Can Porn be "A Fetish"?

[sirgary]

fet·ish also fet·ich - n.
1. An object that is believed to have magical or spiritual powers, especially such an object associated with animistic or shamanistic religious practices.
2. An object of unreasonably excessive attention or reverence: made a fetish of punctuality.
3. Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
4. An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.

Based on definitions #3 and #4, I'd say that in the OP's case, porn is a fetish.

...that says it all....

 

[unfoundiamond]

Damn....LOL

You sound like you might be a little more into it than myself, but I am quite into porn indeed.

I just checked the properties of my porn folder on my computer and it contains 145 gigabytes of videos. This is a fairly new computer, so this is only what I've downloaded in the last few years.

My sub was always a fan of porn as well. These days I stream the video to my big screen tv in the living room and we watch it together on the couch while whispering filthy sweet nothings into each others ear.

That's so hot...

You might not like porn as much as me, but I believe that you can stomach to watch things I don't find at all erotic...

(And that's not a bad thing... its just that I heard you talking about the double ended dildo scene in reqreium for a dream...and I think that scene was hardcore painful to watch)

You have a stronger stomach than I... I was grossed out... I think I am still grossed out...

(Not to talk about movies here, that should be done in YOUR thread, LoL)

 

[Marquis]

That's so hot...

You might not like porn as much as me, but I believe that you can stomach to watch things I don't find at all erotic...

(And that's not a bad thing... its just that I heard you talking about the double ended dildo scene in reqreium for a dream...and I think that scene was hardcore painful to watch)

You have a stronger stomach than I... I was grossed out... I think I am still grossed out...

(Not to talk about movies here, that should be done in YOUR thread, LoL)

Funny you should mention that scene. Bringing it to life has been a topic of much conversation between the old lady and I recently.

"ass to ass.... ASS TO ASS!"

 

[looking34205]

A fetish by the textbook definition is a object that you must have/need to come.

I have been addicted to the way porn made me feel since my best friend, Jene and I, found our first ever porno mag in her Dads cabinet.

He kept it in the kitchen cabinet above the stove, just above the hood(where the fan and exaust are) He also kept the crisco there... we needed the crisco that's how we found it.

I do, I Love Porn. And I think I have a fetish, but its not RL, and I see a diffrence.

I have a similar experience with porn. I started getting into porn when my best friend found a video that his older brother had hidden in the house. We were 13. The video was french and contained a lot of threesomes and orgies. Then my friend and I became bald enough to buy one porn card (from a deck of porn cards, older guys would buy the whole pack and sell them to us). It was a completely random card and as it turned out, was a double penetration shot. It was really hot.
Now, I have enjoyed porn for years and you can guess what my favorite type of porn is, you got it, double penetration.

I can say that somedays I spend a few hours a day watching porn, but I can see how people can become addicted. I have friends that every aspect of their life has something to do with porn and sex.
I can say that I have a DP fetish but as far as porn I would consider myself a porn enthusiast.

 

[unfoundiamond]

Funny you should mention that scene. Bringing it to life has been a topic of much conversation between the old lady and I recently.

"ass to ass.... ASS TO ASS!"

**ShIvErS**

Thanx for that... *wink*

Bad enough its 40 below in Florida today, don't need you giving me chills...

Hehe...

 

[WriterDom]

Yes, I think corn is a fetish if you need it to get off.

 

[unfoundiamond]

French Chix are HHOTT!

I have a similar experience with porn. I started getting into porn when my best friend found a video that his older brother had hidden in the house. We were 13. The video was french and contained a lot of threesomes and orgies. Then my friend and I became bald enough to buy one porn card (from a deck of porn cards, older guys would buy the whole pack and sell them to us). It was a completely random card and as it turned out, was a double penetration shot. It was really hot.
Now, I have enjoyed porn for years and you can guess what my favorite type of porn is, you got it, double penetration.

I can say that somedays I spend a few hours a day watching porn, but I can see how people can become addicted. I have friends that every aspect of their life has something to do with porn and sex.
I can say that I have a DP fetish but as far as porn I would consider myself a porn enthusiast.

Number one) FRENCH PORN is so hot... I don't know if its the women, or what... (and I do mean the NEWer shit personally... as I hate Bushes ...hehe)

But this one porn that was on my dads favorite list...

Had this petite french girl... and she had such a hot body... She made the hottest sounds and spoke french... oh GoD... I still remember her so well my pussy clenches...

But...

About DP... Yes... DP is hot as F*... but...

Is it a fetish object?... (I don't know the answer... I just thought...)

I am just not clear if an act can be a fetish...

I thought it had to be an object...

But I am now wet... and I am about to watch some porn... DP actually... (Bianna Banks and like 4 other people, if you are curious...hehe)

Its the new video of the week... (gotta love when the bf brings me porn)

Cya...

