Bullying on forums
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BurningFloors
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Hasn't happened to me, but if its happening to you I'm sorry to hear about that. Can you block them?
Yeah i have so far. It's not really a 'sex positive' place if you are being attacked for commenting.
dennissara
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Seems like the haters love to try to harsh the buzz everywhere they go. I usually just mock them a little and see if they expend more effort ranting than my mockery. If I reply at all. Overall, they're just sad.
grumpyoldperv
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I am sorry you have experienced this. Other forums are safer from bullying- Playground, AmPics. The general Board can be a place only for the thick skinned and, sorry to say, overtly sarcastic.
UtilityCurve
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L, would you consider this bullying or honest disagreement? To me, it fits neither category well, but it's exactly the sort of thing that sends people underground.
Ramkhadak
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It happens
I can fight back
Yet today, I see no point in escalating the fight
The best is
1. To leave the thread
2.Put them on the Ignore list
lifeis2short2b
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I myself have been accused of bullying. I have a sarcastic side about me which rubs some people the wrong way.
My issue is some people who disagree with me say it's bullying and play that card. I have had pretty good convo in DM with people I disagree with. As opposed to the ones who just want to " Pick a fight" and are unreasonable on the thread in front of an audience.
I would say the worst place is the political board.
Shaglus_Ziegler
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Bullying in cyberspace is easily remedied! Just ignore it.
MuffandNonsense
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Too right, Shag. I received some aggressive manchild nonsense from a wanker who thinks he owns the General Board Lounge.
Didn't bother going back.
Simple solution.
Shaglus_Ziegler
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Silence can be very powerful. I’m working on getting better at using it! Cheers my friend! And those kind of people are beyond me. Lol.
Same. I hate bullying, and feel terrible when my direct manner is mistaken for it. The only exception would be when addressing those who directly, or through the gifs/jpgs they post, glorify non-consensual sex. Non-consent is not kink, it's assault and it has no place here on Literotica.
My heart breaks for the OP. My only advice would be to stay away from Lit, or at least the more argumentative forums, if you're feeling vulnerable. While it would be great if you could ask people to be more respectful and more thoughtful about their comments, they're not likely to honor the request. Anonymity gives people the courage to say things they would never consider saying in person.
PintlerMan
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Always remember, it's the internet, do not take anything that comes off the screen seriously. I like to end my "arguing" with moving the conversation to breakfast food.
FataMorgana
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Bacon is the way forward.
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