Bottoming - and ED

i guess since the time i realized i was a cock loving little sissy bottom and submitting my body to men is when my cock became more like a clit...its not as bad as it may sound.. i love my role as bottom , i love how i make a guy feel and even better to know i can make him cum . im a happy gurl even if my clit doesnt get hard anymore.. i know my place...
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I know what you’re saying. My cock doesn’t get hard and is a little clit now. So taking a man’s big cock is my duty now. I’m a sissy, slut and a whore.
 
Based on what I see here and other sites, there tend to be far more guys that want to do the sucking than want to be sucked. That is unless those wanting to be sucked are just lurking and not posting.

I've had some ED sometimes but I don't think that's the only reason why I'm a bottom, I just like the opportunity to please another person. I do not care if that person has ED either, that is something I can help them feel at ease with and hopefully they can enjoy the sensations I am able to give.
 
I was a bottom before I dealt with ED issues, my FB would fuck me and I wasn’t getting fully erect but I was still cumming if he or I stroked my limp penis for awhile.

We went to a cruising park, I was completely naked in front of three guys, strangers while my buddy fucked me.

They chuckled at my limp penis swinging and bouncing with every thrust. I’m standing there being fucked for their amusement and I began feeling more aroused than embarrassed.

My buddy jerked me off and kept fucking me for another few minutes before he came. Remembering that now never fails to turn me on.😋
 
I was a bottom before I dealt with ED issues, my FB would fuck me and I wasn’t getting fully erect but I was still cumming if he or I stroked my limp penis for awhile.

We went to a cruising park, I was completely naked in front of three guys, strangers while my buddy fucked me.

They chuckled at my limp penis swinging and bouncing with every thrust. I’m standing there being fucked for their amusement and I began feeling more aroused than embarrassed.

My buddy jerked me off and kept fucking me for another few minutes before he came. Remembering that now never fails to turn me on.😋
Very nice
 
This post is not about anal sex. It is specifically about M2M oral sex - that is, giving and/or getting blow jobs.

It seems to me that many guys looking for in M2M experiences in Lit Forums and Lit Chat are Identifying strictly as "bottoms". Why? Why not at least "Switch"?

I've had many M2M experiences as a "top", (with my personal cocksucker, and random hook-ups in ABS video booths), however, those days may now be over.

My experiences as an "oral top" had always been very satisfying, but I received radiation treatments for prostate cancer which left me with this predicament - I get hard, still leak a fair amount of precum, and, although I have orgasms, I really don't cum anymore. So, I have some form of ED, probably to get worse. Many other guys can't get hard without the help of some drug, and that takes some planning.

If not for my fear of contracting some STD, I think I would have been an occasional oral bottom. I always had the desire to at least "return the favor". So, while my wife has lost interest in sex - even me making her cum orally (I've always been an excellent pussy licker) - I still have the desire for sex.

So, the desire to bottom orally in a M2M encounter has grown stronger. I'm not submissive at all, although I'm also not dominant. I'm an equal opportunity/rights guy. I think it is, in part, that since I can't cum, I'd be cheating my hook-up out of what he's looking for mostly as a cocksucker - and that's a mouthful of cum; And that to ID as a bottom would free me of the potential to have to reward a cocksucker with that mouthful and save me from embarrassment, with an underperforming or unperforming cock.

So, Bottoms - what is your main motivation?
Why not switch? Because I'm not into that. I'm not wired that way. That is like asking a gay man why he doesn't eat pussy.

I'm a total, dedicated, strict bottom. I don't want a masculine man sucking me. It's a total turn off. I won't cum. I won't even stay hard. If a guy starts sucking me, I'm done. The fun is over. Get dressed and leave.
 
Why not switch? Because I'm not into that. I'm not wired that way. That is like asking a gay man why he doesn't eat pussy.

I'm a total, dedicated, strict bottom. I don't want a masculine man sucking me. It's a total turn off. I won't cum. I won't even stay hard. If a guy starts sucking me, I'm done. The fun is over. Get dressed and leave.
I get asked all the time why I don't want my gf to reciprocate. Like you, I am not wired that way! I love being the woman for her sexually and letting her be what she wants to be sexually, a man. We go together perfectly just as we are.
 
I get asked all the time why I don't want my gf to reciprocate. Like you, I am not wired that way! I love being the woman for her sexually and letting her be what she wants to be sexually, a man. We go together perfectly just as we are.
I love it with women, trans, fems or other sissies. But with men, I am all bottom bitch.
 
The first time a cock settled on my tongue and my lips sealed around his shaft it just felt right. It felt like it belonged there and that feeling has continued with every cock I have taken. I am a bottom. That is my nature. It is something that is part of me like eye color, hair color and right hand dominance. My cock is limp and dripping when I am servicing another cock. Yes I have ED but thanks to medicine I can still fuck my wife. Life is good and so is cock.
 
