BDSM talk is making me feel _________ lately.

[Loverskitten]

I dunno, I think tease-and-deny chastity is a time-honored part of BDSM.

Didn't he get awakened by a blow job? (if I remember, I'm NOT going back to read the OP) So he has to wait until she gets home from work, big deal. I don't think the post was ABOUT chastity or denial. I think it was some dude's (or kid's) fantasy.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Didn't he get awakened by a blow job? (if I remember, I'm NOT going back to read the OP) So he has to wait until she gets home from work, big deal. I don't think the post was ABOUT chastity or denial. I think it was some dude's (or kid's) fantasy.

Not a complete blowjob.

Like you, my eyeballs slid right away the first time I opened the post. But I remembered the bathroom post, actually, and I read more carefully.

So what I'm wondering, is what triggers the squick?

 

[Loverskitten]

So what I'm wondering, is what triggers the squick?

Good question. Probably a combination of the poor writing, lack of interest in the subject, the fact that the poster isn't really trying to teach or seek information, and your current mood.
I know my responses vary depending on my mood.

 

[BiBunny]

So what I'm wondering, is what triggers the squick?

There's a difference (to me) in talking about something that happened, even bragging about it if you're super-proud, and typing out shit that may or may not have actually happened with one hand, trying to elicit more wanking material. The first is a cerebral discussion, even if it has sexual material, and the second is a genital one. I can tolerate the former, but not the latter.

/grumpy old Bunny

 

[Stella_Omega]

There's a difference (to me) in talking about something that happened, even bragging about it if you're super-proud, and typing out shit that may or may not have actually happened with one hand, trying to elicit more wanking material. The first is a cerebral discussion, even if it has sexual material, and the second is a genital one. I can tolerate the former, but not the latter.

/grumpy old Bunny

Baby let me tell you-- when I'm bragging about my swag I'm doing it one-handed

 

[BiBunny]

Baby let me tell you-- when I'm bragging about my swag I'm doing it one-handed

Haha, I forgive you...this time.

 

[Bandit58]

like I don't fit.....

 

[Deeply_Twisted]

Wondering what it is that makes me squick at some posts and not at others when the content is so similar.

What's the difference between the bathroom post -- which I enjoyed-- and the wife post-- which irritated me? Is the wife post too intimate and specific for our comfort, coming from a stranger?

have i squicked people with some of my TMI posts? Would you all be more squicked if you didn't already know me?

Like a cigar, sometimes a squick is just a squick.

I get squicked all the time here. It's no biggie. YKINMK, that's all.