 

[HottieMama]

Unfound...Have you seen the new Sasha Grey porno, "Broken?"

SUPER hot!!!!!!

 

[unfoundiamond]

Yes, I think corn is a fetish if you need it to get off.

Corn... hehe...

First the Fedish/Radish comment...

Now corn... lol...

I guess we are garden variety freaks...


**note**(freak as in sexy porn freak... like superfreak or "freak" in the sheets freaks...not ment to be derogatory, JSYK)

 

[Primalex]

From a professional point of view, it is not a fetish. As you stated correctly, a fetish requires an inanimate object. Then even if it would be a fetish, it's not considered a disorder as long as it does not

lead to rituals that are so compelling and unacceptable as to interfere with sexual intercourse and cause the individual distress

So, watching porn while having sex is neither a disorder, nor a fetish. I'm sorry, psychiatrists will view your behaviour as normal (at least in this case) and within the acceptable range of the variety of humankind.

 

[Marquis]

**ShIvErS**

Thanx for that... *wink*

Bad enough its 40 below in Florida today, don't need you giving me chills...

Hehe...

No kidding!

I have my fucking heat on! I wasn't even sure it worked!

 

[Marquis]

Unfound...Have you seen the new Sasha Grey porno, "Broken?"

SUPER hot!!!!!!

I hate, hate, hate Sasha Grey.

Dominant bottom, toppy masochist, whatever you want to call her, she and her;

"FUCK ME FUCK ME FUCK ME YEAAAAAH I'M A WHOOOOORE"

bullshit just doesn't do it for me.

 

[HottieMama]

I hate, hate, hate Sasha Grey.

Dominant bottom, toppy masochist, whatever you want to call her, she and her;

"FUCK ME FUCK ME FUCK ME YEAAAAAH I'M A WHOOOOORE"

bullshit just doesn't do it for me.

Damn...Sorry, Marquis. LOL

i just happen to think she's hot...and it really is a well-made, well-done porn.

 

[Primalex]

I hate, hate, hate Sasha Grey.

Dominant bottom, toppy masochist, whatever you want to call her, she and her;

"FUCK ME FUCK ME FUCK ME YEAAAAAH I'M A WHOOOOORE"

bullshit just doesn't do it for me.

And Dustin Hoffman is fucking stupid, he has shown it in Rain Man.

...

No idea how you can hate a person because of the attitude shown in a movie...or even lines in a movie.

 

[Marquis]

Damn...Sorry, Marquis. LOL

i just happen to think she's hot...and it really is a well-made, well-done porn.

No need to apologize for a difference of opinion.

I'll totally check it out, by the way.

And Dustin Hoffman is fucking stupid, he has shown it in Rain Man.

...

No idea how you can hate a person because of the attitude shown in a movie...or even lines in a movie.

Are you two cyber-dating?

This is how this sort of thing usually gets started. In any case, allow me to clarify, I dislike Sasha Grey's "acting". As a porn star, she is not to my tastes.

What do I think of her as a human being?

The thought has yet to occur.

 

[HottieMama]

Umm...No. Primalex and i aren't together. i can fully comprehend how you can "hate" someone based on what they present in public. Hell, that explains my distaste for several people here.

 

[unfoundiamond]

(**secretly wonders is she is among the hated**)

Wow... fiesty fiesty...

LOL, Hottie...

When Marquis made the cyberdating comment, I thought he ment Pimalex and Dustin Hoffman....

LMAO

Damn I get shit confused...

 

[HottieMama]

Nope, Unfound...you're cool with me.

 

[unfoundiamond]

well. then....

I am curious Marquis...

Who would you say is your favorite pornstar? (Mainstream and otherwise) I am just curious...

I like Sylvia Saint, (I have a weird thing for slutty blondes) as far as mainstream goes...

And on the hardcore or bondagey stuff I preffer the grittyer, more amature stuff... I don't know any names... just download them offline or watch them on the videos... don't exactly check I.D. ...Hehe...

The only way I know their names, (like Sylvia, or Rocco, or Jenna, Brianna ect...) is from seeing them so many times in diffrent pornos...

I don't see as many of the same people enough to learn their names.
It wasn't hard before... seems like a onslaught of pussy... so many more "pornstars" now, I don't bother learning most names...

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Can I just execute a mini hijack and ask where people who claim they 'never pay for porn' actually view it? Aside from pornotube which has 5min snippets, where do you rip stuff for your own viewing pleasure without the aid of a creditcard?

Personally, as a general rule I hate standard porn. It has to be Mdom Fsub kinky with an uncontrived or 'amateur' feel.

Thanks in advance.

 

[Marquis]

I am curious Marquis...

Who would you say is your favorite pornstar? (Mainstream and otherwise) I am just curious...

