Bottoms: do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked?

This question came up in another thread. I am always soft while my girlfriend fucks me and someone said that this is normal. Is it normal? For you bottoms, do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked? Bonus question, do you cum from being fucked?
If she takes me with a strap-on, I stay rock hard!
Sometimes in missionary she does not permit me to penetrate her, and I may soften before she finishes her orgasm. Sometimes I cum simultaneously with her, even though I am soft and not inside her.
 
Last night I mostly stayed hard for five minutes of being pounded before he grabbed my cock and very roughly jerked me off. He didn’t stop stroking me after I finished cumming. I might have liked a little finesse but he was the top and I had a great time.😋
I so want to experience a post orgasm stroke and hard and rough would be hot! Hurts so good
 
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If I am using a dildo to masturbate then I can keep hard and cum. If I am being fucked, I stay soft. I am concentrating on the cock in my ass and giving pleasure, as well as receiving pleasure.
 
Sift the pleasure us from my hole so you being in me is what feels so good my dick even seems to get smaller as I take you
 
There is also a lot of stimulation going on down there and a lot of concentration on relaxing, contracting etc. when your dick gets hard it seems that all thoughts turn toward it, and wanting to get off. When I have a man inside me he’s the priority, not me.

This is part of the reason MM sex can be advantageous for the top. He need not worry about pleasing the receptive partner the way most women want to be pleased. Someone like me is happy to get them off either orally or by receiving him anally. If I get to cum during the session, so be it. Although usually I strive to avoid it. I find my senses are more aroused that way.

So, those of you who are straight(ish) or semi bi, or maybe in a sexless relationship, find a good bottom guy and use him well! It will fulfill needs for both of you.
I volunteer!
 
I’m usually soft, limp and floppy like a good clit, my pleasure coming from being filled, it doesn’t reflect on my top and I cum very quickly and easily and leak a lot of precum. Even being touched doesn’t tend to get me hard until after I’ve been fucked. Occasionally I will get semi erect during very rough, aggressive sex with a lot of verbal domination, humiliation or dirty talk. There have been some rare occasions when I stay hard but not often. Soft and happy is my go to state. I have seen bottoms who stay hard during sex, I was at a bathhouse recently and a young guy was taking anyone and everyone in the public area, he was really getting pounded but his cock was absolutely solid. I stayed and watched until another guy wanted to use me
Profile pic is amazing!
 
Very hard and the orgasm is intense when my wife fucks me. But it is equal sensations and the mind... we sex talk through it, well, to be fair, she talks to me and gets me in an exquisite head space that have to fill my panties with cum. :)
 
Very hard and the orgasm is intense when my wife fucks me. But it is equal sensations and the mind... we sex talk through it, well, to be fair, she talks to me and gets me in an exquisite head space that have to fill my panties with cum. :)
And I do love taking you there, honey. 😎
 
I was hard when sucking his cock then went soft when he was in me, but when I suddenly realized I was soft, I became hard again.
 
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