Boudoir/ Nude Photography Ideas?

[SpicyGrij]

Im a 48F, east of Atlanta GA. I have been divorced from a very loveless and sexless marriage for the last 5 years. I spent the last 4 years not wanting to date or have anything to do with romance. My ex-husband had me thoroughly convinced that I was plain, frumpy and ugly. I'm not skinny and I don't like the extra pounds I'm carrying. I've carried and delivered 2 wonderful children. I worked night shift nursing for over 20 years, getting terrible sleep and completely unhealthy nutrition and lifestyle. I'm now 5'9 and about 200 pounds. I'm very self concious of my belly, thighs and upper arms.

I've said all this to say this: I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man who is also recently divorced from a rather sexless marriage. We have been intimate and he made me feel completely comfortable and beautiful. I recently won a sweepstakes for a free boudoir photo shoot in Atlanta. I want to do it very much as I have been expanding my adventurous side and discovered I have a definite exhibitionism streak. I'm just very very very very self-conscious of how I look under my clothes and I don't want to do this and have a physical proof of how heavy I am. Has anyone done something like this and how did it go? I'm also looking for outfits that are plus size friendly without being circus tents. I love the idea of lingerie but all the ads and pics show size 2 models and nobody my size/ shape....

 

[RedmanReaction19]

Im a 48F, east of Atlanta GA. I have been divorced from a very loveless and sexless marriage for the last 5 years. I spent the last 4 years not wanting to date or have anything to do with romance. My ex-husband had me thoroughly convinced that I was plain, frumpy and ugly. I'm not skinny and I don't like the extra pounds I'm carrying. I've carried and delivered 2 wonderful children. I worked night shift nursing for over 20 years, getting terrible sleep and completely unhealthy nutrition and lifestyle. I'm now 5'9 and about 200 pounds. I'm very self concious of my belly, thighs and upper arms.

I've said all this to say this: I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man who is also recently divorced from a rather sexless marriage. We have been intimate and he made me feel completely comfortable and beautiful. I recently won a sweepstakes for a free boudoir photo shoot in Atlanta. I want to do it very much as I have been expanding my adventurous side and discovered I have a definite exhibitionism streak. I'm just very very very very self-conscious of how I look under my clothes and I don't want to do this and have a physical proof of how heavy I am. Has anyone done something like this and how did it go? I'm also looking for outfits that are plus size friendly without being circus tents. I love the idea of lingerie but all the ads and pics show size 2 models and nobody my size/ shape....

I just want to say "Good for you." I'm glad you found someone who makes you feel special . . . and yep, that relationship plus a good, sensual boudoir photo-shoot should boost your confidence level up a few dozen notches.

 

[Bunnys_Wolfie]

I gave my wife a boudoir session for Christmas. Your questions are best answered by the photographer. There are a variety of techniques and packages that can be purchased, so your experience will depend upon the specifics of the photographer. I assure you, anyone making a living doing this is going to give you the best experience possible, regardless of your body type. Relax and enjoy it. But do contact the photographer beforehand. They can put you at ease.

 

[Rakson]

I gave my wife a boudoir session for Christmas. Your questions are best answered by the photographer. There are a variety of techniques and packages that can be purchased, so your experience will depend upon the specifics of the photographer. I assure you, anyone making a living doing this is going to give you the best experience possible, regardless of your body type. Relax and enjoy it. But do contact the photographer beforehand. They can put you at ease.

What a wonderful gift

 

[MrETnman]

my shy,naive,and religious wife agreed to have some photographs taken for me as a way to maybe enhance our marriage before the flame completely went out,and I make some mistakes in finding an appropriate photographer. I was nervous,but excited and we literally went to a weekend cabin location he had rented for several appointments. He was nice enough and we had a few drinks to calm down and picked out some outfits and scenes we liked. My wife literally just surrendered to do whatever she needed to get this done and over which he and I took advantage of,that’s when I first detected he was kinky and somewhat perverted. Not only did he take photos of her lounging around in sheer gowns and nighties,but eventually naked and spread.He was visibly aroused,I was,and even my sweet wife had gotten aroused which resulted in both of us getting naked and playing with her.

