Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[Trubbycat]

Tomorrow, noonish I fly to Kenya and then onto Uganda. Kenya and Uganda are both seriously homophobic countries, i.e. it is a criminal offense to be gay there. The people that I work with there are nice and friendly and very diligent with their work but I have no idea what they as individuals think about their countries laws. So they think of me (as I imagine they do) as a single hard working asexual woman and I don't feel like making them think otherwise.

I don’t know anything about their ancestral beliefs but Christianity, coupled with colonialism, really did a number on these people.

 

[Trubbycat]

Is that what you named your penis Trubby?

I ever thought to give it a name but when we were dating my wife came up with one.

 

[Cindy027]

I would wouldn't want them commenting on your sexuality if you were not gay, so why should be a topic when you are.

Conversations have occurred in the past with respect to my dating status. It seems to be a good coffee break topic of discussion. My answer to these seemingly benign questions is I am single and focusing on my career until I move back to Sweden. I would much rather they think of me as xenophobic

 

[rjr_1954]

Also,
Coffee!
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Thanks, I've got a lot on my mind and forgot to post coffee.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Be safe please. I don't want to have to come over to Kenya and rescue you.

Also....you are a hard working person....your sexuality shouldn't play a role, regardless of what it might be. I would wouldn't want them commenting on your sexuality if you were not gay, so why should be a topic when you are. (OK...I may occasionally be a little "polyannaish").

I completely agree as your sexual preference should never be a. Issue. Be safe.

 

[rjr_1954]

I ever thought to give it a name but when we were dating my wife came up with one.

Mines "Fred" & Hers is "Freda"

 

[Cindy027]

I completely agree as your sexual preference should never be a. Issue. Be safe.

I don't think I would be in a position t be unsafe, I don't think I ever feel unsafe going there. I would love to tell them that I am very happy and in a wonderful relationship but I don't think they would understand that and I think it could change the dynamic that we have.

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

And @PlanetaryNebula , what do you think of this car? It made me think of your lips avatar.
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I’m kinda digging it!

 

[rjr_1954]

I’m kinda digging it!

What happens if it hits you? Do you get lips prints on your ass?

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

What happens if it hits you? Do you get lips prints on your ass?

God willing

 

[rjr_1954]

Goodnight Chaosians

 

[HeavyBalls]

*insert Beast ROAR here...

 

[rjr_1954]

*insert Beast ROAR here...

Good Morning @HeavyBalls

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Good morning, afternoon or evening. Getting ready with my coffee for a day of spending some time with my grandkids and hopefully a little time with my lady friend.

I’m nursing plantar fasciitis- hurts like hell at times.

 

[rjr_1954]

Good Morning @B2fromA2looking4U
Getting my only cup of coffee this morning as my doctor wants me to cut my caffeine intake (no decalf, yuk)
I have arthritis in both hands and this weather doesn't help, so I feel for you.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Good Morning @B2fromA2looking4U
Getting my only cup of coffee this morning as my doctor wants me to cut my caffeine intake (no decalf, yuk)
I have arthritis in both hands and this weather doesn't help, so I feel for you.

Aging is a pain .. .

 

[rjr_1954]

Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening Chaosians
Coffee?

Tea?

Cocoa?

 

[rjr_1954]

Aging is a pain .. .

My brother used to tell me "just don't get old"

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening Chaosians
Coffee?

Tea?

Cocoa?

Thanks bro!

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

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Mornings are also a pain int the ......

Hang in there Nebs

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Thanks bro!
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You got it sailor. How is life these days?

 

[Trubbycat]

Good morning, afternoon or evening. Getting ready with my coffee for a day of spending some time with my grandkids and hopefully a little time with my lady friend.

I’m nursing plantar fasciitis- hurts like hell at times.

I had it a few years back… with heel spurs. Brings tears to my eyes just remembering it.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

I had it a few years back… with heel spurs. Brings tears to my eyes just remembering it.

So far I find stretching in the morning, wearing socks in bed, then using a frozen water bottle to ice it. I am ordering a orthotic for my shoes to help. Argh just more things to be functional

 

[rjr_1954]

@B2fromA2looking4U
Will you thank (Cindy027) -Sweden- for facilitating the release of our American soldier from North Korea