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I confess that I feel so anxious at the thought of trying to have an orgasm while receiving cunnilingus.
I guess I feel unworthy to receive of such an affectionate act as oral sex.

WOW my self esteem is really really low
 
talkeasy5813 said:
I confess that I feel so anxious at the thought of trying to have an orgasm while receiving cunnilingus.
I guess I feel unworthy to receive of such an affectionate act as oral sex.

WOW my self esteem is really really low
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Going out on a limb here... But I'd like to test that theory.
(Was that out loud?)
 
talkeasy5813 said:
I confess that I feel so anxious at the thought of trying to have an orgasm while receiving cunnilingus.
I guess I feel unworthy to receive of such an affectionate act as oral sex.

WOW my self esteem is really really low
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I have known many women like that. Most because they feel unworthy and/or have had bad experiences. I have usually tried a slow go on them, making out and massaging. I will continue to kiss them as I stroke their breasts and clitoris. If they are receptive to that, I move forward again. It's very incremental with women like that. However, once they relax and allow me to bask in my element, it's common to get asked for it more.

Just ask yourself: What would I do to encourage a man to feel wanted during a blowjob? Men have the same hangups sometimes.

Good luck! :rose:
 
talkeasy5813 said:
I confess that I feel so anxious at the thought of trying to have an orgasm while receiving cunnilingus.
I guess I feel unworthy to receive of such an affectionate act as oral sex.

WOW my self esteem is really really low
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I confess to feeling this exact same way :(
 
13Fantasies said:
I have known many women like that. Most because they feel unworthy and/or have had bad experiences. I have usually tried a slow go on them, making out and massaging. I will continue to kiss them as I stroke their breasts and clitoris. If they are receptive to that, I move forward again. It's very incremental with women like that. However, once they relax and allow me to bask in my element, it's common to get asked for it more.

Just ask yourself: What would I do to encourage a man to feel wanted during a blowjob? Men have the same hangups sometimes.

Good luck! :rose:
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Usually I am just honest and look the man in the eye and say , “I want to suck your cock.” Or “Please let me suck your cock.” Then I lick and suck them how I want, paying attention to what they react to and how they react.
 
Eye contact !

talkeasy5813 said:
Usually I am just honest and look the man in the eye and say , “I want to suck your cock.” Or “Please let me suck your cock.” Then I lick and suck them how I want, paying attention to what they react to and how they react.
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MMmmmm...wishing for some sensual eye contact with you.....please look me in the eye...and say...and do your magic ! :devil:
 
talkeasy5813 said:
I confess that I feel so anxious at the thought of trying to have an orgasm while receiving cunnilingus.
I guess I feel unworthy to receive of such an affectionate act as oral sex.

WOW my self esteem is really really low
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I think many women fall into this category. I have a very hard time letting go which is probably win my fantasy of being tied up came along. I knew that that would be probably the only way that I would truly let go. That would take away the option for me to hold back anyway.

Don't feel like you are alone in this. I think many women have the same fear. :rose:
 
talkeasy5813 said:
I confess that I feel so anxious at the thought of trying to have an orgasm while receiving cunnilingus.
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SassySheDevil said:
I think many women fall into this category. I have a very hard time letting go which is probably win my fantasy of being tied up came along.
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I am lucky in the sense that I am confident that any even vaguely competent cunnilingus is going to make me come. Even if for some weird reason I wanted to not have an orgasm, I wouldn't be able to resist it for long.
 
ICT so far I have NOT been able to hold back my moans :devil: but I'm going to have to learn how to fast because I'm about to go to the mall wearing my new "vibrating panties"! :D
 
ICT it’s taken me a while to reach 10,000 posts and several times I’ve seriously intended sign off from here and leave.

IACT I’m a boringly imperfect misfit just hanging out watching all of the festivities and folks being amazing.

IFCT I’ve learned about some pretty freaky stuff some of the perverts here write about.
 
ICT I've been down and depressed over things for the last couple of months.

IACT this last week I've been feeling much better, more like my old self again.
 
talkeasy5813 said:
I confess that I feel so anxious at the thought of trying to have an orgasm while receiving cunnilingus.
I guess I feel unworthy to receive of such an affectionate act as oral sex.

WOW my self esteem is really really low
Click to expand...

ICT I was the same way until I met my husband. It's still me when I'm in a bad place, but that happens less than it used to. Weirdly, that feeling often gets better after some rough, degrading sex, like I need to embrace feeling worthless for anything but his pleasure before I can move on and accept something from him. He doesn't really like it, but he knows it's what I need when I get like that.
 
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