 

[SweetCuriousDarling]

Im a 48F, east of Atlanta GA. I have been divorced from a very loveless and sexless marriage for the last 5 years. I spent the last 4 years not wanting to date or have anything to do with romance. My ex-husband had me thoroughly convinced that I was plain, frumpy and ugly. I'm not skinny and I don't like the extra pounds I'm carrying. I've carried and delivered 2 wonderful children. I worked night shift nursing for over 20 years, getting terrible sleep and completely unhealthy nutrition and lifestyle. I'm now 5'9 and about 200 pounds. I'm very self concious of my belly, thighs and upper arms.

I've said all this to say this: I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man who is also recently divorced from a rather sexless marriage. We have been intimate and he made me feel completely comfortable and beautiful. I recently won a sweepstakes for a free boudoir photo shoot in Atlanta. I want to do it very much as I have been expanding my adventurous side and discovered I have a definite exhibitionism streak. I'm just very very very very self-conscious of how I look under my clothes and I don't want to do this and have a physical proof of how heavy I am. Has anyone done something like this and how did it go? I'm also looking for outfits that are plus size friendly without being circus tents. I love the idea of lingerie but all the ads and pics show size 2 models and nobody my size/ shape....

Lovehoney has some great lingerie that is wonderful for bodies that are not teeny tiny or model perfect. They are designed to stretch and fit in all the rights ways, and I have always been pleasantly surprised by how great they look and how good I feel in them. Personally, I really love their basques, as they have some structure to them they can kind of ‘create’ a nice shape for you, if that makes sense. They also have a really great selection of styles and colours, etc. so there’s lots to choose from, and their prices aren’t crazy, so you’re not breaking the bank to try things.

A good photographer is really going to make this for you, too. Trust that. They’ll make you feel comfortable and ensure the angles are done in a way to show off your best features in the most beautiful ways. They’ll also take plenty of shots so that you have lots to choose from - especially now that everything is digital. Honestly, it should be an amazing experience, and I’m so excited for you!

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Im a 48F, east of Atlanta GA. I have been divorced from a very loveless and sexless marriage for the last 5 years. I spent the last 4 years not wanting to date or have anything to do with romance. My ex-husband had me thoroughly convinced that I was plain, frumpy and ugly. I'm not skinny and I don't like the extra pounds I'm carrying. I've carried and delivered 2 wonderful children. I worked night shift nursing for over 20 years, getting terrible sleep and completely unhealthy nutrition and lifestyle. I'm now 5'9 and about 200 pounds. I'm very self concious of my belly, thighs and upper arms.

I've said all this to say this: I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man who is also recently divorced from a rather sexless marriage. We have been intimate and he made me feel completely comfortable and beautiful. I recently won a sweepstakes for a free boudoir photo shoot in Atlanta. I want to do it very much as I have been expanding my adventurous side and discovered I have a definite exhibitionism streak. I'm just very very very very self-conscious of how I look under my clothes and I don't want to do this and have a physical proof of how heavy I am. Has anyone done something like this and how did it go? I'm also looking for outfits that are plus size friendly without being circus tents. I love the idea of lingerie but all the ads and pics show size 2 models and nobody my size/ shape....

My wife is plus sized. For years one of our hobbies was erotic photography, pretty much starting when we got our first digital camera years ago. Never went the professional route, but we were always curious. Anyway, Lane Bryant has a fantastic lingerie selection. If you have a store nearby, go visit. Otherwise, shop on line. My wife has drawers and drawers of their sexy lingerie.

 

[dirk2024]

Im a 48F, east of Atlanta GA. I have been divorced from a very loveless and sexless marriage for the last 5 years. I spent the last 4 years not wanting to date or have anything to do with romance. My ex-husband had me thoroughly convinced that I was plain, frumpy and ugly. I'm not skinny and I don't like the extra pounds I'm carrying. I've carried and delivered 2 wonderful children. I worked night shift nursing for over 20 years, getting terrible sleep and completely unhealthy nutrition and lifestyle. I'm now 5'9 and about 200 pounds. I'm very self concious of my belly, thighs and upper arms.

