Bi-curious? In the closet? Unsure…

I’m a bi guy, just hit the big 60, and for the past seven years I have enjoyed the occasional male male liason. I find it interesting that I enjoy being the same easygoing dominant guy with men as I do with women. Some guys seem to enjoy being alpha in public and with women, but love being submissive with another guy…

All things sexual fascinate me.
When you fantasize about a gay encounter, what role are you in, or is it just hot sweaty sex with cocks and cum flying everywhere…
I would love to meet you.
I love dominant MEN
Sometimes I will protest, but they just keep going, and I love it
 
hi guys hope all are well. i have been away for a few weeks, was sick for a solid 2 weeks then just away for another
week or so. but i'm back now.
feel free to PM me.
mwm, 56, bi curious though i went down on my friend when i was young.
married 23 years havn't had sex in 15 years.
you guys know the drill. Grin.
can't afford to hook up with a stranger via an app, but wish I had a trusted friend / neighbor to play with.
until that happens in real life i enjoy chatting on lit and if interested enjoy emailing on the outside.
so if your interested drop me a note.
:)
 
I’m a married male, only been with women. I still find women sexy and desirable, and I can still perform with my wife. But when I’m alone, all I think of is men and cock. I’ve almost exclusively jerked to gay fantasies and gay porn for years now. I never feel more alive and sexual than when I’m able to embrace this side of me. I’ve struggled at times trying to understand if I’m bi-curious, bi, or maybe one male sexual experience away from coming out of the closet. Ultimately I guess it doesn’t matter, I’m comfortable with my desires. But just curious to hear from anyone with similar feelings or insight. Cheers
I'm a strate 58year young wite male I've never had a bi experience.as I'm not attracted to men normally but I started watching ladyboy and transexual pornI found it turned me on.at first I wanted to fuck them but slowly I began to think I would like them to fuck me and I still do but now I have been wanting sissyboy porn and now I want to be dressed up inscimpy lace pants braw stockings ect and get fucked by a huge Cock preferably a transgender girl but Im ready to get fucked by man or trans I just want to be submissiv
bottom for a dominant huge cocki or three.
💋:⁠,⁠-⁠)
 
It was mentioned to me once that that guys in our era were brought up thinking that getting together with the same sex was a big taboo and that thought stayed with us. As we get older and see how society has changed and things are more wide open, we find that those bi desires aren't really all that bad. It really can be an exciting feeling having the opportunity to explore that part of us even if there hasn't been any actual experiences... yet.
Looking at the responses here and other threads, there seem to be plenty of guys and gals in the same boat.
Just reading through some of these comments, I can relate relate to them but unlike most of these comments I took my lifestyle to the next level.

When I was 15 I experienced having sex with a girl, which I enjoyed and also at age 15 I sucked my first cock. I loved it immediately.

Hence, I spent 35 years switching between women and men. I had a number of hot girlfriends and I got married and had a daughter. But, during my marriage I had a married bi boyfriend on the side. Since we lived 500 miles away, it was an on and off affair.

But in my late 40’s as my wife grew less and less interested in sex, I had a brief encounter with a woman, but honestly it was filled with too much drama and danger, plus when alone I started reading gay magazines and watching gay porn. I quickly discovered my desire for cock was growing. When on business trips I would start visiting that city’s gay villages. I would visit gay sex stores and buy gay sex toys. And I would use those toys on my ass….I discovered I was a submissive bottom.

After years of going online and using gay cruise phone lines, I finally decided I needed to get real cock. I went to a popular Vancouver gay bar known for older bears….there a 74 year experience gay man bought me a drink…within an hour we were taking a shower in my hotel room and he proceeded to fuck me with his fat cock.

That week in Vancouver I slept with three other men. From that week forward I knew my life changed. I’m now 64, gay and single and loving who I am. It wasn’t an easy ride getting here, but now I live an honest life. When I think back With clarity, I think I knew at age 12 or 13 I was gay. But, social norms told me I was a bad person to think that way….so I followed….not any more!
 
Yes we aren't too far apart. I am married but have had a few bi-curious experiences- touching and sucking cock-one was in a threesome and one was alone with another man. I enjoyed the experiences but not sure about going further. I haven't yet kissed a man but that I am curious about and what that is like. Have you done that yet?
Hi Reggie, I was with a boy in HS, my only time and neither of us knew what we were doing. We went to the beach and it was just us and it got cold, and the. It was very hot. He tasted delicious, I can still remember. BTW, I’m in Lakeland.
 
I’m a bi guy, just hit the big 60, and for the past seven years I have enjoyed the occasional male male liason. I find it interesting that I enjoy being the same easygoing dominant guy with men as I do with women. Some guys seem to enjoy being alpha in public and with women, but love being submissive with another guy…

All things sexual fascinate me.
When you fantasize about a gay encounter, what role are you in, or is it just hot sweaty sex with cocks and cum flying everywhere…
I melt for an easy going dominant man in his 60s!
 
I was curious for years. At the age of 46 I finally got the nerve and met a guy for nsa oral. After that encounter I turned fully bi. I still find woman attractive and lust after pussy and females. But all my real encounters are with other men. Honestly I prefer the sexual gratification with men. I enjoy sensual and intimate contact with men. Cock has turned me more Gay than straight. But as I get older ill take what i can get. Often my fantasies are leaning toward gay sex.
For me or would depend...a woman that is sexual would be a huge turn on...but as far as sexual energy love a turned on man as well...especially a hard cock...though I go thru phases
 
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