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[rlaflamme]

Sent several out this afternoon....nary one reply!

Getting a reply is not the easiest thing on the site, that is for sure, but it isn't the point either. You made an attempt to say hello, perhaps brought a smile and that is what it is about, sharing a smile.

Somewhere in the thread there is a long discussion about messages sent and never replied to, not sure how long ago it was though. People have talked a lot on the thread.

Keep smiling

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

Getting a reply is not the easiest thing on the site, that is for sure, but it isn't the point either. You made an attempt to say hello, perhaps brought a smile and that is what it is about, sharing a smile.

Somewhere in the thread there is a long discussion about messages sent and never replied to, not sure how long ago it was though. People have talked a lot on the thread.

Keep smiling

I think I was one of the commenters in that discussion bemoaning the lack of response on PMs. I think it was a week or two ago, not sure exactly.

 

[rlaflamme]

Sent several out this afternoon....nary one reply!

I think I was one of the commenters in that discussion bemoaning the lack of response on PMs. I think it was a week or two ago, not sure exactly.

That sounds right. Thank you There have been a lot of discussion throughout the thread sine I started it. I can't remember what is where lol.

Keep smiling

 

[Stillrandy]

I initiated a p.m. conversation with a lady who recently asked in this thread for a p.m. It was a lovely exchange, very above-board and pleasant; we spoke of things of mutual interest, just a touch of matters sexual. I sent one, she replied, I sent another. And then...she disappeared; her username is gone, etc. Poof. No longer on the site. Sic transit Literotica...

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

I initiated a p.m. conversation with a lady who recently asked in this thread for a p.m. It was a lovely exchange, very above-board and pleasant; we spoke of things of mutual interest, just a touch of matters sexual. I sent one, she replied, I sent another. And then...she disappeared; her username is gone, etc. Poof. No longer on the site. Sic transit Literotica...

That kind of shit happens unfortunately. People leave without warning; we can only speculate why.

The ones that annoy me are the guys that ask for PMs in the request a PM threads that you find in the personals. I used to send out several a month to random guys just to see if I could find a friendly voice amongst them. And my return rate would be about 50%. The thing that burned my ass about it was the same guys that did a no-answer to my PM would pop up later in the same thread begging for a PM. What the fuck???? I guess my message wasn't up to their "standards", i.e. I didn't solicit them for cybersex So fuck them! I don't bother sending random ones anymore. Why should I even bother?

 

[cole4258]

I send out PM's to various ladies here. Most reply with a cordial response.

I think many ladies are turned off with the short and somewhat rude pm's that are sent.

I do try to keep it nice and pleasant, but usually somewhat flirty.

What can I say

 

[cole4258]

You’re a Lit treasure, cole.

Awww thank you.

<blushing now

 

[thefishfryer]

There was a thread a good while ago called something like "Why I didn't answer your PM" It was mostly amusing, but had some serious points amongst the humour.

 

[thefishfryer]

I didn't answer your p.m. because.....

Thank you, I'm surprised it carried on so long. I missed a lot during my hiatus.

 

[rlaflamme]

There was a thread a good while ago called something like "Why I didn't answer your PM" It was mostly amusing, but had some serious points amongst the humour.

I didn't answer your p.m. because.....

What a great thread, thank you both! It is interesting, although some of the things in there are more for humor, it is not a bad thing to look through as it does apply I think.
Keep being friendly, being respectful, being responsible, being kind.

Keep smiling

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

What a great thread, thank you both! It is interesting, although some of the things in there are more for humor, it is not a bad thing to look through as it does apply I think.
Keep being friendly, being respectful, being responsible, being kind.

Keep smiling

I'd totally forgotten about that thread. I bumped it; we'll see if it comes back to life or dies another slow and lonely death.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I'd totally forgotten about that thread. I bumped it; we'll see if it comes back to life or dies another slow and lonely death.

Looks like your bump got things going again

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

Looks like your bump got things going again

Yes, it just needed a good kick in the ass!

 

[cheekygirl75]

Yes, it just needed a good kick in the ass!

