cock size...

[drainbamage]

downsides

yea, I'm getting curious why all the people on here <with a couple exceptions> all have mamoth cocks. For sure if we were that well hung, wouldn't we be out with the girls and stuff? I aint lieing about my size unfortunatly, and it's unfortunate because I've yet to find any girls interested in actually sleeping with me after they find out my size. Basically, big cocks suck ass. No girl will give me head, and only the rare one will actually have sex with me. So all you guys with normal cocks, be happy about it, aight?

 

[LoveMy]

Re: measuring a mans tool

I measure just under 7". Length will get you deeper but what about width? I am, during full erection, 2.5" wide. I understand that the nerves are on the lips and clit. A female point of veiw on length vs width would be great. I would imaging that both would be the ticket. Also how does a BOB compare to real men? I kind of got off the subject but I just have so many questions.

 

[Alyrahh]

In my opinion the girth is more important. Again, that's just my opinion. And really the girth doesn't matter all that much to me either. A man who's longer than average hits bottom and hurts like hell, unless you experiment with positions and still then, in my experience, there's pain. What matters the most to me, and I'd say probably to the majority of women, is the foreplay. If I orgasm during foreplay then it seems I can't stop orgasming once the act actually begins, reguardless of his size.

 

[Khryswhy]

You know...

You know, I'm 'only' 7 1/2 long (at least when I measured in 8th grade), and not really all that big around, but to this day, I still have several old girlfriends who (several years later) tell me that I'm the best they've ever had. maybe they're lying, but I think that most of it's in how you do it. I do think that it does matter how big you are. If you're 3 inches, & 1/2 around no woman is going to get pleasure from it, but in real life, if you're 10 inches & 3 inches around, most women aren't going to enjoy it more than once a week.
Maybe that's my justification, but I've only had one complaint (and that from a vindictive ex).

 

[dogma]

im not that big in length im only 7 1/2" but im very thick ,im 3"wide(across,not around),but its not size because i give anygirl im with at least 2 orgasms before i ever put it in

 

[ron_hall]

I have 8 inches but then i measure from my anus out... *LOL*

 

[razorlite]

Ermmmm i've got a penis!!!!

i aint to fussed how big it is!!! just enjoy making love to a sexy lady and making her orgasm a whole lot of times!!!

 

[readerofstories]

The last time I measure myself I was almost 6.5'', but I agree that size does not matter. I have not had sex before, but I do not think it shoud matter. Though sometimes in the locker room I do feel kinda small compared to some other guys.
Here is a question.
Does having a large soft cock mean that it is even bigger or does size when soft mean nothing compared to when hard?

 

[Big Ben IV]

Wow now I feel small with all these 8''+ guys around. Im 7'' long and 6'' around. What do you ladies think of my size?

 

[Big Aussie]

Does having a large soft cock mean that it is even bigger or does size when soft mean nothing compared to when hard?

There is no link whatsoever. Some guys only grow 1" from soft to hard, others much more.

I'm average Joe... 7.5" and not too thick but if I get a complaint about it I'm sure I'll work on it. My wife seems happy enough. Plus, as others have stated..... it's all about the foreplay and mind games before the act!

 

[JustFlow]

I read somewhere that the average cock size is 5.3 inches.

To follow up excitingone20's statement, I have also heard that there are alot of girls out there that like to suck a cock that isnt huge.

I'm 5" as well... but of course where I come from we always measure across.

 

[DLL]

I'm 5" as well... but of course where I come from we always measure across.

LMAO

 

[daveinsc]

Width vs Length

I am around 7.5 but my wife says that if I am all the way in that it hurts her. She says she loves 6.5 and WIDE. lol any ladies agree?

 

[DadsReady]

all i can say is, if i'm lacking because of the size of my cock, i'll more than make up for it with my tongue.....

 

[brasseye]

my gf measured mine a couple of months ago, it was 8 inches that made me happy lol

 

[andyoreilly]

seen with my own eyes

i have seen all sorts of shaps and sizes,being a bi-male had some too but i meet a guy recently that left my(measured) 9inch in the shade....i have pictures to prove it if your interested

 

[kittykateater]

I'm wondering if anyone out there has measured their boyfriends...
I wonder what proportion of people do actually measure in couples.
I also wonder how big or small people have witnessed.
I myself have been measured at 8 inches, and although my girlfriends all swear to have had something similar in size when they were 15, they have never actually measured a bigger one, which in a way is quite disappointing...

I've long heard the average length is 6 inches so I guess I've got that beat, my wife measured mine at 7. Everyone here claims 8 to 9 inches, so either you're a very unusually endowed bunch, or not very good liars! My 7" seems to be plenty for my wife, so it's good enough for me!

But I haven't seen anything on average width, I don't know if I'm bigger than average when it comes to what they call girth. My wife measured mine at 2" across (diameter), but since I'm seeing circumference reported here rather than diameter, I guess multiply that by pi (3.14) which makes me about 6-1/4" circumference.

