Swim for it
The pond is not that large, you can swim over and play, then swim back when you get tired of being with us.
The pond is not that large, you can swim over and play, then swim back when you get tired of being with us.
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