I've said all this to say this: I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man who is also recently divorced from a rather sexless marriage. We have been intimate and he made me feel completely comfortable and beautiful. I recently won a sweepstakes for a free boudoir photo shoot in Atlanta. I want to do it very much as I have been expanding my adventurous side and discovered I have a definite exhibitionism streak. I'm just very very very very self-conscious of how I look under my clothes and I don't want to do this and have a physical proof of how heavy I am. Has anyone done something like this and how did it go? I'm also looking for outfits that are plus size friendly without being circus tents. I love the idea of lingerie but all the ads and pics show size 2 models and nobody my size/ shape....

I bet you'd look great in this. https://www.lovehoney.com/lovehoney...650&gbraid=0AAAAADMevIHaXFljwSEyseNLf1JujvbcC

 

[LadyJen7]

Quite a life story. Merely a suggestion: Flip the trope. Check out the old calendars that used to be in repair garages. Do the pin up style with open coveralls instead of lingerie. My dad was a truck driver and had these calendars that were more sexy than raunchy. Just saying. Trying to think outside the box here.

Best of luck in your new situation!

 

[matureman32]

Im a 48F, east of Atlanta GA. I have been divorced from a very loveless and sexless marriage for the last 5 years. I spent the last 4 years not wanting to date or have anything to do with romance. My ex-husband had me thoroughly convinced that I was plain, frumpy and ugly. I'm not skinny and I don't like the extra pounds I'm carrying. I've carried and delivered 2 wonderful children. I worked night shift nursing for over 20 years, getting terrible sleep and completely unhealthy nutrition and lifestyle. I'm now 5'9 and about 200 pounds. I'm very self concious of my belly, thighs and upper arms.

I've said all this to say this: I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man who is also recently divorced from a rather sexless marriage. We have been intimate and he made me feel completely comfortable and beautiful. I recently won a sweepstakes for a free boudoir photo shoot in Atlanta. I want to do it very much as I have been expanding my adventurous side and discovered I have a definite exhibitionism streak. I'm just very very very very self-conscious of how I look under my clothes and I don't want to do this and have a physical proof of how heavy I am. Has anyone done something like this and how did it go? I'm also looking for outfits that are plus size friendly without being circus tents. I love the idea of lingerie but all the ads and pics show size 2 models and nobody my size/ shape....

Hope this goes really well and you enjoy the experience!

 

[pumperguy191]

My wife and I just did this for my Christmas gift. We talked about it quite a lot beforehand and came up with some ideas and then went to our resort. She started off in heels and one of my shirts, only. She did many poses and I was the photographer. They turned out amazing. I have the original shots, but I also cropped and edited the lighting on some of them. I then printed them and put them in a photo album. Boy, our kids are gonna have fun cleaning out our house when we are gone, lol.

 

[Sgts19]

My wife did a Boudoir photo session for me probably 35 years ago with a professional photographer in the area. No nudes back then. Since then, a friend of mine who's a professional photographer has done dozens of photoshoots of my wife over the years, with me and his wife present or them on their own. I've got?? Hundreds? thousands? of photo's he's taken from G-rated right up to XXX pics. It's always a surprise what I get after a photoshoot although I tend to like the action shots. Not a surprise to some I've talked to about this over the years.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Im a 48F, east of Atlanta GA. I have been divorced from a very loveless and sexless marriage for the last 5 years. I spent the last 4 years not wanting to date or have anything to do with romance. My ex-husband had me thoroughly convinced that I was plain, frumpy and ugly. I'm not skinny and I don't like the extra pounds I'm carrying. I've carried and delivered 2 wonderful children. I worked night shift nursing for over 20 years, getting terrible sleep and completely unhealthy nutrition and lifestyle. I'm now 5'9 and about 200 pounds. I'm very self concious of my belly, thighs and upper arms.

I've said all this to say this: I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man who is also recently divorced from a rather sexless marriage. We have been intimate and he made me feel completely comfortable and beautiful. I recently won a sweepstakes for a free boudoir photo shoot in Atlanta. I want to do it very much as I have been expanding my adventurous side and discovered I have a definite exhibitionism streak. I'm just very very very very self-conscious of how I look under my clothes and I don't want to do this and have a physical proof of how heavy I am. Has anyone done something like this and how did it go? I'm also looking for outfits that are plus size friendly without being circus tents. I love the idea of lingerie but all the ads and pics show size 2 models and nobody my size/ shape....

If you peruse these threads, you will see that there are a lot of us who adore big beautiful women. In and out of clothes.
Okay. Especially out.

