Bi-curious? In the closet? Unsure…

[spank_me_please]

I still can't find quite the right label, none seem to fit exactly. But then I guess thats no surprise - people are very individual and "bi" seems to really span a wide range.
When I think of bisexual it just means there is interest in same-sex sexual activities. But maybe to someone else it means attracted to both genders. Or even capable/wanting relationships with either/both genders.
Most of the time I fantasize about women, watch straight porn. Im only physically and emotionally attracted to women. But I've found that playing with a cock can be great fun.
So I identify as "mostly straight" but bi, seems to be the closest I can come to a label.
Oh, and also "how bi" I am depends on how horny I am lol
Sometimes I just think it would be lovely to have someone sucking me. Other times I'm interested in reciprocating. And when really horny I want to explore a lot more than oral.
just my personal experience, no real point to make or anything.

I agree, there's not much need for labels as our feelings change anyway. But if we were to put a name on it, I propose "phallosexual"

 

[ZOEOHZOE]

I didn't know there was a label lol being with my gfs was just she liked to and she doesn't - no label. but we all fucked lol

 

[Meateater72]

I still can't find quite the right label, none seem to fit exactly. But then I guess thats no surprise - people are very individual and "bi" seems to really span a wide range.
When I think of bisexual it just means there is interest in same-sex sexual activities. But maybe to someone else it means attracted to both genders. Or even capable/wanting relationships with either/both genders.
Most of the time I fantasize about women, watch straight porn. Im only physically and emotionally attracted to women. But I've found that playing with a cock can be great fun.
So I identify as "mostly straight" but bi, seems to be the closest I can come to a label.
Oh, and also "how bi" I am depends on how horny I am lol
Sometimes I just think it would be lovely to have someone sucking me. Other times I'm interested in reciprocating. And when really horny I want to explore a lot more than oral.
just my personal experience, no real point to make or anything.

Right on

 

[Seeking4wife04]

I still can't find quite the right label, none seem to fit exactly. But then I guess thats no surprise - people are very individual and "bi" seems to really span a wide range.
When I think of bisexual it just means there is interest in same-sex sexual activities. But maybe to someone else it means attracted to both genders. Or even capable/wanting relationships with either/both genders.
Most of the time I fantasize about women, watch straight porn. Im only physically and emotionally attracted to women. But I've found that playing with a cock can be great fun.
Love the way you think
So I identify as "mostly straight" but bi, seems to be the closest I can come to a label.
Oh, and also "how bi" I am depends on how horny I am lol
Sometimes I just think it would be lovely to have someone sucking me. Other times I'm interested in reciprocating. And when really horny I want to explore a lot more than oral.
just my personal experience, no real point to make or anything.

 

[Bi_Guy50]

initially it was for me - brought up in a household where anything same-sex was "wrong" so it took a while to get past that enough to try it

I hear you... it's hard to get past those social and household norms to really think that what we were told was wrong wasn't really all that bad

 

[Bi_Guy50]

I still can't find quite the right label, none seem to fit exactly. But then I guess thats no surprise - people are very individual and "bi" seems to really span a wide range.
When I think of bisexual it just means there is interest in same-sex sexual activities. But maybe to someone else it means attracted to both genders. Or even capable/wanting relationships with either/both genders.
Most of the time I fantasize about women, watch straight porn. Im only physically and emotionally attracted to women. But I've found that playing with a cock can be great fun.
So I identify as "mostly straight" but bi, seems to be the closest I can come to a label.
Oh, and also "how bi" I am depends on how horny I am lol
Sometimes I just think it would be lovely to have someone sucking me. Other times I'm interested in reciprocating. And when really horny I want to explore a lot more than oral.
just my personal experience, no real point to make or anything.

Well said...

 

[Spongo]

Am the same until my gf dared me and I got to try that one time.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I still can't find quite the right label, none seem to fit exactly. But then I guess thats no surprise - people are very individual and "bi" seems to really span a wide range.
When I think of bisexual it just means there is interest in same-sex sexual activities. But maybe to someone else it means attracted to both genders. Or even capable/wanting relationships with either/both genders.
Most of the time I fantasize about women, watch straight porn. Im only physically and emotionally attracted to women. But I've found that playing with a cock can be great fun.
So I identify as "mostly straight" but bi, seems to be the closest I can come to a label.
Oh, and also "how bi" I am depends on how horny I am lol
Sometimes I just think it would be lovely to have someone sucking me. Other times I'm interested in reciprocating. And when really horny I want to explore a lot more than oral.
just my personal experience, no real point to make or anything.

