Bethy Town

Thanks :) well I have one more job than i had last week 🥰 im still interviewing to patch up a full time equivalent but a nice confidence boost because the hiring cycle is brutal

Still waiting for start date but im excited. Its a teaching post
Best of luck. I don't know if I'd be able to concentrate though if you were my teacher 😏
 
Best of luck. I don't know if I'd be able to concentrate though if you were my teacher 😏
Lol well rather for that reason than for being mind numbingly boring 😴 ive suffered that and i hope to avoid passing that pain through the generations.

I do wish that the evidence criteria for criminal records check would join this century though. I went paperless on my bills years ago and they want banks statements that im not allowed to download and print myself 😬
 
Lol well rather for that reason than for being mind numbingly boring 😴 ive suffered that and i hope to avoid passing that pain through the generations.

I do wish that the evidence criteria for criminal records check would join this century though. I went paperless on my bills years ago and they want banks statements that im not allowed to download and print myself 😬
That's odd, if I ever move to the UK, I will have to ask which bank, because I will avoid it lol. Mostly paperless here too, but I can easily print my bank statements.
I am sorry it took so long, but glad you made it through.
 
That's odd, if I ever move to the UK, I will have to ask which bank, because I will avoid it lol. Mostly paperless here too, but I can easily print my bank statements.
I am sorry it took so long, but glad you made it through.
Its all banks. I can physically print my slips but they wont be accepted as form of ID as its easy to fake the documents when printed from home.

Theres all types of possible evidence to share but i dont have some of the easier types of proof of address. I dont get paper mail frequently enough tbh. The annoying thing is i pay an annual subscription to show im not a criminal and havent been since the last time a potential employer checked. But very few employers use that service.

That prob makes little sense. Its a necessary process to safeguard people from harm (like my students) but also super annoying in logistical sense 😅
 
Its all banks. I can physically print my slips but they wont be accepted as form of ID as its easy to fake the documents when printed from home.

Theres all types of possible evidence to share but i dont have some of the easier types of proof of address. I dont get paper mail frequently enough tbh. The annoying thing is i pay an annual subscription to show im not a criminal and havent been since the last time a potential employer checked. But very few employers use that service.

That prob makes little sense. Its a necessary process to safeguard people from harm (like my students) but also super annoying in logistical sense 😅
Oh wow, yeah that sucks.
Understand they have to be thorough, but considering every country in the world is trying to reduce use of paper, there should be other ways to confirm you're not a criminal lol
 
Oh wow, yeah that sucks.
Understand they have to be thorough, but considering every country in the world is trying to reduce use of paper, there should be other ways to confirm you're not a criminal lol
I just have that dangerous edge 🤣 ill sort it but a pain in the behind
 
I just have that dangerous edge 🤣 ill sort it but a pain in the behind
Can only imagine. I know when I first moved to Ireland, I had to get a bank account and only one bank would give me one without having a proof of address right off the bat. Since I would have to wait till a bill was issued before I could get one lol
 
I got offered another job today, different sector. Giving a provisional acceptance but i think im getting anxiety about change. Or maybe i need more sleep 😅 lots of changes at once is hard and ive been on interview conveyer belt for ages.

In other news, since im potentially back in ft work now, my brain is able to relax enough for me to feel arousal again 🤩 definitely reason to celebrate

Hope youre all okay x
 
I got offered another job today, different sector. Giving a provisional acceptance but i think im getting anxiety about change. Or maybe i need more sleep 😅 lots of changes at once is hard and ive been on interview conveyer belt for ages.

In other news, since im potentially back in ft work now, my brain is able to relax enough for me to feel arousal again 🤩 definitely reason to celebrate

Hope youre all okay x
Hopefully it all works for you, whichever direction you choose to go in.
Plus, being able to feel arousal again is pretty awesome.
:rose: :kiss:
 
Thank you ☺️ im just making a festive chicken burger. An experiment. A little flash for you ij the meantime
 
Yummmmmm! There was a place back home in Texas that did a chicken fried steak sandwhich, and this is sending me.
 
For some reason i just danced in the living room for an hour to 90s and 00s dance and rnb. I mean it was fun but all my new muscles that i found now hurt 🤣

My friends once told me i dance like a virgin. Lol. Thanks, i guess 😅 I do remember the song that got me out of my comfort zone and learning to express and own sexuality though. I think because i get totally lost in the song. Its i like the way you move by the bodyrockers. It came out when i was 18 though so a few more years before id dance that way in public

I now understand what my friends meant because i could do the moves and copy what they did but no real connection to myself. Anyway was thinking about that whilst i tried to do a cool move ive seen which requires very loose hips. It originates in black cultures. Currently unsure exactly where but it brings the grind from the pelvis through the butt and down the leg. I wanna do it and still have rhythm 😅 i cant twerk but i can do this with a bit of practice. Ill be grinding away in no time. I also know how to belly dance but havent done in forever. Its deffo an ab workout with a difference
 
Today i have learned that my comfy pants are no longer comfy because they now easily reach my waist 😆 still mentally making the adjustment to a smaller size

I spotted a baby christmas tree in the wild 🥰 she kept passing me crayons and i was glad that i wasnt ovulating tbh. I cant believe will be performing on stage in 6 weeks. Always feels like a shambles at this point but argh stress.

Has everyone got their decorations up now? Mine are waiting for one of us to be bothered to set them free of their boxes
 
Today i have learned that my comfy pants are no longer comfy because they now easily reach my waist 😆 still mentally making the adjustment to a smaller size

I was just having a thought like that the other day. Got some jeans I might not be wearing much longer without pantsing myself. :)

Has everyone got their decorations up now? Mine are waiting for one of us to be bothered to set them free of their boxes

Oh yes Christmas is in full swing here. Big tree, little tree, outdoor things, table decorations. It’s all in place.
 
I got offered another job today, different sector. Giving a provisional acceptance but i think im getting anxiety about change. Or maybe i need more sleep 😅 lots of changes at once is hard and ive been on interview conveyer belt for ages.
Good luck with the new thing. I’ve been at mine ten years partly because that conveyor belt isn’t fun. :)
 
Good luck with the new thing. I’ve been at mine ten years partly because that conveyor belt isn’t fun. :)
Thanks. Once ive completed a doctorate im hoping i can find my forever home but for now its just about finding jobs that get me experience in different settings or more managerial. Hate the conveyor so much

Are you a christmassy person or just forced to live in a grotto by the people you live with
 
Thanks. Once ive completed a doctorate im hoping i can find my forever home but for now its just about finding jobs that get me experience in different settings or more managerial. Hate the conveyor so much
Manager is one thing I’ve avoided thus far. I’ve seen how that works at my mega Corp and I’m all “nah I’ll just stick to fixing broken shit”. :) Doctorate is an impressive thing to be working on. 👩‍🎓

Are you a christmassy person or just forced to live in a grotto by the people you live with
Nah I’m definitely Christmasy. I don’t know that I’d do the outdoor blow molds and inflatables on my own initiative but they are cool to see when I’m coming home. Definitely into the indoor things like the two trees though. 🎄
 
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