My wife has a very narrow entrance, she says she loves how I fill her up completely and stretch her open very wide...all I know is it feels GREAT how tight she fits around me!

Of course, I spend lots and lots of time playing with my fingers and tongue before my cock ever comes anywhere NEAR her entrance! The key for both of us is to take our time and truly enjoy each other. Also, there are plenty of nights when I'm just content to get a few mouthfuls of pussy juice and don't need or want any more (note my moniker is KittyKatEater--as in I love the taste of my wife's kitty-kat!). Sometimes she repays the favor by sucking my cock--she does this with great skill and enthusiasm--but I neither ask for nor expect her to do that just because I've gone down on her (eating her pussy is its own reward in and of itself, not a means to get my cock past either of her sets of lips) and when she does suck my cock it's because she WANTS to--which luckily is quite often.

When I finally do enter her, it's very slowly so as to get her used to being stretched and filled-up--if I thrust too hard too soon I wind-up bringing her pain instead of pleasure--and when she feels comfortable, she'll ASK me to speed it up. I'll often mix it up at that point, a few slow and gentle strokes easing into her intermixed with hard, fast, powerful, and deep thrusts. She never quite knows if my next thust will be slow and easy or fast and hard, and that seems to get her all the more turned-on for me.

Do other guys get different degrees of horniness at different times? I seem to have that 7" length x 2" width in MOST of my hard-ons. But if we have been out for dinner and dancing, or hiking or bicycling or walking along the beach, holding hands, making eyes at each other, spending time in activities together without the kids and really talking, really bonding as a couple, when we finally do make love, I find I get a little bit longer, a little bit thicker, and much, MUCH harder than normal. I mean, I normally get hard enough, no complaints even if I'm NOT 9 inches, but on these special occasions I sem to go WAY beyond the normal degree of hardness. I'm curious, do other guys experience this? I get this SUPER horniness on average maybe once every 4-5 weeks. When my wife sees me (and feels me enter her) in this EXTREME state of arousal, she'll smile, kind of purr "Mmmmm!" and ask me, with a sort of cooing in her voice and a wide-eyed glowing smile on her face "Is all of that JUST for me?"

Hmmm, maybe I should have her measure when I reach this SUPER horny stage and see just how big I'm really capable of getting! 7" x 2" across is my NORMAL, now I wonder how big I get when I go "super-sized" on her! I suspect it's really not all that much longer or thicker than my normal hard-on, just much, MUCH harder!

I would love to hear from others about their experiences getting the occasional hard-on that's bigger, thicker, and harder than normal. Just kind of to know that I'm not unique about this, and curious to know what triggers it in others (with me it seems to be the hanging-out all day and bonding, the slow build-up and anticipation toward the powerfully intimate sex we just know is going to end our "date").

I'd post a photo my wife took of me at "super size" but I've heard that cock photos tend to get pulled off this site for some reason. So not sure I should bother, but I'll try...

By the way, in case you wondered, that's NOT us in my avatar. It's just that the height difference and physical builds are similar to us, the loving way he holds her and the way she is obviously enjoying this close and intimate contact with him reminds me of my wife and me; the photo really appeals to me!

 

[Pachanga32]

I've long heard the average length is 6 inches so I guess I've got that beat, my wife measured mine at 7. Everyone here claims 8 to 9 inches, so either you're a very unusually endowed bunch, or not very good liars! My 7" seems to be plenty for my wife, so it's good enough for .................post a photo my wife took of me at "super size" but I've heard that cock photos tend to get pulled off this site for some reason. So not sure I should bother, but I'll try...

I abbreviated your post. To answer your question, you are correct in your thoughts. The size of a soft penis has no direct correlation to the size of a hard one. Some men grow more than others when erect. I have not measured in i would bet 10 years. I would say that I have the absolut average cock size. I totally love it. The thing that I don't understand is that I have been with 3 or 4 women that have said I have the largest cock that they have had. And I know they were experienced women. It surprises me to hear that, because I consider myself average. I also agree that love making is an art, not about how deep and wide you can go. I have been told that I am a wonderful sexual partner. I enjoy hearing that, therefor I try very hard. My two cents.


- P32

 

[Dazz Hetfield]

I'm a little over 6 inches and personally think that anyone who says they are over is a liar, hell I've been in showers in school and college and also after a very gruelling gig with several bands which averages about 100 dicks in my lifetime and I was pretty much the biggest.

Not that it matters about size at all, good sex is more than just cock size, it's also tongues, foreplay, holding each other, romantic walks.

 

[Hellfire75]

As a long time chat room veteran I can tell you that I'm 12 inches long and 7 around.......

lmao

 

[~Coquette~]

Penis penis penis!!!!

Felt like saying that!