I like Sylvia Saint, (I have a weird thing for slutty blondes) as far as mainstream goes...

And on the hardcore or bondagey stuff I preffer the grittyer, more amature stuff... I don't know any names... just download them offline or watch them on the videos... don't exactly check I.D. ...Hehe...

The only way I know their names, (like Sylvia, or Rocco, or Jenna, Brianna ect...) is from seeing them so many times in diffrent pornos...

I don't see as many of the same people enough to learn their names.
It wasn't hard before... seems like a onslaught of pussy... so many more "pornstars" now, I don't bother learning most names...

Most of my favorite pornstars are males. I do get the occasional crush on a female porn star and try to find a lot of their stuff for a while, but it does eventually get old.

Like you, I'm a fan of gritty, amateurish stuff so a lot of my favorite scenes are by actors unidentified.

However, Rocco Siffredi and Max Hardcore rarely disappoint. I can get down with some of the Bangbros videos, on account of their amateurish nature. All videos in the Bangbros dynasty are filmed close to me and I've "interacted" with a few of their starlets on a personal level.

I could name more;

Nacho Vidal, Mr. Marcus, Brandon Iron, Ben English....

Max and Rocco are the only ones I go looking for specifically, but I see enough shit to where I start to remember names.

 

[Marquis]

Can I just execute a mini hijack and ask where people who claim they 'never pay for porn' actually view it? Aside from pornotube which has 5min snippets, where do you rip stuff for your own viewing pleasure without the aid of a creditcard?

tnaflix.com has longer clips.

There is also a much better way to get videos but people who know about it tend to be very selective who they tell, for fear of it being shut down. I won't post it here, but if you send me a pm I will tell you.

 

[looking34205]

Number one) FRENCH PORN is so hot... I don't know if its the women, or what... (and I do mean the NEWer shit personally... as I hate Bushes ...hehe)

But this one porn that was on my dads favorite list...

Had this petite french girl... and she had such a hot body... She made the hottest sounds and spoke french... oh GoD... I still remember her so well my pussy clenches...

But...

About DP... Yes... DP is hot as F*... but...

Is it a fetish object?... (I don't know the answer... I just thought...)

I am just not clear if an act can be a fetish...

I thought it had to be an object...

But I am now wet... and I am about to watch some porn... DP actually... (Bianna Banks and like 4 other people, if you are curious...hehe)

Its the new video of the week... (gotta love when the bf brings me porn)

Cya...

Haha, I agree french porn stars are hot as hell. Especially when they moan and groan in french. Extremely hot. I remember watching the tape over and over and over again. My friend and I must have jacked off like 1000 times to that tape.
I wish my SO was more like you and let me watch porn with her. She can be quite the prude.
Also Briana Banks is quite the slut too. Very nice.
As far as porn stars, I am not sure which one is my favorite. There are several girls I like. One of them is that asian chick that weighs like 90lbs (I forget her name right now). Love the way she screams when she takes a huge cock. I am more into the girl next door type. Love amateur porn and love the pics and stories people put up here.

 

[chauderlos]

(snip)Had this petite french girl... and she had such a hot body... She made the hottest sounds and spoke french... oh GoD... I still remember her so well my pussy clenches...
(snip)

How amazing, a french girl who speaks french... the neverending mysteries of life never cease to amaze me

Joking aside, porn isn't a fetish per se, but for sure it can be an addiction. And like all addiction, cut the addict from reality.

Like many, I've discovered porn in my teens, though magazines (remember, I was a teenager in those obscure times when essentials such as IM, cell-phones, and remote controlled sextoys didn't exist) that showed barely more than you can now see on the billboards accross town.
Later, with the opening of that super-giga-pornstore that is the Net, I watched, and watched, discovered things that I couldn't imagine existed, explored every possible niche, spent countless hours hooked behind the screen...
Until the taste for it faded, slowly...
You see, my approach to sex - and life in general - is driven by a high sense of aesthetics. And it spoils my visual pleasure when the guy keeps his (preferably white) socks on while fucking, or when my attention is distracted by a pile of laundry near the bed...
So... I'm less interested in porn and more in erotica nowadays; the latter stressing on aesthetics, visual and graphic quality.

 

[ShyVixen]

Can I just execute a mini hijack and ask where people who claim they 'never pay for porn' actually view it? Aside from pornotube which has 5min snippets, where do you rip stuff for your own viewing pleasure without the aid of a creditcard?

Personally, as a general rule I hate standard porn. It has to be Mdom Fsub kinky with an uncontrived or 'amateur' feel.

Thanks in advance.

I used to review porn for a while, so that was how I got my fix. As for where people get free porn from, have no idea.

I developed a taste for the Max Hardcore stuff a while back. I remember a conversation I had with a gentleman at work who looked at me like my head was spinning a different way when I mentioned it.