Bisexual girl?

[Arrow2891]

Is there any signs and whatnot, that a girl could be bisexual. I know this girl, who just about drools over certain women celebrities, calls them hot, and whatnot and makes vague references to having threesomes, but most of the time, she acts straight, and never says anything about being bisexual. I can't tell if she just admires the looks of these women, or is really attracted to them.

So, can anyone really tell the difference? Thanks.

 

[NYSubGrpplr]

USually can't tell. I know a girl that does all the stuff plus more and isn't Bisexual in the slightest.

Then I know girls that publically detest anything that has to do with same sex relationships but in private they're down for just about anything.

 

[MintSoda]

Is there any signs and whatnot, that a girl could be bisexual. I know this girl, who just about drools over certain women celebrities, calls them hot, and whatnot and makes vague references to having threesomes, but most of the time, she acts straight, and never says anything about being bisexual. I can't tell if she just admires the looks of these women, or is really attracted to them.

So, can anyone really tell the difference? Thanks.

If you're a girl try kissing her and see if she kisses back. If you're a guy...what do you care?

 

[Arrow2891]

If you're a girl try kissing her and see if she kisses back. If you're a guy...what do you care?

Because there's nothing more interesting than a bisexual female.

 

[MintSoda]

Because there's nothing more interesting than a bisexual female.

I'd argue that but let's face it, we are fascinating.

 

[Fallen5of7]

Observation

If you have any skills in reading body language then that might be the most accurate barometer to see which way her weather vane swings. Much more is to be learned from the non-verbal clues and physical tells in her unconscious responses to other females or just simple conversation about the subject in general.

 

[rakastuja]

Is there any signs and whatnot, that a girl could be bisexual. I know this girl, who just about drools over certain women celebrities, calls them hot, and whatnot and makes vague references to having threesomes, but most of the time, she acts straight, and never says anything about being bisexual. I can't tell if she just admires the looks of these women, or is really attracted to them.

So, can anyone really tell the difference? Thanks.

Only she can tell it for sure. I know some straight girls who are just like that and sometimes I have tried to rationalize it - "you drool after these girls but still you dont want to have sex with them?"

So I guess there's no telling from those signs. Also bisexuality is very "media sexy". Very straight girls sometimes seem to put up bi-act possibly to be like sexy girls in movies and commercials (and it seems to work with guys).

I suggest you just go and ask. Personally I dont like those complex ways where you try to jokingly turn conversation into direction where she might reveal it or such. I think its better to ask honestly since you are interested.

Because there's nothing more interesting than a bisexual female.

I would sometimes say there's nothing more prejudged than bisexual female...

"What do you mean you dont want threesome?"
"Of course you're supposed to be a nympho!"
"How come you dont want sit at bar and check girls butts with me?"

 

[Extreme Bohunk]

I was watching a movie with a female friend, we were both drooling over the same actress. (Sherilynn Fenn). Think that might be a clue?

 

[Eilan]

Y' know, it's entirely possible for a woman to appreciate the physical attractiveness of another woman without wanting to have sex with her. It doesn't have to mean anything.

Dating a bi female isn't a guarantee that you'll get to have MFFs all the time. Not all bisexual women want to share that with a man.

 

[NYSubGrpplr]

Dating a bi female isn't a guarantee that you'll get to have MFFs all the time. Not all bisexual women want to share that with a man.

Yea, I dated a greedy one for 4 years. She had slept with the most beautiful girls before we dated too.

 

[rakastuja]

Not all bisexual women want to share that with a man.

Or maybe share a person they love with someone else - no matter what genders you put there.

Threesome needs a lot trust and confidence. Also I dont think its automatically bisexuals fantasy to have both sexes in bed same time. At least I havent ever really fantasized about that.

 

[Eilan]

Or maybe share a person they love with someone else - no matter what genders you put there.

I agree.

Threesome needs a lot trust and confidence.

Been there, done that. It's NOT to be taken lightly.

Also I dont think its automatically bisexuals fantasy to have both sexes in bed same time. At least I havent ever really fantasized about that.

I don't think so, either. However, if a guy has always dreamed of having two women at once, he might assume that dating a bisexual woman will help him realize that fantasy. Of course, it's never a good idea to generalize/make assumptions.

 

[silverwhisper]

eilan: there you go, injecting logic into things... :>

if she's "drooling" over them, the surest way to get the answer is probably just to ask what she'd do about her interest, given the opportunity. another possible interpretation of her actions however is to get you turned on.

ed

 

[Little Bird]

Because there's nothing more interesting than a bisexual female.

Oh, there is: Bisexual Males!

THERE it starts to get interesting for other guys...

 

[Arrow2891]

Thanks for the comments, guys. I'd rather not ask her, it could ruin the fantasy. I asked you guys to see if I could know the truth, without asking her. Also, would a straight woman go as far as watching and enjoying videos, that is nothing but different women stripping and posing in different scenes, just because she admires the looks of other women?

 

[silverwhisper]

it's always possible, sure. it's probably somewhat rare IMHO, mind, but it's possible.

ed

 

[Lovernotkiller]

I know i use to always want a gf who was bi and i could have a threesome with, but now that i have one, i am deeply in love with her and feel nervous toward her being bi, cause it's like i have to watch out for other girls hitting on her as well as guys. As for the sex, she is all i need, i dont need another girl and i hope she doesnt eighther.
But if you like that girl, get to know her better then you won't have to ask, she will tell you.

 

[rakastuja]

Also she can just fantasize about girls - not necessarily wanting to do anything in real life. That kind of person might or might not label herself as bisexual.

Many heteros have some bisexual dreams or fantasies without real will to try them out. Drooling after some woman in video or magazine could be safe way to continue that fantasy without danger of getting close encounter with woman.

 

[EarnestImp]

Is there any signs and whatnot, that a girl could be bisexual.

Have you tried smelling her fingers?

 

[fr34k_n45ty]

I really dont think you can tell unless you see her like messing around with another girl... but i mean you can always ask her if it's driving you up the walls that bad. I think many women are that sure of themselves that they can walk around saying that another girl is "fucking sexy" and stuff like that. I mean really can't we admire someone without wanted to get with them

 

[Arrow2891]

Gathering what everyone has said, I think she may be that phrase I've heard thrown around a few times "Bisexual in the Mind". I think it means you're attracted to the same sex, but can settle with just that, and not dying to have sex with them.

 

[espeteroh]

Is there any signs and whatnot, that a girl could be bisexual. I know this girl, who just about drools over certain women celebrities, calls them hot, and whatnot and makes vague references to having threesomes, but most of the time, she acts straight, and never says anything about being bisexual. I can't tell if she just admires the looks of these women, or is really attracted to them.

So, can anyone really tell the difference? Thanks.

Here's a thought, just ask her straight out, or, suggest to her that you think she is. When/if she denies it point out what you've just said.