BDSM Personals: submissives seeking Dom/mes

[44DD in CT]

Good morning everyone! Another day, another spanking.

 

[2elix]

bumping

just throwing out a request 28 m dom and 30 f sub/bi out in AZ
looking for some online schooling for my sub needs female sub
intrested send some info to recieve.

 

[TheCyberPoet]

ALL SUBS, PLEASE REMEMBER TO SCAN THE "DOM/MES SEEKING THREAD" AS WELL...
DOM/MES SEEKING THREAD...

Look forward to your responses...
=-= The CyberPoet

 

[pervy_jim]

Bi male sub from UK seeks master/mistress

I'm a 21 year old Bi sub from the south of the Uk, I am virgin to the scene but know that my place in life is to be the willing slave to my master or mistress (or both). Thus i seek (with no luck so far) for someone to take me in hand and train me to be the slave that i feel i should be. Please someone pm and take me under their wing, or if not can someone point in the direction of a site that could help me?

 

[Funinacowboyhat]

Wonderful

Is great to see this going up , as it is hards for ppl to find a Dom/sub in there area, and i will be helping to bump this thread to the top

 

[Funinacowboyhat]

Gives a big bump to the Thread

 

[Mercedez]

i am in Virginia Sir. what part are You looking for?
i am about 2 hours from DC, so about central VA.

Any fem subs down Virginia way?

ISO of intelligent life in my corner of the planet...

 

[boppermeo]

hello all, glad this thread is here. Any interested sub/females from South Florida? Anyone traveling there?

Boppermeo

 

[Ms_Lilith]

*grumble... I never know how to write these things*

To begin with, I'm a 21 year old switch. Though I am able to dominate,I have only dominated women thus far, and can't see myself dominating men. I prefer to be submissive, in either case. I am fully bisexual, and haven't many boundaries as far as sexuality goes, but have a few as far as BDSM go (which I will address later).

I am currently in a serious, long-term relationship, but have the permission of my S/O to play online and on the phone. We live in a 90% Vanilla relationship, and his permission for me to play is to allow my submissive/switch sides to find satisfaction as well. There is absolutely no chance for play in person, and therefore, I don't think my location is important.

What am I looking for? For the most part, I seek friendship and dialogue. I don't like to jump into sexual situations without learning something about my potential partners, and I believe that a good understanding of the PERSON will lead to a better understanding of Him/Her as my Superior. Eventually, I would like a relationship that includes assignments, orders, etc, but for now, dialogue and learning are enough.

As I mentioned, I do have some hard and fast limits as far as BDSM go. I believe that, when the time comes to discuss those things with anyone who should choose to respond to this ad, we will discuss them.

I hope that whether I am the one or not, you all find happiness in your searches.


*edit* I suppose I should add something about my physical appearance, though my avatars are generally photos of me. I am 5'10, and a BBW. I am over size 14, which often seems to be the cut-off for many Dom/mes, and so anyone interested in me, even for online play, has to be able to love that about me. I will not have that part of me ignored, and be liked DESPITE it, because it is part of what makes me who I am.

I have black and red hair (red roots, black everything else, though it changes), green eyes, very pale skin (which is sunburnt half the summer), and 11 piercings thus far. 6 in my right ear, 4 in my left, and one in my tongue. I have one tattoo.

I think I am pretty, and one of my limits, which I WILL post is mental abuse regarding how I look. I've suffered 8 years of it, and finally exited that scene (I got out of it 3 years ago), and have no desire to be degraded for how I look because I finally love the way I look.*

 

[jakejarrett]

Seeking part time female sub

30m in Boston interested in meeting a part-time female sub of same approximate age for occassional get togethers. I am not a leather and buckle type, but more of a humiliation and degradation dom. You should be prepared to orally worship every inch of my body and and comply to my wishes without reservation.

I am clean, a professional person, and married - but I have a dom streak that needs a willing sub to help me stretch those muscles.

