Bottoming - and ED

i guess since the time i realized i was a cock loving little sissy bottom and submitting my body to men is when my cock became more like a clit...its not as bad as it may sound.. i love my role as bottom , i love how i make a guy feel and even better to know i can make him cum . im a happy gurl even if my clit doesnt get hard anymore.. i know my place...
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I know what you’re saying. My cock doesn’t get hard and is a little clit now. So taking a man’s big cock is my duty now. I’m a sissy, slut and a whore.
 
Based on what I see here and other sites, there tend to be far more guys that want to do the sucking than want to be sucked. That is unless those wanting to be sucked are just lurking and not posting.

I've had some ED sometimes but I don't think that's the only reason why I'm a bottom, I just like the opportunity to please another person. I do not care if that person has ED either, that is something I can help them feel at ease with and hopefully they can enjoy the sensations I am able to give.
 
I was a bottom before I dealt with ED issues, my FB would fuck me and I wasn’t getting fully erect but I was still cumming if he or I stroked my limp penis for awhile.

We went to a cruising park, I was completely naked in front of three guys, strangers while my buddy fucked me.

They chuckled at my limp penis swinging and bouncing with every thrust. I’m standing there being fucked for their amusement and I began feeling more aroused than embarrassed.

My buddy jerked me off and kept fucking me for another few minutes before he came. Remembering that now never fails to turn me on.😋
 
I was a bottom before I dealt with ED issues, my FB would fuck me and I wasn’t getting fully erect but I was still cumming if he or I stroked my limp penis for awhile.

We went to a cruising park, I was completely naked in front of three guys, strangers while my buddy fucked me.

They chuckled at my limp penis swinging and bouncing with every thrust. I’m standing there being fucked for their amusement and I began feeling more aroused than embarrassed.

My buddy jerked me off and kept fucking me for another few minutes before he came. Remembering that now never fails to turn me on.😋
Very nice
 
This post is not about anal sex. It is specifically about M2M oral sex - that is, giving and/or getting blow jobs.

It seems to me that many guys looking for in M2M experiences in Lit Forums and Lit Chat are Identifying strictly as "bottoms". Why? Why not at least "Switch"?

I've had many M2M experiences as a "top", (with my personal cocksucker, and random hook-ups in ABS video booths), however, those days may now be over.

My experiences as an "oral top" had always been very satisfying, but I received radiation treatments for prostate cancer which left me with this predicament - I get hard, still leak a fair amount of precum, and, although I have orgasms, I really don't cum anymore. So, I have some form of ED, probably to get worse. Many other guys can't get hard without the help of some drug, and that takes some planning.

If not for my fear of contracting some STD, I think I would have been an occasional oral bottom. I always had the desire to at least "return the favor". So, while my wife has lost interest in sex - even me making her cum orally (I've always been an excellent pussy licker) - I still have the desire for sex.

So, the desire to bottom orally in a M2M encounter has grown stronger. I'm not submissive at all, although I'm also not dominant. I'm an equal opportunity/rights guy. I think it is, in part, that since I can't cum, I'd be cheating my hook-up out of what he's looking for mostly as a cocksucker - and that's a mouthful of cum; And that to ID as a bottom would free me of the potential to have to reward a cocksucker with that mouthful and save me from embarrassment, with an underperforming or unperforming cock.

So, Bottoms - what is your main motivation?
Why not switch? Because I'm not into that. I'm not wired that way. That is like asking a gay man why he doesn't eat pussy.

I'm a total, dedicated, strict bottom. I don't want a masculine man sucking me. It's a total turn off. I won't cum. I won't even stay hard. If a guy starts sucking me, I'm done. The fun is over. Get dressed and leave.
 
Why not switch? Because I'm not into that. I'm not wired that way. That is like asking a gay man why he doesn't eat pussy.

I'm a total, dedicated, strict bottom. I don't want a masculine man sucking me. It's a total turn off. I won't cum. I won't even stay hard. If a guy starts sucking me, I'm done. The fun is over. Get dressed and leave.
I get asked all the time why I don't want my gf to reciprocate. Like you, I am not wired that way! I love being the woman for her sexually and letting her be what she wants to be sexually, a man. We go together perfectly just as we are.
 
I get asked all the time why I don't want my gf to reciprocate. Like you, I am not wired that way! I love being the woman for her sexually and letting her be what she wants to be sexually, a man. We go together perfectly just as we are.
I love it with women, trans, fems or other sissies. But with men, I am all bottom bitch.
 
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