Cock AVs******** shots

Sensualdreamer

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Okay for the life of me I do not get WHY a guy feels the need to use a Cock/Dick pic as his AV******** pic. I seriously don't get it...So guys feel free to explain.

Yes, I get I can turn off the AV - but sometimes given the names of the Litsters it's hard to know who is a male/female w/o the AV pic.

I don't know if I'm the only one but I see a cock pic for the AV and the thought that I first have is "he must be a dick".
 
Thank you for starting this thread! I am with you...I don't get it, and frankly, I don't need it shoved in my face. [insert funny joke about having a cock shoved in my face here]
 
It doesn't really matter to me - I view it the same as I view all shots. People come here seeking the freedom to express and explore, they should ideally be willing to accept that others are wanting the same.

I really like you SD, but I have to play the devils advocate on this one. Forgive me.
 
Well this is a porn site so you kind of have to expect things like that and also you can also just ignore the person.

I mean I can ask why women feel the need to show cleavage in their avi's.
 
Well this is a porn site so you kind of have to expect things like that and also you can also just ignore the person.

I mean I can ask why women feel the need to show cleavage in their avi's.

Pretty much this, objectification is objectification, no matter if you are showing off your penis, breasts, vagina, biceps, ass.... whatever.
 
Well this is a porn site so you kind of have to expect things like that and also you can also just ignore the person.

I mean I can ask why women feel the need to show cleavage in their avi's.



the big difference is many guys actually wanna see a womans cleavage. Chances are minimal that women want to see a guys dick like that. Women like mystery much more than men.
 
It doesn't really matter to me - I view it the same as I view all shots. People come here seeking the freedom to express and explore, they should ideally be willing to accept that others are wanting the same.

I really like you SD, but I have to play the devils advocate on this one. Forgive me.

I am inclined to agree with Riles.
Although I will say that oftentimes the person's AV******** Pic combined with their posts helps me to decide whose PM to answer and whom to place on the iggy list.
I have answered PM's from someone with a cock pic...but not real often.
 
the big difference is many guys actually wanna see a womans cleavage. Chances are minimal that women want to see a guys dick like that. Women like mystery much more than men.

I agree!!!!!!


Even women can admire women's cleavage. lol


I don't mind the guys having cock shots in their profile pic. B/C the only time I see them is if I were to click on their profile.
 
Well this is a porn site so you kind of have to expect things like that and also you can also just ignore the person.

I mean I can ask why women feel the need to show cleavage in their avi's.

I'll pretty much agree with this statement.

I am pretty sure their are women who show their Vagina's in profiles pictures and in their avatars. I mean when you come to a website like this you have to expect body parts being show, hell I encourage it, as a male I don't want to see a guys cock, but I don't mind seeing boobs, and Vagina's in avatar pictures.
 
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Well this is a porn site so you kind of have to expect things like that and also you can also just ignore the person.

I mean I can ask why women feel the need to show cleavage in their avi's.


I have often wondered why there is a double standard about that.

Tits or cocks, it is all showing off assets to me.
 
I started with a cock pick mine was with my wifes foot and heel I still have the pic in my profile. it was a quick way to express my fetish. I have changed it after talking to some very in helpful woman on the site I actually took multiple photos and allowed them to choose. While I have grown from the cock pic I do not regret it.
 
the big difference is many guys actually wanna see a womans cleavage. Chances are minimal that women want to see a guys dick like that. Women like mystery much more than men.

You're COMPLETELY leaving the GLBT forum out... If MEN like cocks and there are gay men here, obviously there's a whole demographic that (according to you) would like it.

(If you're talking about what i'd like to see in an AV that would be attractive, it'd be a diploma. XD)
 
the big difference is many guys actually wanna see a womans cleavage. Chances are minimal that women want to see a guys dick like that. Women like mystery much more than men.

See that's a double standard and you're generalizing all men and women here which is not fair. This is site pretty much anything goes, what about the people who like these cock avatars?