 

[kittykateater]

I abbreviated your post. To answer your question, you are correct in your thoughts. The size of a soft penis has no direct correlation to the size of a hard one. Some men grow more than others when erect. I have not measured in i would bet 10 years. I would say that I have the absolut average cock size. I totally love it. The thing that I don't understand is that I have been with 3 or 4 women that have said I have the largest cock that they have had. And I know they were experienced women. It surprises me to hear that, because I consider myself average. I also agree that love making is an art, not about how deep and wide you can go. I have been told that I am a wonderful sexual partner. I enjoy hearing that, therefor I try very hard. My two cents.


- P32

That wasn't quite what I meant. I wasn't talking about size when soft vs. when size when hard. I meant I have a certain size when hard, but every once in a while, I get even harder than my normal state of aroused. I'll already be hard but then something causes me to get a little longer, a little thicker, and a WHOLE lot harder than my normal hard-on. This state of SUPER arousal doesn't happen often, maybe every 4-5 weeks, whereas I get your average hard-on every day or sometimes several times a day.

I was just wondering if anyone else ever gets that extra-ordinary hard-on, beyond soft, beyond the NORMAl hard state, to a sort of SUPER hardness. If you haven't experienced that state BEYOND normal hardness, you'll have no idea what I'm talking about, but if you have, it is the most amazing feeling--for BOTH partners. My normal hard-on we've measured at 7" long x 2" across and let's call it brick-hard but this occasional SUPER hard-on I'm guessing might be 1/4 inch longer, 1/4-inch thicker than my normal hard-on, and not brick hard but now like diamond hard. It's like you normally get a Whopper every day and then once every few weeks you order it super-sized on top of that!

All I know is when I do get into this Super-Sized state beyond my normal arousal (I'm not talking here about the difference between soft and hard, but the differece between VERY hard and SUPER hard), my wife appreciates it VERY much. She tells me she finds it hard to believe that I can get this SUPER aroused because of her (she doesn't have the looks of a model but to me she is VERY sexy). When I slip her my cock in that SUPER hard condition, she has MORE orgasms than normal, and they are more INTENSE than her normal (which for her is saying something--I've never known any other woman to orgasm as much and as intensely as she does! And this is a woman who had never even HAD an orgasm before she met me!--it's almost like she comes SO hard to make up for all those years she never knew she was even CAPABLE of having orgasms!) When I finally do soften and slip out of her, there will be a huge volume of her juices soaked all over me because of my more-than-normally hard cock having excited her way beyond our normal coupling.

I can't believe I'm the only guy here who has three states instead of just two: soft, every-day hard, and once every few weeks SUPER hard. Surely someone else must experience this from time to time and be willing to talk about what triggers such super horniness in them, and how their partners react to that extreme state of arousal.

I kind of wonder if that's the next state of evolution--guys who can throw their horniness into overdrive and give that extra bit of length and width and hardness when the occasion calls for it. Am I on the leading edge of evolution here, with tis third hyper-drive state of arousal? Is anyone else there with me?

Anyway, if any of you guys have ever reached a state of horninenss BEYOND your normal hardness--or any of you women have ever had a guy get harder than his normal--I'd like to hear about it, sort of compare other's experience about this phenomonenon with my own experiences. Call it curiosity.

KKE, the KittyKatEater

 

[kittykateater]

Penis penis penis!!!!

Felt like saying that!

I have one. You don't. You can't have mine...only my wife gets mine. LOL

 

[kittykateater]

I'm a little over 6 inches and personally think that anyone who says they are over is a liar, hell I've been in showers in school and college and also after a very gruelling gig with several bands which averages about 100 dicks in my lifetime and I was pretty much the biggest.

Not that it matters about size at all, good sex is more than just cock size, it's also tongues, foreplay, holding each other, romantic walks.

Call me a liar if you wish, but I honestly do measure 7 inches in my normal state of arousal--a little more than that when SUPER horny (about once every 4-5 weeks). My wife had 5 lovers in 20 years of sexual activity before she met me but she says I'm the biggest she's ever had, and by far teh thickest, also the most attentive to her needs--and I gave her first orgasm (no man nor vibrator had ever done that for her)--in fact all of the orgasms she has ever had, since she's had no other lovers since we met! I'm not claiming 8, 9, 12 inches like some here, my measurements are honest. Of course, I've heard there's variatiions in how people measure. How we measure is with my cock laid flat up along my belly and touching my navel, we measure from where my cock shaft emerges out of my balls, all the way up along the shaft and the head, to where the very tip of the head touches my navel, and that's 7 inches.

Not sure size in the shower counts. I get bigger and harder when I'm with the woman I love than I have ever been while in the shower. Unless, of course, she's in the shower with me, in which case there's no other guy around to compare myself to at the time! In fact, when I shower with my wife, believe me, my size versus other guys is the furthest thing from my mind!

And right on: tongues, foreplay, holding each other, romantic walks, all trump cock size!

 

[Eilan]

All men have huge cyber penises. Just ask them.