Can Porn be "A Fetish"?
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unfoundiamond
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Sorry I have been gone so long...
LMFAO...
So... If I told you that I didn't secretly get both a laugh and strangely turned on everytime one of those chics gets mounted, then plunged and snaked, I'd be lying...
But dogs and chics are better tho...
LOL, I am only half kidding.
And I would never consider doing it myself, since I believe that I wouldn't violate a animal, I didn't know to be consenting,
I don't mind if someone else goes and fucks a horse... and shit... if she went through that, at least someones deriving some pleasure from it...
I am probably going to regret joking so much... oh well...
*giggle*
But Seriously....
Porn is cool because I am secretly scared of a lot of things I like to watch, like anal, or DP, beastiality, group sex... ect.
Porn is an escape... you get to do things you'd never dream of... and watch girls you will never meet, and leave somethings right where you find them...
And free from stds and misunderstandings.... I should be dating my porn.
...recently, I was reviewing a friends collection of porn that dealt with women with horses......I found it strangely humbleing...
LMFAO...
So... If I told you that I didn't secretly get both a laugh and strangely turned on everytime one of those chics gets mounted, then plunged and snaked, I'd be lying...
But dogs and chics are better tho...
LOL, I am only half kidding.
And I would never consider doing it myself, since I believe that I wouldn't violate a animal, I didn't know to be consenting,
I don't mind if someone else goes and fucks a horse... and shit... if she went through that, at least someones deriving some pleasure from it...
I am probably going to regret joking so much... oh well...
*giggle*
But Seriously....
Porn is cool because I am secretly scared of a lot of things I like to watch, like anal, or DP, beastiality, group sex... ect.
Porn is an escape... you get to do things you'd never dream of... and watch girls you will never meet, and leave somethings right where you find them...
And free from stds and misunderstandings.... I should be dating my porn.
looking34205
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I couldn't agree more. I have tried to tell this to my wife, but she won't hear any of it. She thinks it's disgusting. I find this to be really frustrating. But I do find porn to be a source of escape and relaxation. Unfoundiamond, how come my wife is not more like you??
Primalex
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Well, meeting is simple, just head to the next porn convention. More than meeting is more difficult, but even porn actresses marry.
unfoundiamond
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The Jealous Wives Club
I know, I feel sorry for my guy friends who tell the their SO doesn't allow/like them to watch porn...
I think more women are not like me about porn because they are insecure, They just see you comming for another woman, They see you being turned on by someone else and to me, its people being possessive... because they are naieve enough to think that being possessive will keep their man faithful... and it doesn't...
A lot of mainstream women think their husband is only to be turned on by them, and if anyone else turns him on its "wrong", or it must mean he would let any woman who turned him on, F* him... these are all misconceptions... but if your wife has these fears, or other ones, talk them out and reassure her, its worth it... (IMO)
I used to be uncomfortable about porn... then I got curious... and the rest is history...
I have learned a lot from porn... from techniques to exposure to diffrent "flavors" of sex...
I have always been really tied to logic, so I can't give any advice on what will change her mind, but maybe... (providing she doesn't have some actual bad expirience reguarding porn)
Have you considered getting into her mind, figuring out what secret fantasies she has, and getting porn SHE will like, that plays into HER desires, and watching it with her, giving her a nice shoulder rub, and being sure to remind her SHE is the focus...
Maybe if you can get HER to admit she likes watching it, but still enjoys sex with you most, she will be able to put herself in YOUR shoes, and see that you should be able to watch it since it is harmless to your feelings for her as it is to her feelings for you...
The only diffrence between me and most chics is I see a hot chic and think "yummy"... most girls see a hot chic and say... "is she better than me?"
I think porn is healthy, I am sorry she doesn't... best wishes on changing her mind...
I know, I feel sorry for my guy friends who tell the their SO doesn't allow/like them to watch porn...
I think more women are not like me about porn because they are insecure, They just see you comming for another woman, They see you being turned on by someone else and to me, its people being possessive... because they are naieve enough to think that being possessive will keep their man faithful... and it doesn't...
A lot of mainstream women think their husband is only to be turned on by them, and if anyone else turns him on its "wrong", or it must mean he would let any woman who turned him on, F* him... these are all misconceptions... but if your wife has these fears, or other ones, talk them out and reassure her, its worth it... (IMO)
I used to be uncomfortable about porn... then I got curious... and the rest is history...
I have learned a lot from porn... from techniques to exposure to diffrent "flavors" of sex...
I have always been really tied to logic, so I can't give any advice on what will change her mind, but maybe... (providing she doesn't have some actual bad expirience reguarding porn)
Have you considered getting into her mind, figuring out what secret fantasies she has, and getting porn SHE will like, that plays into HER desires, and watching it with her, giving her a nice shoulder rub, and being sure to remind her SHE is the focus...
Maybe if you can get HER to admit she likes watching it, but still enjoys sex with you most, she will be able to put herself in YOUR shoes, and see that you should be able to watch it since it is harmless to your feelings for her as it is to her feelings for you...
The only diffrence between me and most chics is I see a hot chic and think "yummy"... most girls see a hot chic and say... "is she better than me?"
I think porn is healthy, I am sorry she doesn't... best wishes on changing her mind...