The first time a cock settled on my tongue and my lips sealed around his shaft it just felt right. It felt like it belonged there and that feeling has continued with every cock I have taken. I am a bottom. That is my nature. It is something that is part of me like eye color, hair color and right hand dominance. My cock is limp and dripping when I am servicing another cock. Yes I have ED but thanks to medicine I can still fuck my wife. Life is good and so is cock.
Well-balanced view of life!
 
Long story but it’s a true one.

The first time I was fucked by a guy made me wonder if I’d ever do that again. He was a stocky black guy who had come to my place for a blowjob. His cock was maybe six inches long and not fat but not too small either. In the middle of the bj he said he’d like fuck me. I’d never been fucked before and decided pretty quickly that it was worth a try do I grabbed some lube nearby and smeared some on his cock. He bent me over the bed and with no hesitation plunged it in to my pussyass. It hurt at first and then subsided as he pounded away. He was obviously hot and very hard so it was a fast and furious fuck. He lasted for about five minutes and said he was about to cum and asked where I’d like it. I told him my mouth so he pulled out, I turned around and sat on the bed so he could shove his cock in and he shot his load in. It tasted good but wasn’t much. When he was done he got dressed, said goodbye and he left.

I can’t say I enjoyed my first fuck.

Then I met John through Craig’s List. His ad said he he had nine inches that needed to be serviced and i had to see if he really had nine inches so we arraigned a meeting.

I picked him up at a nearby bus transfer station and we drove to my place. He was a decent looking black guy of average height which was nice. On the way I had a desire to reach over and feel his cock but I didn’t. I was too shy about such things then. When we were in the house I did reach down and it felt promising. He undid his belt, unzipped his pants and pulled them down along with his underwear as I stripped off my clothes. He had not been lying about the size of his cock. I grabbed it and fell to my knees to suck it. He suggested going to the bedroom so we did.

He laid on the bed with his cock pointing straight up in air. It was a very nice circumference and looked perfect for what I love to do, take it deep in my throat. No one had come close to his size and the sight of it made me lust for it.

I climbed between his legs and began to lick his hard balls. His balls had short curly hair like the pubes at the base of his cock which was nice so when I sucked them the hair felt fuzzy and didn’t get in the way. They were also big balls which always turn me on. Then I licked my way up his shaft, kissed the tip of his head and then rubbed the it against my lips. Soft lips against the soft head of a cock feels incredibly sensual it never fails to to make my clitty leak with precum. It is so hot! Then I slipped his head into my mouth till it hit the back of it and pushed down till it was sliding down my throat. The others were never long enough to go down but his went down very well and it felt wonderful! It made me gag but I caught my breath and went down on it again and again until he said he’d like to fuck me. Oh no. I thought but there was something about him that made me say ok.

I grabbed the lube and slicked up his beast and got on all fours so he could enter from behind. He didn’t shove it full bore but when I felt the had enter he stopped and asked how it felt. There was a little pain but it went away quickly so I said it felt fine. He slowly pushed it in deeper and deeper until i could feel his hips agains my ass. He was balls deep and it felt really good so I told him so and to please fuck me. It was no slam bam thank you kind of fuck like the first time. He took it slow and easy in a very pleasing rhythm. It felt great, almost as good as being down my throat.

He fucked me for several minutes and then suggested I lay down so I did. Then with the same rhythm as before he fucked me some more. He said I was so tight it felt good and continued on for several more minutes until he suggested another position. This time I laid on my back, raised my legs and he entered me. Mmm…his length felt so good as it went in and out in that rhythm he used. Once more he fucked me in that position until he again said he’d like to try a different one.

He had me lay on my side with one leg pulled up towards my chest. When he entered me it felt different than the other positions and even better. He was hitting all the right spots so my clitty was leaking a lot and it felt like he was going deeper than before. All I know is that I was learning that a man with the right cock and a good rhythm made to a very good fucking and I loved it.

After awhile he said he was about to cum amd asked where I’d like it. Me being me said in my mouth so he pulled out and I sat up so he could jerk off into it. When he came there was a decent amount and it tasted salty creamy and delicious. Then I swallowed it all. I don’t know why but I have craved a man’s sperm for a long time and to this day I love the taste of it.

Tried to suck out the last of what he had to offer but he was the sensitive type and my mouth on his head after he had blown his load made him jerk back so I stopped.

We cleaned up, got dressed and I took him out to a mall where I dropped him off. I said I’d love to meet up again but he said he was visiting his sister and would be leaving soon. Darn! But at least I had learned something new about sex with another man, Deepthroating was great but getting fucked was a close second.
 
I've been identifying as a switch since joining this platform. Unfortunately almost all the potential correspondents have been totally top, which not only doesn't interest me but also illustrates the narrow minded selfish attitude of wannabe bi/curious men here. They're mostly just predators.
 
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