 

[Hopeful1972]

Im a 48F, east of Atlanta GA. I have been divorced from a very loveless and sexless marriage for the last 5 years. I spent the last 4 years not wanting to date or have anything to do with romance. My ex-husband had me thoroughly convinced that I was plain, frumpy and ugly. I'm not skinny and I don't like the extra pounds I'm carrying. I've carried and delivered 2 wonderful children. I worked night shift nursing for over 20 years, getting terrible sleep and completely unhealthy nutrition and lifestyle. I'm now 5'9 and about 200 pounds. I'm very self concious of my belly, thighs and upper arms.

I've said all this to say this: I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man who is also recently divorced from a rather sexless marriage. We have been intimate and he made me feel completely comfortable and beautiful. I recently won a sweepstakes for a free boudoir photo shoot in Atlanta. I want to do it very much as I have been expanding my adventurous side and discovered I have a definite exhibitionism streak. I'm just very very very very self-conscious of how I look under my clothes and I don't want to do this and have a physical proof of how heavy I am. Has anyone done something like this and how did it go? I'm also looking for outfits that are plus size friendly without being circus tents. I love the idea of lingerie but all the ads and pics show size 2 models and nobody my size/ shape....

A: mature women have a confidence that shines through
B: nothing wrong with curves
C: you'll look sexy as hell

 

[IngaB]

Im a 48F, east of Atlanta GA. I have been divorced from a very loveless and sexless marriage for the last 5 years. I spent the last 4 years not wanting to date or have anything to do with romance. My ex-husband had me thoroughly convinced that I was plain, frumpy and ugly. I'm not skinny and I don't like the extra pounds I'm carrying. I've carried and delivered 2 wonderful children. I worked night shift nursing for over 20 years, getting terrible sleep and completely unhealthy nutrition and lifestyle. I'm now 5'9 and about 200 pounds. I'm very self concious of my belly, thighs and upper arms.

I've said all this to say this: I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man who is also recently divorced from a rather sexless marriage. We have been intimate and he made me feel completely comfortable and beautiful. I recently won a sweepstakes for a free boudoir photo shoot in Atlanta. I want to do it very much as I have been expanding my adventurous side and discovered I have a definite exhibitionism streak. I'm just very very very very self-conscious of how I look under my clothes and I don't want to do this and have a physical proof of how heavy I am. Has anyone done something like this and how did it go? I'm also looking for outfits that are plus size friendly without being circus tents. I love the idea of lingerie but all the ads and pics show size 2 models and nobody my size/ shape....

Very fun

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I'm so happy you have found someone who loves and admires your curves!

Catherine's, women within, maybe even Amazon has good lingerie

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Im a 48F, east of Atlanta GA. I have been divorced from a very loveless and sexless marriage for the last 5 years. I spent the last 4 years not wanting to date or have anything to do with romance. My ex-husband had me thoroughly convinced that I was plain, frumpy and ugly. I'm not skinny and I don't like the extra pounds I'm carrying. I've carried and delivered 2 wonderful children. I worked night shift nursing for over 20 years, getting terrible sleep and completely unhealthy nutrition and lifestyle. I'm now 5'9 and about 200 pounds. I'm very self concious of my belly, thighs and upper arms.

I've said all this to say this: I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man who is also recently divorced from a rather sexless marriage. We have been intimate and he made me feel completely comfortable and beautiful. I recently won a sweepstakes for a free boudoir photo shoot in Atlanta. I want to do it very much as I have been expanding my adventurous side and discovered I have a definite exhibitionism streak. I'm just very very very very self-conscious of how I look under my clothes and I don't want to do this and have a physical proof of how heavy I am. Has anyone done something like this and how did it go? I'm also looking for outfits that are plus size friendly without being circus tents. I love the idea of lingerie but all the ads and pics show size 2 models and nobody my size/ shape....

Kick ass woman you’re beautiful!!

 

[Lucien_Al]

My wife loves boudoir photography. She is a beautiful curvy woman and rather than hire a professional (which she was quite happy to have done) we would buy a really good quality camera and then explore this together. We have found some great brands of beautiful lingerie that really compliment curvy women.

The pictures are nowhere near the quality we see out there but we love them.

For us half the fun has been exploring this together and enhanced our sex life tremendously.