It's a good thread, thanks for bumping!

 

[rlaflamme]

A few more.

Let's Talk About... 'Ghosting'
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1319756

Ghosted - what do you think when it happens
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1537343

Your Advice To A New *litster*
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=457743

What have you learned from a Litster?
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1516476


Not from the PG

Ghosting...
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1517651

PM asshattery
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=750187

How Do You Manage Unsolicited PMs?
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1531664

Wow! There are a lot of those things on here, I had no idea. Thank you for sharing. And I do miss our conversations!

Keep smiling

 

[rlaflamme]

Sometimes life gets busy and we lose contact with people we used to talk to a lot. It happens. Take some time and think of some of the people that were a positive influence in your life, smile thinking about the conversations. Remember the good times.

Keep smiling

 

[cheekygirl75]

Sometimes life gets busy and we lose contact with people we used to talk to a lot. It happens. Take some time and think of some of the people that were a positive influence in your life, smile thinking about the conversations. Remember the good times.

Keep smiling

Very true, I've been doing this a lot lately. Even better to send a quick "hey, I'm thinking of you" message or call. I had a friend I haven't talked to much over the last few years do that the other night. Getting to talk to her made my week.

 

[rlaflamme]

Very true, I've been doing this a lot lately. Even better to send a quick "hey, I'm thinking of you" message or call. I had a friend I haven't talked to much over the last few years do that the other night. Getting to talk to her made my week.

It truly is a wonderful thing. To check on someone or have someone check on you. You can reconnect, catch up, share some laughs and smiles.

Keep smiling

 

[rlaflamme]

We live in a world that moves very quickly now. If we blink another day seems to have passed and we are not sure where it went. Things seem to be darker. News reports drive the bad into our heads, Covid constantly is nipping at our heels. Things just seem, well, bad. But they don't have to be. We need to take some time to look at the good things around us, smell the flowers, breath in fresh air. Just sit back and watch the stars appear. We need to remember there are many good things around us.

Take some time to take in the simple pleasures of life and find your smile. Share it with someone. Let them know you are thinking of them. Spread kindness and some positive vibes.

Keep smiling

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

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This could symbolize a conversation, smiling at one another, two orange Pac-Man symbols or that I’m a bit hungry…at 7:52am, not moved out of bed yet…yeah, I’m hungry…

 

[mynameisben]

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This could symbolize a conversation, smiling at one another, two orange Pac-Man symbols or that I’m a bit hungry…at 7:52am, not moved out of bed yet…yeah, I’m hungry…

It looks like a pair of tits in a highly aroused state to me. But then, everything looks that way to me.


Ben

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

It looks like a pair of tits in a highly aroused state to me. But then, everything looks that way to me.


Ben

This is Tess Holliday. Good for conversations I think, nice for some to wake up to and will make some smile.

She is the first plus sized model ever to be given a large major contracts with current regular sized brands. I keep making adjustments to this because she wasn’t the first plus sized model, but CURRENT brands known for waif thin models took her on.

 

[rlaflamme]

Send out a random message to someone, say hello and mention something that drew your attention to them. See if you can brighten there day a bit. Be kind and respectful. You might find a new friend.

Keep smiling

 

[rlaflamme]

Share a smile today. Just a smile, just a simple little thing really. There are many time that it is hard to manage a smile, things are just not going right and they seem to be getting worse by the second. That smile just won't show itself on its own and you have to force one. And that is okay. The smile you are sharing is going to bring a real smile to another. And then they share theirs and the circle begins. And, in time, that smile that you gave becomes a smile that comes back to you, and you get to feel the corners of your lips curl up on their own. Your pretend smile came back to you as a real one and it made a real one appear. Full circle.

Keep smiling

 

[rlaflamme]

Look for an old friend today. Reach out to them and see how they have been. Let them know you have been thinking of them and hoping all has been well.

I know, I did this same thing a few days ago, but I was a bit lost on what to add. Then I received an email from an old Army friend and it made me think we should reach out to old friends more often. So, here it is, again. reach out and check on someone.

Keep smiling