ben wah balls - how do they feel?

[apmadox]

Greetings

I wasn't sure whether this should go in story ideas or not.

I'm considering a scene where a woman is engaging in strenous physical activity (like running, say, or biking) with the balls inserted. Could that be painful? Can the balls 'pinch'? If the woman is upside down, can the balls get too deep inside her? Any other problems I should consider?

Help.

-apm

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Greetings

I wasn't sure whether this should go in story ideas or not.

I'm considering a scene where a woman is engaging in strenous physical activity (like running, say, or biking) with the balls inserted. Could that be painful? Can the balls 'pinch'? If the woman is upside down, can the balls get too deep inside her? Any other problems I should consider?

Help.

-apm

I can't attest to using them in that kind of activity, but I've used them in sexual play for years. Particularly when I have used a vibrator. The sensation when the vibrator hits them is delicious! Hmmm, kind of hard to decribe; but allow me to say that it adds another dimension to masterbation.
As for the balls going too deep inside, I don't know about that. I've had them pretty far up and never had any problems. Took a while for them to work their way down though.
Sounds as if it's time for a trip to your local "toy" store Apmadox! Nothing like first hand knowledge.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

interesting...

My gf and I have used anal beads...maybe the balls are the next step.

PowrDragn

 

[Ice Princess]

You might want to do some research on the different kinds of ben wa balls and ben wa-type balls that are for sale out there. Some are nickel-plated and heavy and your character would have a hard time holding them in during some of the strenuous activities you're describing unless she had really powerful muscles. Some are much smaller in size, and there are some usually called duo tone balls that have a smaller ball inside the larger one and you can feel the smaller, weighted balls spinning as you move. The duo tone kind usually have a string attached (which a lot of people use to remove the balls just as the orgasm starts, by the way).

I second MY-Sir's-k-'s suggestion that you head to an adult toy store (in person or online) and look at the options to decide what would be best in your story.

 

[LadyOfTheMist]

Only tried em once!

I was 19 when I tried them, several years ago . I had gotten them from a naughty party and the lady had said that women were wearing them to the grocery stores and whatnot just having a good ol' orgasmic time. (So who wouldn't want to try this?) So I stuck them up where they're supposed to go and started vacuuming, they fell back down. So, being me, I thought I would really stick them up there and that would fix that problem. Uh huh, fixed it real well. So well in fact I couldn't get them out. Didn't matter how much I pushed they were not about to come out. I called my then finace in hystronics, crying and carrying on about how to explain this one in the ER. After we talked for a while and I calmed down they eventually came down on their own. I rewarded the evil twits with a one way ticket to the trash bin. I prefer to stick to the vibrators, thank you very much, least I haven't lost one of those......yet.

 

[The_old_man]

WARNING

Do Not use the enameled balls! They chip!

 

[lilpriss]

First, benwa balls are WAY overrated... I have some and they are REALLY heavy little inch sized balls, that you are supposed to use to strengthen your vaginal muscles... no way could ANYONE keep them in for a jog. Unless they were up your ass maybe... (I'm talking about the ones I have, apparently there are lots of dirfferent kinds...) and that would be a problem in and of itself...

Second, benwa balls are WAY overrated...

Third, benwa balls are way overrated....

Did I say they are overrated?

 

[Lust Engine]

First, benwa balls are WAY overrated... I have some and they are REALLY heavy little inch sized balls, that you are supposed to use to strengthen your vaginal muscles... no way could ANYONE keep them in for a jog. Unless they were up your ass maybe... (I'm talking about the ones I have, apparently there are lots of dirfferent kinds...) and that would be a problem in and of itself...

Second, benwa balls are WAY overrated...

Third, benwa balls are way overrated....

Did I say they are overrated?

Huh? Did you say they were over rated?? I guess you did!!! Somehow having something lodged inside (and shifting about) while doing anything strenuous seems all too painful to me.

