Break me

[sweetandkinky]

Wow, don't stand on ceremony davro, say what you really think!

Thank you very much for this post, it reads as passionate and heartfelt and I was touched by it.

I'm kind of taking a step back from this thread right now and having a think. The responses I've had have all given me insight and I've had lots of pms - not all of which I've replied to yet, sorry. So it's basically decision time for me at this point. I am grateful to have been offered so many opportunities to learn and grow in my desired sexual role and hope to find someone with whom I connect on other levels as well.

So we'll see...

Velvet

Good luck honey

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Good luck honey

Thank you sweetandkinky, appreciate the thought

*HUG*

 

[Rawhide_101]

Never a truer word spoken.

Words, some say, are meaningless...

Actions, on the other hand, speak volumes...

Some could conclude that actions are meaningless....

It's what in your heart that counts....

Follow your heart...

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Thanks Rawhide, that was a lovely post

Following my heart is all I can do at this point, see where I end up.

Velvet

 

[davro]

I would post something relevant Velvet but you know me,lost for words as usual ;-)

 

[cashmerekitten]

question

Please be kind here....So it is alright for a sub to get angry, and have their own thoughts and views? That is nice to know, although I am far from broken. I do tend to keep things to myself until I feel I may just explode.

And I don't mean 'broken' like damaged, but 'broken' like a horse. But I prefer a submissive who is willing to be stubborn and spritely, rather than one who bends to every single whim.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Please be kind here....So it is alright for a sub to get angry, and have their own thoughts and views? That is nice to know, although I am far from broken. I do tend to keep things to myself until I feel I may just explode.

Not necessarily angry I'd say but it can't be healthy for you or your relationship with your Dom if you're bottling things to this degree. Part of consent in this kind of relationship means that your Dom should know what you enjoy and what you don't, completely honestly. He may not always do what you enjoy but at least he has a clear idea of what you get from everything and what your tolerances really are.

Does that make sense? Feel free to pm if you want to talk further cashmerekitten.

Velvet