I think instead of making making thread about it, OP should just eliminate this whole argument by turning the avatar option off (if lit has that option) or just push the ignore button.
 
You're COMPLETELY leaving the GLBT forum out... If MEN like cocks and there are gay men here, obviously there's a whole demographic that (according to you) would like it.

(If you're talking about what i'd like to see in an AV that would be attractive, it'd be a diploma. XD)



I wasn't referring to anything in the gay forum...I was talking about here.. that was my perspective. I dont know or care to know how gay guys think, but maybe theyre into seeing guys cocks. But I would bet that most that are on the playground do not want to see a guys cock in his av. I never do...

so if you wanna put up a cock av, frequent the places where they'll be appreciated...and that isn't here..not IMHO.

thats all I meant.
 
See that's a double standard and you're generalizing all men and women here which is not fair. This is site pretty much anything goes, what about the people who like these cock avatars?

I think instead of making making thread about it, OP should just eliminate this whole argument by turning the avatar option off (if lit has that option) or just push the ignore button.



I'm basing it on my knowledge of women, and the experiences I have had with women that I've slept with and been friends with. I'll stick by what I said that chances are rather low that more than a small percent of women want to see that...and I'd venture to guess that most guys post cock avs to impress women.


I'm not changing my opinion on it..
 
I wasn't referring to anything in the gay forum...I was talking about here.. that was my perspective. I dont know or care to know how gay guys think, but maybe theyre into seeing guys cocks. But I would bet that most that are on the playground do not want to see a guys cock in his av. I never do...

so if you wanna put up a cock av, frequent the places where they'll be appreciated...and that isn't here..not IMHO.

thats all I meant.

...So gays aren't allowed in the playground? :rolleyes: Women who like seeing cocks aren't allowed to appreciate them here?

Don't get me wrong, I don't like seeing penises in AVs, but once you start censorship you open a pandora's box
 
I'm basing it on my knowledge of women, and the experiences I have had with women that I've slept with and been friends with. I'll stick by what I said that chances are rather low that more than a small percent of women want to see that...and I'd venture to guess that most guys post cock avs to impress women.


I'm not changing my opinion on it..


Yes based on YOUR experiences with women YOU'VE slept with, not anyone else. I'll respect YOUR opinion but I don't agree with it. Like I said this site not just the playground, but the site in general is about freedom to express yourself how you want to, if it wasn't I don't think many would stick around I know I wouldn't. But yeah anyways that's my thoughts on this subject.
 
...So gays aren't allowed in the playground? :rolleyes: Women who like seeing cocks aren't allowed to appreciate them here?

Don't get me wrong, I don't like seeing penises in AVs, but once you start censorship you open a pandora's box



Don't put words in my mouth, and shove the eyerolly thing.


I'm telling you that the vast majority of the women on here do not want to see cock avs. Period.


I'm not for censorship. I ignore the threads I don't wanna read. I did that with the incest thread and havent seen it since, and I have no desire to. The problem with cock avs is getting surprised by them. I dont wanna have to ignore all those people that have them.. I'm saying they are probably a waste of time. But whatever, I realize this is a porn site and I am in no way shape or form, a prude.
 
Yes based on YOUR experiences with women YOU'VE slept with, not anyone else. I'll respect YOUR opinion but I don't agree with it. Like I said this site not just the playground but the site in general is about freedom to express yourself how you want to, if it wasn't I don't think many would stick around I know I wouldn't. But yeah anyways that's my thoughts on this subject.



fine.. we'll agree to disagree. I have no problem with that..and have wasted more time on this than planned.
 
I think that if guys want to attract women/man that like cock AVs then they should post them by all means. Or if they enjoy showing it off or like getting comments on it, then good for them. But if their goal is to attract as many women as possible than they might want to rethink it cuz it will turn some women off ( on the other hand it will turn some one ) without them even getting to know the person or give them a chance.

There definitely should not be censorship, and as long as the person posting the cock AV understands and welcomes the reaction that happens then go ahead and pull out your cock for everyone. Just be aware that it may have consequences that were not intended
 
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