bicurious quiz for guys

[hyatt_boy]

personal preference

I've had guys who wanted to kiss me and I wouldn't. And I have been with guys I wanted to kiss but they didn't. However, I have found under the right circumstances, kissing a guy can be a powerful experience and it adds to the intensity of the orgasm.

I was once with a guy who I didn't want to kiss initiall. But during the heat of the action he surprised me by pulling my head back by my hair and biting my neck and then french kissing me. It was hot. A year later I was applying for a job in a company which I had absolutely no chance in the world of getting hired. At the end of the interview, I was told I was going to get the job because Mr. Smith , the VP of Personnel, thought I was a good candidate. I found out later Mr. Smith was the french kisser. So some times it pays to go the extra mile.

 

[jimmybear22]

hot and horny

This post has really got me going. I just wish someone was here with me as we watched one another jack off. If anyone wants to chat, let me know.

 

[trask9]

i find it really interesting that most people are answering they'd blow a guy, but not kiss him.

I have only kiss one guy, we had know each other for a number of years and when we started experimenting sexually we did kiss, he was also my first Bi experience where I gave oral. He was alot more experienced than me. I think its mostly a pure sexual thing for Bi guys, lets stroke, suck and thats it.
Like most men I find that two women kissing is so freaking hot. Two men kissing does nothing for me. And Hello fellow Orygonian.

 

[UpTheIrons]

I think it's understandable - kissing/hugging is so much more INTIMATE. Personally, I like more sensual activities with women. Kissing, snuggling, cuddling, that sort of thing.

Do you still consider yourself bi if you don't want the intimacy though? I've always thought of 'bi-curious' as being sort of a blanket term, but what I always associate with bisexuality is the desire to be intimate with both sexes. I think it's perfectly acceptable to be straight and have sex with same sex partners.

That idea is exactly what I have been trying to understand for myself. I think it may be strange that one of the only things I would do Is receive Anal.

 

[HornyPup]

This post has really got me going. I just wish someone was here with me as we watched one another jack off. If anyone wants to chat, let me know.

Just send me an email and we can talk about whatever turns you on.

 

[jimmybear22]

Hey hornypup, for some reason I couldn't email you. Try emailing me.

 

[bi golly]

That idea is exactly what I have been trying to understand for myself. I think it may be strange that one of the only things I would do Is receive Anal.

I was like this for a long time. But I had so many hang ups about my anus being erogenous. Also, receiving anal was so gay that I really pushed back on the idea of it. My fantasies involved not giving up anal sex easily; I was always tricked into it by a woman or guy in some nonconsensual way. The idea of sucking on a cock, willingly, was an anathema to me.

But I have learned more about myself. I was the fifth of five boys born to my mother. Google birth order and homosexuality and you'll see why that is significant. I have learned that I am more attracted to women emotionally than I am to men. I like women sexually also. But there is a part of me that is attracted to sex and physical intimacy with men. I am no longer ashamed of it. It is who I am. Feeling sexual with men isn't wrong for me. Kissing, holding, sucking, fucking. It is all good.

 

[HornyPup]

Heh jimmybear22
try meatpuppet12@yahoo.com, you'll be able to zero right in on me.

 

[evi1monkey]

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[jimmybear22]

It doesn't make you shallow, you human. I'm the same way. No desire to kiss a man, it's all about the cock.

 

[cumfeelme]

i love women, kissing them, touching them - that turns me on.
but in my private moments i find myself wondering what a big hard cock would taste like...

 

[none2_none2]

I'll never understand this obsession with cock. Even when I was younger with a high sex drive, I just never could get into obsessing over a penis. Now if I cared for the guy and playing with his cock is what he really needed, then there would be more interest. However, even under that situation, I wouldn't be an obsessed with his cock. Cock is just cock. It doesn't spurt gold, fine wine, nor does it contain the fountain of youth, the apple of knowledge, or anything else out of this world.

Now on the other hand, sure I like to kiss, , but that isn't an obsession either. Every time I fuck my partner, we don't have hours upon hours of foreplay filled with kissing leading up to the final act of fucking. Sometimes a guy just has to bust a nut. Other time even a guy needs more of the intimacy with whomever he is with. Note also that sometimes intimacy is about what you don't do at all. Case in point, lately I've stressed myself out a bit about work I will need to do on my mother's dwelling while supposedly on vacation. When some get stressed they turn to things like drugs, booze, etc. I turn to sex. My stress level is especially strong in the morning. My guy doesn't really like sex in the morning -- especially bottoming. So my act of love isn't kissing him instead of sex, nor is it about trying anything/everything to get him in the mood for anal in the morning. Rather I get up; find porn, and get off. Then luckily I can go back to bed beside him and LEAVE HIM ALONE like a gentleman should and let him have his sleep.