There's no 'must' involved. Sex is not a series of pigeon-holes, but a pleasing blur that smudges across a spectrum of tastes and moods that can alter and be fine-tuned by events and experience. As long as it is mutual and consensual, without pressure or coercion, the human body is a sensual delight designed for interaction. It would be a shame to restrict your scope.

 

[MountainMan406]

I defined myself as bi curious for the longest time and more recently was telling myself that I'm actually bisexual. But now I don't think that really defines it. I'm physically attractive to women and love straight sex. But I fantasy about wanting sex with a man. Wanting to play with another cock preferably larger than mine. I want to be feminine in this scenario.

I hope that maybe my wife will peg me someday and that will help but I don't know if she can get onboard with being dominant of me calling me girly things. So needless to say I think I have some gender fluidity in the bedroom and it's not straight bisexual, if that makes any sense.

 

[delfantasysharer]

Cur mwm 60 near Philly here. I'd love a jo buddy.

 

[Escierto]

I defined myself as bi curious for the longest time and more recently was telling myself that I'm actually bisexual. But now I don't think that really defines it. I'm physically attractive to women and love straight sex. But I fantasy about wanting sex with a man. Wanting to play with another cock preferably larger than mine. I want to be feminine in this scenario.

I hope that maybe my wife will peg me someday and that will help but I don't know if she can get onboard with being dominant of me calling me girly things. So needless to say I think I have some gender fluidity in the bedroom and it's not straight bisexual, if that makes any sense.

I understand what you are saying completely. I am a straight man but in my first conversation with my trans girlfriend, she told me that in bed she would be the man and I would be the woman. So it has been for the past five years. I suck her or she fucks my ass and we are both very happy with each other.

 

[MountainMan406]

I understand what you are saying completely. I am a straight man but in my first conversation with my trans girlfriend, she told me that in bed she would be the man and I would be the woman. So it has been for the past five years. I suck her or she fucks my ass and we are both very happy with each other.

Love that for you. And I've seen some of your girlfriend's pics she's gorgeous. And I can see why you enjoy being dominated by her

 

[novice68writer123]

I’m a married male, only been with women. I still find women sexy and desirable, and I can still perform with my wife. But when I’m alone, all I think of is men and cock. I’ve almost exclusively jerked to gay fantasies and gay porn for years now. I never feel more alive and sexual than when I’m able to embrace this side of me. I’ve struggled at times trying to understand if I’m bi-curious, bi, or maybe one male sexual experience away from coming out of the closet. Ultimately I guess it doesn’t matter, I’m comfortable with my desires. But just curious to hear from anyone with similar feelings or insight. Cheers

Similar here. MWM 56. Never had any girlfriends growing up. First wife nearly no sex. Current wife no sex for 15 years.
No lie. Years ago I went down on a friend of mine and it was very exciting and naughty. Sadly he never went down
on me. It would be nice to have sex with my wife. But more and more I with I had a male neighbor with benefits.
Maybe he is in a similar situation like me. No sex. Or maybe he has an active and hot sex life and he and his wife
have talked about having a guy join in and he has openly talked to her about what it would feel like to have a friends
cock in his mouth, especially if his wife was watching.
I like the ladies of course and I'm not looking to hook up with a guy for the simple fact of hooking up. But I'm a regular
guy and I have sexual needs and desires and it just would be nice to have a trusted friend/neighbor in person to be
able to explore with.

 

[fshnassman]

Seems like I have a similar feeling that many share. I love toys in me while fucking or masturbating. I'm definitely attracted to women, but the idea of being the middle of a MMF or even being fucked by someone while caressed by a woman is hot as fuck to me. I also have a fantasy where the person who's fucking me is sitting in a chair and I go sit on his cock. It also appeals to me to switch and be the dom also. Maybe then I'm really bicurious...

