Couples Flirting in Forums?

[kendra1980]

I've enjoyed most of this thread, except a few posts that seemed to get a little heated and denigrating. I didn't see anything wrong with the OP's original post -- it's fair to ask a question as long as you're open to a wide variety of responses.

And I loved omahaman's story of true romance found on the Lit boards

So I'm very grateful that you started this thread mrno.

and therein lies the rub.

 

[kiba]

and therein lies the rub.

therein lies the rub
stop the sex talk

 

[kendra1980]

therein lies the rub
stop the sex talk

gutter boy...you like it, and you know it.

 

[Tastester]

gutter boy...you like it, and you know it.

Careful, this may be considered flirting........
Oh yeah it would only be an issue if it was natty....

 

[NattyBumppo]

Careful, this may be considered flirting........
Oh yeah it would only be an issue if it was natty....

Kiba is my duly-appointed proxy for romantic messages to Kendra on this thread.

 

[Tastester]

Kiba is my duly-appointed proxy for romantic messages to Kendra on this thread.

Oh no, now its going to really be an issue lol.

 

[Guest]

i would offer a word of advice. flirting on the threads is a life changing experience, not always for the better. i wish all of you in these relationships the best. it does my heart good to see love flying around. for me, it did my heart good to see the love that came to me after i was taken for the ride of my life.

That's the trouble sometimes.... too many players on Lit....you never know and can end up devastated.

As one of the possible 'couples', I think I actually get what the OP means. He just articulated it badly I feel.

And maybe, just maybe he understands why a bit more now.

As many have said before, a lot of us can't be together in public, and some may never meet, so this is the place we can be 'out there'. But I do get his point when sometimes it gets out of hand and goes on for page after page after page..... and that irks me about flirting between 'non-couples' as well. Though not enough to start a thread about it, LOL. People have sometimes said they don't post in Razzy and my thread when we are being 'cute'.... as they feel they are intruding, and while I understand why they don't... that's not our intention at all.

I guess I see all sides.

 

[RyanBlack]

I am SHOCKED! SHOCKED I say to discover there is flriting going on in this place!!!


(playfully bats eyes at NB)

 

[Lorilei]

That's the trouble sometimes.... too many players on Lit....you never know and can end up devastated.

As one of the possible 'couples', I think I actually get what the OP means. He just articulated it badly I feel.

And maybe, just maybe he understands why a bit more now.

As many have said before, a lot of us can't be together in public, and some may never meet, so this is the place we can be 'out there'. But I do get his point when sometimes it gets out of hand and goes on for page after page after page..... and that irks me about flirting between 'non-couples' as well. Though not enough to start a thread ablout it, LOL. People have sometimes said they don't post in Razzy and my thread when we are being 'cute'.... as they feel they are intruding, and while I understand why they don't... that's not our intention at all.

I guess I see all sides.

OMG, a reasonable and thoughtful man who's able to see the side of things! Should we alert the media? {{{{DB}}}}

 

[Guest]

OMG, a reasonable and thoughtful man who's able to see the side of things! Should we alert the media? {{{{DB}}}}

Thank you lolly.

 

[kendra1980]

(playfully bats eyes at NB)

HEY YOU!!! Stay away from my man.

*and I know what you've got in your eye*

 

[kendra1980]

Sometimes when it goes on for page after page, as I've stated before, is is because no one is in that thread, it is wide open, and a couple might take the thread over because no one else is in there interacting.

I know for Natty and I, we welcome that, and get a kick out of others joining us.

I will say kudos to you, DB, because you did include NON committed couples in your comment. It happens with them as well.

 

[Guest]

Sometimes when it goes on for page after page, as I've stated before, is is because no one is in that thread, it is wide open, and a couple might take the thread over because no one else is in there interacting.

I know for Natty and I, we welcome that, and get a kick out of others joining us.

I will say kudos to you, DB, because you did include NON committed couples in your comment. It happens with them as well.

Thanks kendra.

I would say though that it may be because 2 people are flirting outrageously (commited or non-committed... christ knows why the OP differentiates) that no-one joins in. A few people have told me that's why they haven't posted in Razzy and my threads when we're being 'sappy', when I've asked them.

I'm not saying anything is right or wrong, as I said, I can see both sides and have been guilty of flirting and keeping people away, and also of staying away because people are flirting. But that's my choice and I certainly don't chastise anyone for doing it.

I do however think the OP had a fairly interesting subject and it could have gone better had he taken more care wording it.

 

[mwmnpa]

Good Christ, this thread was taken delightfully far off topic and now you saps had to bring it back!

 

[Lorilei]

Good Christ, this thread was taken delightfully far off topic and now you saps had to bring it back!

*flirt flirt flirt*

 

[mwmnpa]

*flirt flirt flirt*

*flirts back* *flirts back* *flirts back*

 

[NattyBumppo]

*flirt flirt flirt*

These two posts are perilously close to violating the newly promulgated rules regarding committed couples posting to each other in the same thread. Beware.

 

[Lorilei]

*flirts back* *flirts back* *flirts back*

These two posts are perilously close to violating the newly promulgated rules regarding committed couples posting to each other in the same thread. Beware.

We are totally uncommitted, so we're cool.

*flirt flirt flirt*

 

[Guest]

These two posts are perilously close to violating the newly promulgated rules regarding committed couples posting to each other in the same thread. Beware.

What if I talk to kendra and you talk to razzy?

On the SAME THREAD!!

What happens then?

Is it like matter/anti-matter colliding?

 

[Lorilei]

What if I talk to kendra and you talk to razzy?

On the SAME THREAD!!

What happens then?

Is it like matter/anti-matter colliding?

Wouldn't that be one of the signs of the Apocalypse?

 

[NattyBumppo]

We are totally uncommitted, so we're cool.

*flirt flirt flirt*

OK, I get the hint: flirt, flirt, flirt, nice legs, flirt, flirt, flirt, nice boobage, flirt, flirt, flirt, nice tucus, flirt, flirt, flirt....

 

[Lorilei]

OK, I get the hint: flirt, flirt, flirt, nice legs, flirt, flirt, flirt, nice boobage, flirt, flirt, flirt, nice tucus, flirt, flirt, flirt....

See? Was that so hard?

 

[NattyBumppo]

See? Was that so hard?

I think it's more appropriate for you to direct all questions related to hardness to the resident hard ass, mwmnpa.

 

[Lorilei]

I think it's more appropriate for you to direct all questions related to hardness to the resident hard ass, mwmnpa.

 

[mwmnpa]

I think it's more appropriate for you to direct all questions related to hardness to the resident hard ass, mwmnpa.

And don't you ever fucking forget that.

OK, the first antiflirt has been posted in this thread.