Best lube for dryness

[Lolita30]

So back in the day I was sort of a nympho; now, with perimenopause, I don't enjoy sex the same way I used to a long time ago as it has become painful. I wonder sometimes if sex will always be painful no matter who I'm with. Anyway, does anyone know of any creams or lubes that address this problem? I don't want to miss out on sex or fun while I am still mobile and not dead yet!

 

[nottee_1]

I use water based and am very happy with it.... I'm 52 in full menopause, and no sexual partner anymore
(widowed 5 years ago)
But I enjoy masturbating with toys a couple times weekly.
I use lube almost every time.

 

[Lolita30]

Thank you so much for your response! I'm at a loss as to what to try and whether sex would be good for me again when I do find that lover.

 

[nottee_1]

https://a.co/d/0fmHSGXr
This is what I prefer

FAV is another good brand

 

[Tex_Hans]

You might consider one of the CBD lubricants such as Foria Awaken Arousal Oil with CBD or alternativley the Sex Oil with CBD. The CBD extract and other botanicals can help with what you described. A few years back Foria had a version with lower levels of THC, which was particularly good and fun, but as they went mainstream they stopped selling it due to ability to sell in limited/legal markets. The current products are very good and there are other CBD extract lubricants in the marketplace you might find helpful.

https://www.foriawellness.com/collections/sexual-wellness