 

[Escierto]

Love that for you. And I've seen some of your girlfriend's pics she's gorgeous. And I can see why you enjoy being dominated by her

Thank you! Sexual submission to this queen is bliss.

 

[novice68writer123]

If anyone wants to chat with me, drop me a direct note. Smile

 

[Bi_Guy50]

Similar here. MWM 56. Never had any girlfriends growing up. First wife nearly no sex. Current wife no sex for 15 years.
No lie. Years ago I went down on a friend of mine and it was very exciting and naughty. Sadly he never went down
on me. It would be nice to have sex with my wife. But more and more I with I had a male neighbor with benefits.
Maybe he is in a similar situation like me. No sex. Or maybe he has an active and hot sex life and he and his wife
have talked about having a guy join in and he has openly talked to her about what it would feel like to have a friends
cock in his mouth, especially if his wife was watching.
I like the ladies of course and I'm not looking to hook up with a guy for the simple fact of hooking up. But I'm a regular
guy and I have sexual needs and desires and it just would be nice to have a trusted friend/neighbor in person to be
able to explore with.

It all does sound like a real nice fantasy to think about... but unfortunately the part of finding that trusted friend/neighbor is like finding a unicorn

 

[Lemmetri]

I have to believe believe there are unicorns.

 

[Escierto]

I have to believe believe there are unicorns.

In a word, yes. I found my unicorn, a feminine trans woman who is a pure top. You can find who you are looking for if you are patient and persistent.

 

[Lemmetri]

 

[Badxxxwifey]

I didn't know there was a label lol being with my gfs was just she liked to and she doesn't - no label. but we all fucked lol

Would’ve loved to be one of the gfs lol

 

[Ciceri]

Similar here. MWM 56. Never had any girlfriends growing up. First wife nearly no sex. Current wife no sex for 15 years.
No lie. Years ago I went down on a friend of mine and it was very exciting and naughty. Sadly he never went down
on me. It would be nice to have sex with my wife. But more and more I with I had a male neighbor with benefits.
Maybe he is in a similar situation like me. No sex. Or maybe he has an active and hot sex life and he and his wife
have talked about having a guy join in and he has openly talked to her about what it would feel like to have a friends
cock in his mouth, especially if his wife was watching.
I like the ladies of course and I'm not looking to hook up with a guy for the simple fact of hooking up. But I'm a regular
guy and I have sexual needs and desires and it just would be nice to have a trusted friend/neighbor in person to be
able to explore with.

After my divorce I befriended an older gay gentleman for whom I worked (odd jobs). After six weeks he confessed his love for me. I was resistant but continued working for him before allowing myself to be open to possibilities. I trusted him completely and found his house to be a safe place to explore my own sexuality. I did not identify as gay or bi but I was lonely after all I'd lost after my marriage collapsed. Anyway I set my ego aside and let him have his way with me, basically. He was a top and I submitted. I was in a homosexual relationship for three years while not once feeling any physical attraction to him (or any male for that matter).

 

[Willywonkher76]

I’m 52 myself. That’s hot that you’ve been able to have some male encounters. I’m always submissive in my fantasies. After years of being dominant with women, I want to be on the receiving end of sex. But I don’t fantasize about quickie encounters. I think about being seduced slowly, meeting, flirting, foreplay, all of the fun leading up to sex as much as sex itself. I like the idea of having a secret boyfriend, someone I feel comfortable with. Kissing and body contact before and after sex if very much a turn on. Feel free to pm me if you’d like to talk further.

I am an older guy who had my first male encounter many years ago as a young man. It took me by surprise and really made me aware of how much I craved a hard cock. I’ve had several males pick up on that vibe and have throughly enjoyed it over the years.

 

[FunNSpice]

There's no 'must' involved. Sex is not a series of pigeon-holes, but a pleasing blur that smudges across a spectrum of tastes and moods that can alter and be fine-tuned by events and experience. As long as it is mutual and consensual, without pressure or coercion, the human body is a sensual delight designed for interaction. It would be a shame to restrict your scope.

Extremely well said

 

[Bianca66]

I am bicurious too but hope to call myself bisexual some day Any volunteers to help me get there?

spend some time with me and you will loose your curiosity