I seriously doubt that some of you are really interested in just cock. (Not that you are closeted gay, but rather that there just isn't that much a cock can do to keep the obsession going indefinately.) I think that if some of you were to line up a bunch of blindfolded, naked, guys with hard-ons in a row that more would go into your selection of who to choose than just who's cock is the biggest, juciest, or closest at hand. Some of you might reject one of them because he is too old, too young, too overweight, too underweight, smells too perfume, smells too much lock a locker room, too self-absorbed, etc... Just like if there were a room full of naked willing women more would go into a guy's choice than just a woman's breasts and/or vagina being aesthetically pleasing to the eyes.

 

[geilguy]

Love Hard Cock

I would love to suck a nice hard cock and let a guy cum in my mouth, but too afraid with all the diseases out there.

So I would lick his balls, jerk him off and watch his cock spew hot cum onto my chest

 

[steveh7383]

I think there is a distinction between raw sexual urges (as with bi-curious guys) and romantic feelings expressed by kissing.

 

[alaskabibear]

I think there is a distinction between raw sexual urges (as with bi-curious guys) and romantic feelings expressed by kissing.

I disagree that it has so much to do with the "bi-curiosity" issue as it does with just the type of guy.

Some guys treat all of their relationships with a "love 'em and leave 'em" approach. Some are more sensitive and desire an inner connection. Just different strokes for different folks. I may be wrong, but it seems like the "love 'em and leave 'em" type are more often in frustrated marriages and other relationships.

 

[SEAMUS_UK2003]

If i was on my own with a guy it would probably start a little bit awkwardly. I would feel his leg running my hand up the inner thigh and with a cupped hand fondle his package then if he wasn't freeking out i would then slowly unzip his trousers and just move very slowly to give him a blowjob and once he felt my lips over his lusciously husky member i would gently show him how to be more acitve. Though if he was still nervous i would just rip his jeans off and start sucking him off hard and strong forcibly showing him that gay sex is fantastic. in both cases i would ensure a night of sucking and fucking.

 

[jim69jim]

depends on what kind of friendship we had

I'd do all of the above to varying degrees depending on the person/persons.

 

[etoile_filante]

Like you, with the right guy I'd do all the above, plus masturbate myself for him as well.

 

[bugeye791]

all of the above, too

I guess I would have to say yes to all of the above, too. Although, to date, I have only done oral and jerked off with other guys, and that was years ago. But, as time goes on, the more I want to do everything with a guy, and yes, that means kiss him, too !!!!

 

[zekealicious]

My experience kissing another guy is very limited,his wife wanted us to kiss...very erotic I thought...having said that though, I'm really not into the "cuddling" type of intimacy with another man...

 

[blklthrjkt]

Wish I could have been there to watch and help out

 

[south_florida_bicur]

i find it really interesting that most people are answering they'd blow a guy, but not kiss him.

"Art of Kissing" - kissing which some is considered to be the most intimate way of expressing love.

that being said, oral sex is sex and only sex but kissing is very intimate.

THAT is the difference in a nutshell...

 

[pest24]

on

Gob5hite - if you're reading this, PM me. I'm in the North West and would be happy to chat. That goes for anyone who would like to share fantasies and help me explore my feelings even more.

Also, I read all the time about these adult bookstores and gloryholes in the US. Do we have anything like that in the UK?

Sorry about the lenght post.....it's my first![


im in the nw and finally getting up the courage to have my first bi experience up u im 26 pm if u want to cht or msn office_pest2000@yahoo.com

 

[valen1971]

For me kissing is an expression of love. I don't love men, I'm just curious about cock play in all its forms. I don't want to go through life having regretted not mutually jerking off, sucking and fucking another guy. I may only ever have the experience once and although liking and mutual respect need to be involved - love doesn't (not just to satisfy a mutual bicuriousity).

 

[none2_none2]

For me kissing is an expression of love. I don't love men, I'm just curious about cock play in all its forms. I don't want to go through life having regretted not mutually jerking off, sucking and fucking another guy. I may only ever have the experience once and although liking and mutual respect need to be involved - love doesn't (not just to satisfy a mutual bicuriousity).

So you are saying that you only kiss women that you love? I have known gay guys that were that way too. On the other hand I know plenty of people (gay/bi/str8) that kiss because it is a pleasant sensation -- not because they are falling in love. Personally, now that I have a partner, I only have sex with him and I only kiss him. I couldn't imagine having sex with others nor for that matter kissing others. That isn't because other people are unattractive or unlikable. Rather, to me infidelity whether above the neck or below the belt or anywhere in between cheapens my relationship.

If I was single and on the prowl, I might or might not want to kiss along with fuck the person if there was a strong physical attraction. If I didn't get everything I wanted on the first few encounters, I don't think that would be a problem. However, to develop into something regular, if the guy didn't kiss or didn't like to get fucked, there wouldn't be many repeats. This isn't because I would be emotionally hurt or longing for some kind of ring or some sentence that includes "I love you". Rather, I would find it rather boring and I would classify the guy as being frigid -- just like most straight guys would think the same about such a woman. There are too many fish in the barrel to waste time on someone repeatedly who doesn't want to do things that you find hot.