Jake

 

[Hexiegirl]

Hi Vixen! I think you're a cutie! And somehow familiar, hmmmmm
Anyway, you sound like you'd be nice to talk to. I'm a submissive as well, at least I don't think I'm a Dom, LOL But who knows?! Anyhoo, drop me a line if ya wanna~

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Hi Vixen! I think you're a cutie! And somehow familiar, hmmmmm
Anyway, you sound like you'd be nice to talk to. I'm a submissive as well, at least I don't think I'm a Dom, LOL But who knows?! Anyhoo, drop me a line if ya wanna~

I think you've seen me hanging around the boards.. I spent quite a bit of time here.
And sure, love to talk..

 

[mydestiny2003]

*grumble... I never know how to write these things*

To begin with, I'm a 21 year old switch. Though I am able to dominate,I have only dominated women thus far, and can't see myself dominating men. I prefer to be submissive, in either case. I am fully bisexual, and haven't many boundaries as far as sexuality goes, but have a few as far as BDSM go (which I will address later).

I am currently in a serious, long-term relationship, but have the permission of my S/O to play online and on the phone. We live in a 90% Vanilla relationship, and his permission for me to play is to allow my submissive/switch sides to find satisfaction as well. There is absolutely no chance for play in person, and therefore, I don't think my location is important.

What am I looking for? For the most part, I seek friendship and dialogue. I don't like to jump into sexual situations without learning something about my potential partners, and I believe that a good understanding of the PERSON will lead to a better understanding of Him/Her as my Superior. Eventually, I would like a relationship that includes assignments, orders, etc, but for now, dialogue and learning are enough.

As I mentioned, I do have some hard and fast limits as far as BDSM go. I believe that, when the time comes to discuss those things with anyone who should choose to respond to this ad, we will discuss them.

I hope that whether I am the one or not, you all find happiness in your searches.


*edit* I suppose I should add something about my physical appearance, though my avatars are generally photos of me. I am 5'10, and a BBW. I am over size 14, which often seems to be the cut-off for many Dom/mes, and so anyone interested in me, even for online play, has to be able to love that about me. I will not have that part of me ignored, and be liked DESPITE it, because it is part of what makes me who I am.

I have black and red hair (red roots, black everything else, though it changes), green eyes, very pale skin (which is sunburnt half the summer), and 11 piercings thus far. 6 in my right ear, 4 in my left, and one in my tongue. I have one tattoo.

I think I am pretty, and one of my limits, which I WILL post is mental abuse regarding how I look. I've suffered 8 years of it, and finally exited that scene (I got out of it 3 years ago), and have no desire to be degraded for how I look because I finally love the way I look.*

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Hi was reading this post ,and though not intrested in on-line relationship...........I just wanted to give you your props at being happy with who you are and comfortable with your size
I too am a BBW I stand 5'10 and weigh 196 with a 44DD chest
I myself am just learning about my submissive side but if my partner can't accept me for my body.............OH WELL that would be his loss not mine Stay proud of who you are and never let anyone tell you different

 

[mydestiny2003]

Hello A/all

Very new to the lifestyle but looking for the rigt Dom in southern california,not into pain or humiliation public or private...........
what I am willing to learn is to serve in more intimate ways
am intrested in bondage and erotic spanking,but open to different things as well as long as it doesn't include the above stated things not willing to do....................As I said this is very new to me I'm 43,auburn hair and hazil eyes 5'10,196,and 44DD
and I love who I am ........thanks for your time

 

[Ms_Lilith]

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Hi was reading this post ,and though not intrested in on-line relationship...........I just wanted to give you your props at being happy with who you are and comfortable with your size
I too am a BBW I stand 5'10 and weigh 196 with a 44DD chest
I myself am just learning about my submissive side but if my partner can't accept me for my body.............OH WELL that would be his loss not mine Stay proud of who you are and never let anyone tell you different

Thank you.. and good for you for accepting yourself that way as well. Submissives are not weak human beings.. it takes a great deal of strength to give up control... and submissive women often get a bad rap... but if you are a strong woman, and you love yourself like you seem to, I know you will progress well on your journey.

 

[mydestiny2003]

Thank you.. and good for you for accepting yourself that way as well. Submissives are not weak human beings.. it takes a great deal of strength to give up control... and submissive women often get a bad rap... but if you are a strong woman, and you love yourself like you seem to, I know you will progress well on your journey.

