**Confessions of a Wife**

Familiar surroundings.

I love him sure.

But I don't want to start again at my age
That is understandable. I hope that you don't let what is familiar become a prison. I hope that you are able to find the right balance that you are looking for.
If you don't mind me saying so, your age is never an issue. I am sure you have noticed already but there are several men (including myself) and women that you have been able to swoon in just your short time here. You are a very attractive and personable woman and I am sure that I am not the only one who sees that.
 
Thanks for sharing. Have you thought about having a sit down heart to heart with hubby and discuss where you both may be in the relationship?
Write down the pros and cons of your hubby and have him do the same. Maybe you both will realize what you both need ?
Maybe just maybe he is seeing someone else? Food for thought…
I think we are beyond that point now to be honest
 
Good morning gorgeous, wow great pic to wake up to and hello ladies 😉 would love to get properly introduced to them as I know many here would also 😈 just popping in to say hi and hope you have a great weekend.
 
Good evening,

About me:
Age 31
Married for 8 years
From UK


About my life:
Married but unhappy. I have been unhappy for about 2 years now. I love my husband of course, however, we don't have the same relationship we used to.

I have been looking for a home of sorts online. This is the 3rd site today. I will see which site is best for me as I don't have any interest in juggling multiple sites.

What's going on in my life:
For the first time I cheated on my husband 💔

Saturday 23rd.
Christmas party.

We went to a place where multiple groups seem to be having a late Christmas party. Probably because it fell on a weekend.

About 30 mins into the evening, I noticed a guy to my left about 20 feet away. He was in a large group of guys who. I noticed him because as the group as loud, he was the only one who was quiet. He was sipping on a glass of red wine, and I noticed him glancing over at me.


I looked away pretty sharpish and continued my night.

As the evening wore on and the drinks flowed, periodically I noticed him glancing over at me, the glances becoming longer and more lingering, I must admit, on both sides.

For the first time in ages, I felt something in the pit of my stomach. A feeling of raw attraction.

He was dressed in black Chinos and a light blue smart dress shirt, a sliver watch was glimmering in the light as he picked up his drink, looking at me.

As the night wore on, the glances turned to looks to staring. Then it happened, he smile at me.

My god, at the moment, I had to gather myself. I looked away without smiling back.

I resisted the urge to look at him again. I needed the bathroom.


I got up and made my way up the stairs of the venue towards the bathrooms. As I approached the door, I heard footsteps behind me. I instinctively, held the door open, as you do, I looked back. It was him,. He smiled again. I looked back as quick as I could.


The hallway was long, it seemed like forever but I made it to the bathroom. My heart was pounding, and more so, I was soaking wet. I shook my head as I looked at myself in the mirror, trying to compose myself.

I cleaned up. I was good. I made my way to the exist, he was standing in the hallway.


My heart started beating again. As I had to walk past him I heard him say excuse me.

I stopped and he asked me if I was having a good night. I replied politely, trying not to make eye contact with him.

As I opened the door, he asked my name. I turned around and said I was married. And walked out the door as fast as I could.


My knickers were getting wet again. I couldn't believe what was happening. ...
I don’t know if this is a true story or the start of a novel!

Well, married woman has my attention.

;)
 
If I'm honest, and I may regret saying this ......I'm not attracted to my hubby anymore
Are you not attracted to him, or just used to him.

Have you grown accustomed to how he kiss you, touches you and licks you?

You know, you could talk to him about it.

Just a thought, not a criticism.

😊
 
If you are too that point I am sorry 😞. Love is a strong emotion to have for your hubby but your heart and mind needs to be at ease as well!
Going through the emotions of your daily marriage may be exhausting and you are young and need to feel alive!
Starting over may be tough but it really may be what you need. Have you thought about a separation to see how things would proceed?
No I haven't. That wouldn't be the best move.
 
MalBec girl. You can’t give up that fast. Maybe try things you Two did at the Beginning. try going to a private Woods and enjoy Mother Nature with some Wine and Cheese and chocolate cover Strawberries 🍓. Just ask him what you want and then ask him what he wants. Can we see your Sexy eyes?
 
You expressed displeasure at the change of name but that happened in 1990 before you were even concieved....now that's a good memory. Is the rest of the story bullshit?
I was merely stating changes that had been made. I even thought it was mars.

I used the reference as friends that I have made here know I have a weak spot for chocolate and I had been discussing this via my DMs.

I'm sorry you feel the way you do about such a flippant comment by myself.
 

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I fully retract my comment and apologise most sincerely which I hope you will accept.
I won't lie.

I'm disappointed in your approach. You and I have been active via DMs. Some in which you told me some very elaborate stories.

Your choice of words also disappointed me.

I'm not here to make enemies though. I have enough of them in RL.

I would merely like to wish you all the best. We don't owe each other anything and I wish you find what you are looking for .

MB
 
Sometimes in life, we make mistakes or say things we regret, it’s called being human. How we deal with our past actions is what defines our relationships.

We apologize, we make up fo them and we move on hoping that the experience will teach us a life lesson, however small it may be.

Too heavy of a conversation for a self care Saturday evening! 🤣
 
Good evening,

About me:
Age 31
Married for 8 years
From UK


About my life:
Married but unhappy. I have been unhappy for about 2 years now. I love my husband of course, however, we don't have the same relationship we used to.

I have been looking for a home of sorts online. This is the 3rd site today. I will see which site is best for me as I don't have any interest in juggling multiple sites.

What's going on in my life:
For the first time I cheated on my husband 💔

Saturday 23rd.
Christmas party.

We went to a place where multiple groups seem to be having a late Christmas party. Probably because it fell on a weekend.

About 30 mins into the evening, I noticed a guy to my left about 20 feet away. He was in a large group of guys who. I noticed him because as the group as loud, he was the only one who was quiet. He was sipping on a glass of red wine, and I noticed him glancing over at me.


I looked away pretty sharpish and continued my night.

As the evening wore on and the drinks flowed, periodically I noticed him glancing over at me, the glances becoming longer and more lingering, I must admit, on both sides.

For the first time in ages, I felt something in the pit of my stomach. A feeling of raw attraction.

He was dressed in black Chinos and a light blue smart dress shirt, a sliver watch was glimmering in the light as he picked up his drink, looking at me.

As the night wore on, the glances turned to looks to staring. Then it happened, he smile at me.

My god, at the moment, I had to gather myself. I looked away without smiling back.

I resisted the urge to look at him again. I needed the bathroom.


I got up and made my way up the stairs of the venue towards the bathrooms. As I approached the door, I heard footsteps behind me. I instinctively, held the door open, as you do, I looked back. It was him,. He smiled again. I looked back as quick as I could.


The hallway was long, it seemed like forever but I made it to the bathroom. My heart was pounding, and more so, I was soaking wet. I shook my head as I looked at myself in the mirror, trying to compose myself.

I cleaned up. I was good. I made my way to the exist, he was standing in the hallway.


My heart started beating again. As I had to walk past him I heard him say excuse me.

I stopped and he asked me if I was having a good night. I replied politely, trying not to make eye contact with him.

As I opened the door, he asked my name. I turned around and said I was married. And walked out the door as fast as I could.


My knickers were getting wet again. I couldn't believe what was happening. ...
If you feel that hot about another man it’s obvious your lacking something in your marriage
 
Sometimes in life, we make mistakes or say things we regret, it’s called being human. How we deal with our past actions is what defines our relationships.

We apologize, we make up fo them and we move on hoping that the experience will teach us a life lesson, however small it may be.

Too heavy of a conversation for a self care Saturday evening! 🤣
Thanks 😊. Yeah I understand what you mean
 
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