 

[Ice Princess]

First, benwa balls are WAY overrated... I have some and they are REALLY heavy little inch sized balls, that you are supposed to use to strengthen your vaginal muscles... no way could ANYONE keep them in for a jog. Unless they were up your ass maybe... (I'm talking about the ones I have, apparently there are lots of dirfferent kinds...) and that would be a problem in and of itself...

Second, benwa balls are WAY overrated...

Third, benwa balls are way overrated....

Did I say they are overrated?

I've got two different sets and love mine. To each his -- or in this case her -- own.

 

[apmadox]

This is all really helpful.

I guess, like in my own limited experience with toys and aids, the experience is an individual one - but I had no idea ben wahs could be so problematic, or were so varied.

I think I will stop at a toy store soon.


-apm

 

[Lust Engine]

This is all really helpful.

I guess, like in my own limited experience with toys and aids, the experience is an individual one - but I had no idea ben wahs could be so problematic, or were so varied.

I think I will stop at a toy store soon.


-apm

Please report back & let us know how you fared. As with others here, I'd love to know.

After all, we're still children at heart here and anytime someone comes back from the toy store, we all gather around to hear what new toys you got to play with!

 

[princess4u]

i have the type that are solid and very heavy - i find that it is not the actual feeling of the benwa balls inside me that is the most exciting part - it's knowing that i have them inside me while i'm doing regular everyday things that i find so erotic ~

 

[carrie-on]

The ones I have also have a little chime inside so that when I walk I can hear them. It has driven people at work crazy,talking about the ringing they are hearing. It's very hard to keep a straight face sometimes.
My hubby always smiles when he hears the chimes as I am walking up the stairs to our bedroom.

 

[Lust Engine]

The ones I have also have a little chime inside so that when I walk I can hear them. It has driven people at work crazy,talking about the ringing they are hearing. It's very hard to keep a straight face sometimes.
My hubby always smiles when he hears the chimes as I am walking up the stairs to our bedroom.

So wonderfully Pavlovian!!! Hear the chimes, salivate & think of hot torrid sex- gotta love it!

 

[carrie-on]

MMM Lust Engine,you are so right...I never thought of that...lol but it does work. We always have hot torrid sex when he knows I have had the chimes in all day. I normally don't wear panties,but when I have the chimes in,I wear a thing to help hold them in.

 

[huskie]

First, benwa balls are WAY overrated... I have some and they are REALLY heavy little inch sized balls, that you are supposed to use to strengthen your vaginal muscles... no way could ANYONE keep them in for a jog. Unless they were up your ass maybe... (I'm talking about the ones I have, apparently there are lots of dirfferent kinds...) and that would be a problem in and of itself...

Second, benwa balls are WAY overrated...

Third, benwa balls are way overrated....

Did I say they are overrated?

Then you need the kind that chime and make music (read above).

Why are they overrated?? Don't they make your pussy stronger? Isn't that a good thing?

 

[peachykeen]

Tried em a couple times, can't see what the fuss is about. Now they just live under the bed collecting dust because I can't just throw them away but I can't put them in the box of crap for a garage sale either...

 

[Lust Engine]

Tried em a couple times, can't see what the fuss is about. Now they just live under the bed collecting dust because I can't just throw them away but I can't put them in the box of crap for a garage sale either...

Somehow shucking them off as musical industrial ball bearings on eBay won't do it either. I'm sure you're not the first person to get a sex aide that just didn't cut it.

 

[moonshado]

Good strengthening

the balls are often used to strengthen the pc muscles, as holding the weighted balls in is like doing long kagels. They are very erotic to walk around in all day. Having sex with them in is very nice. I Like them and feel naughty when i used them.. even alone.
MOON

 

[Lust Engine]

MMM Lust Engine,you are so right...I never thought of that...lol but it does work. We always have hot torrid sex when he knows I have had the chimes in all day. I normally don't wear panties,but when I have the chimes in,I wear a thing to help hold them in.

This is better than having a dinner bell!

Amazing!!!