.

And I thank you......

Always be proud of who you are And never let anyone tell you anything different,You are a beautiful person

 

[CollegeCockslav]

My educated guess is that this is where my personal would belong. I'm a 18 year old college honors student (gasp!) who is nice and 100% single and looking for a female with the uncanny ability to be sexy and strong in-private yet when in public not so demanding.

In a sense, it's leading two lives. The public, normal one...And the private femdom one. I attend a somewhat prestigious univeristy on Long Island in NY, no more than 30 minutes from the city. Depending on my luck, you might realize I can't spell yet.

Outside of the risque practices of BDSM Femdom, which I am an enthusiast, I am an honors student in college who works as a lifeguard over the summer. I enjoy skiing on snow over the lovely mountains of upstate New York. I also enjoy Tennis, swimming, Jets/Giants football, and paranoia of the United States government. Also I run a webcomic, which means I am somewhat funny (ha ha). I'm also a Pagan, so religious fanatics need not apply if you can't accept that

In short, friends are good , friends with benefits is good , and a significant other , if possible, is very good indeed. If you want a picture or just to talk, my e-mail should be visible.

Blessed be.
Jess

 

[homealone4u]

Divorced 45 asian professional looking to explore life with a dominant sweet lady and willing to be at her becking. First email and more later xoxo at your service

 

[Princess33]

Hello A/all

Very new to the lifestyle but looking for the rigt Dom in southern california,not into pain or humiliation public or private...........
what I am willing to learn is to serve in more intimate ways
am intrested in bondage and erotic spanking,but open to different things as well as long as it doesn't include the above stated things not willing to do....................As I said this is very new to me I'm 43,auburn hair and hazil eyes 5'10,196,and 44DD
and I love who I am ........thanks for your time

you sound extremely interesting hon...I would love to get to know you better, but alas I am in Northern California...

 

[FoxyForestFire]

Hello.....

 

[LunarKitten]

from my webpage:

Single mother, five foot, blonde hair, blue eyes. I'm looking for a 24/7 monogamous relationship - prefer local Dom - who is willing to be a father figure for daughter.
If you do not like kids, you will not mesh with me, so please do not waste either of our time.
If all you want is a playmate, I'm not for you. I'm a serious, real time submissive, looking for the same in my Dom.
Discipline to me means control, not punishment - if I am to be punished, it is because I did something wrong and I try not to do things wrong and bring the disappointment of my Dom upon me. Control me and cherish me...and I will go out of my way to make sure you are happy and healthy and satisfied with everything I do. If my Dom is not happy, how can I be happy with myself?
I am into knitting, crochet, cross stitch (design as well as stitching), writing short stories and poetry, cooking and baking, gardening...the list goes on and on.
I am more into the d/s portion of bdsm. I like to play, but it is not a necessity for everyday life, as is control and guidenence from my Dom.
I am not into animals, degredation, dehumanization, nonSSCN play, bathroom functions, permanent markings, needles, blood play, nor pain for the sake of pain. I try to keep an open mind, but I have my limits.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I am not a typical sub. I am anything but. I am 5'6 muscluar, red head with pale skin and green eyes, lots of self love, sassy, smart, bit of sarcasm, loving, dedicated and always wanting to push myself harder and learn more. I am an honors student and yes I am a nerd in my heart and a jock on the outside.

Maybe I'm missing something.. but how does that make you so different from other subs? I don't mean to pick you apart, but I just mean to say that there isn't really a 'typical sub'. We are all different human beings...

I am all the things that you said you are, except that I'm taller than you and heavier.

Your description of yourself sounds more like a description of a woman than of a sub. And that is fine, it just seems to not gel with your 'not a typical sub' statement.. maybe because that statement hints to me that you think that there is a stereotypical sub.

 

[CollegeCockslav]

Ahh! I saw "honors student" and thought that you were talking about me LOL Kinda funny from my perspective.

 

[FoxyForestFire]

Pretty cool... i read on you other day mr college

 

[NYSubGrpplr]

[B I'm also a Pagan, so religious fanatics need not apply if you can't accept that



[/B]

LOL, I'm going to start referring to myself as a pagan.