Poor baby, know how you feel. I live in SE Michigan and finding someone to train me is hard. I must miss the Munch group meeting Friday due to pre-arranged plans, but there's always next time! Like I said, online, I could easily blow off a person because I am VERY strong willed and need a strong hand to GUIDE me. If a man thinks he's going to beat on me, he'd better not go to sleep! Pay backs are a bitch and I'm a professional!